Have you watched the Taiwanese drama "We Are Not Kind Enough"?
In addition to the nostalgic stalks of Ariel Lin and Xu Weining, the old friends of "Evil Kiss", what touched me was the shrewd senior sister played by Liu Ruoying, who will mention the heroine.
In my impression, Liu Ruoying is a drop of literary, gentle, and beautiful tears of the times.
But in fact, few people know that she is the same as the image in this play, she has a wide range of contacts, left and right, and a circle of luxury friends who are true friends.
has a strong career, and her actual performance is not inferior to Zhang Ziyi and other big flowers, and even surpasses it, she is an all-round artist with excellent singing, acting, and directing, and she is a strong and shrewd modern woman.
The contrast is so big, so curious.
This year happens to be the 30th anniversary of Rene Liu's debut.
Zhang Aijia excavated her at the beginning because she was an I person who blushed at every turn, how did I people accumulate so much wealth in life?
Let's take a look at her luxurious circle of friends and amazing report card first.
There are actually a lot of social e-people with high emotional intelligence in internal entertainment, but they often make nodding friends, wine and meat friends. What is Niu Liu is that she has made lifelong friends.
In addition to the two masters who took her debut, Chen × and Zhang Aijia, Li Zongsheng, Zhou Huajian, and Zhang Xiaoyan, the godmother of Taiwan Entertainment host, are all her New Year's friends.
When she was 40 years old and longed for marriage but had not been smooth, Zhang Xiaoyan and Zhang Aijia, the two senior elder sisters, were always willing to spend 6 or 7 hours to enlighten her.
Later, when I heard Zhang Xiaoyan's warm words after marriage, I would still cry.
What moved me was Zhang Xiaoyan's reaction-
First, he immediately scolded with a black face: "What are you crying about!"
But immediately he said softly: "It's all over."
This is the natural reaction of elders who feel sorry for their children like mothers: anger is because they are really distressed.
There are even more friends of similar age.
In 1998, he met Wu Bai in "Marriage Notice", and they were both frequent guests at each other's concerts.
In 2000, I met Zhou Xun when I filmed "April Day in the World", and the two had nothing to do to play together.
I love this picture of the actress shopping, it's so cute
There is a magical origin, Zhou Xun's predecessor Daqi was originally a friend of Liu Ruoying, because Zhou Xun asked Liu Ruoying to recommend the reliable Tony, so there was a later.
In 2014, Zhou Xun got married, holding her husband at the time with one hand and Liu Ruoying with the other. It is equivalent to saying that no matter which one comes later, a man can change, but Liu Ruoying will not change.
In 2018, Liu Ruoying directed "Later Us" for the first time, and the script was written by Zhou Xun who encouraged Liu Ruoying.
In 2004, "There Are No Thieves in the World", and Andy Lau and Wang Baoqiang have been friends for 16 years.
In 2023, Andy Lau asked Rene Liu to sing a promotional song for the starring "The Crowd", and took the opportunity of this song to record a VCR to thank Rene Liu, who has been in the industry for more than 40 years, and is very lucky to meet Rene Liu, a true friend.
In the same year, Wang Bao's directorial work "In the Octagon Cage", which proved his strength, was also a promotional song sung by Liu Ruoying.
Liu Ruoying revealed that for so many years, Wang Baoqiang would remember her birthday every year and send her 666 red envelopes. And Wang Baoqiang is very grateful to Liu Ruoying for her unconditional support at the critical moment, he will always be the silly brother of milk tea and an eternal relative.
In 2007, he filmed "There is a Ghost in My Heart" and became friends with director Teng Huatao, and Liu Ruoying's husband was the one he pulled into.
In 2011, "Extreme Angel" met Tang Wei, and in the 2016 Liu Ruoying concert, Tang Wei had to go to the audience to support her with a pregnant belly.
In the same year, "Love in the City" met Gui Lunmei and became old friends. In 2020, Gui Lunmei walked into the recording studio to sing for the first time in her life, just for her friend Liu Ruoying, the song "I Want You to Be Good", which collected the 4 goddesses of literature and art.
In 2018, during the publicity period of "Later Us", Zhou Xun, Tang Wei, and Wang Baoqiang all came to the scene to help in person.
Moreover, connections are only one of the mediocre strengths of milk tea.
There is no shortage of all-round artists in domestic entertainment, but the amazing thing is that there are really few people who can beat the seemingly mediocre Liu Ruoying.
Films, Golden Horse Golden Statues, Asia-Pacific Film Festival, Hong Kong Bauhinia, Tokyo Film Festival won a grand slam, with numerous nominations, TV series, Magnolia, Golden Bell Awards.
There are too many music, pop charts and various awards to count, and the song of the same name composed for the movie "Nian Nian" was nominated for the Academy Award for Best Original Film Song, and the latest album in 2021 is still winning numerous awards.
Not only the songs, but also her own personal website, and the concert also won awards.
The drama also won the actress award.
As a director, nominated for five Golden Rooster Awards and Golden Horse, "Later Us" had a box office of 1.36 billion that year, and in June 2022, South Korea's SHOWBOX Film Investment and Distribution Company announced a remake.
Liu Ruoying has also written non-stop, published 12 books, and was the first most popular female artist in the 2004 Readers' Festival. Moreover, Zhang Aijia's "20 30 40" series is actually an idea given by Liu Ruoying, who participated in the creation of the script, and the movie "Happy Birthday" was adapted from one of her short articles.
She has a wide range of activities, and her representative work is not a coincidental one or a certain song, but several classic works in each field, which is enough to prove her strength.
Whether it is friends or works, these two have one thing in common, most of them are very unique in temperament, and they are also very "Liu Ruoying".
For example, Zhou Xun, Tang Wei, and Gui Lunmei, who she played the most, or the works she sang, wrote, and acted......
In an era when the argument e e person is more suitable for "mixing rivers and lakes", Liu Ruoying, as an i person, as mentioned above, has also achieved the TOP level, and Piao has to pick up her methodology again.
Zhang Aijia said that in this year, it is rare to see a girl who blushes and is shy when she speaks, and Liu Ruoying at the first meeting was like a person who didn't know which era she had crossed over, so she was chosen as a newcomer to play the simple "Girl Xiaoyu" in the midst of doubts.
Later, many years after her debut, she still blushed at every turn.
Rene also likes to immerse herself in her own world.
The bridge section excavated by Master Chen, the online version has its own ambiguous atmosphere, saying that it was amazed by Liu Ruoying wearing a swimsuit by the swimming pool.
But the reality is full of joy -
Wearing a borrowed fluorescent swimsuit, she used the pool as a training ground and immersed herself in her own world.
She said that she was slightly fat at the time, and other beauties were all hibiscus out of the water, and she went ashore with a "poof", it was difficult not to have a sense of existence.
Since entering the industry, she has deliberately erased the delicate feminine qualities of herself, and instead highlighted her blunt sensibility.
It's her philosophy of survival in a male-dominated world.
Liu Ruoying's bluntness is a kind of stupid cuteness that she doesn't know, although she is often embarrassed, but it is also conducive to her and all kinds of people to break their defenses.
For example, when we met for the first time, senior Zhou Huajian asked her, what do I call you Xiao Liu or what?
She said seriously, oh, just call me little milk.
Zhou Huajian was left messy in the wind, and when Zhou Huajian mentioned it again many years later, she realized it and laughed stupidly.
Once I talked to Zhang Aijia about men, she said that she was slow to heat, and she felt that she was still ambiguous, and the other party was already married.
Then he sighed seriously: Hey, I think it's really hard for men to last~
Her mouth was dirty, the hostess was laughing until her face was red and flustered, and the professional partitions were smashed under her messy fists, and the atmosphere was much lighter.
Dutness also means being able to make jokes and withstand criticism.
When Zhou Huajian broke the news of the "little milk" in "Kangxi", it happened that she came to promote the concert of the Little Milk, so the god terrier Wang Xiao S immediately ridiculed her as the queen of the little milk, and said that the Little Milk Giant was neat.
She wasn't annoyed, and even said that it was acceptable for fans to shout like this hahaha.
To this day, she and Xiao S are still friends who exchange parenting scriptures.
After becoming famous for many years, Mayday Martha, who was in the same company, moved a stool to sit opposite, and seriously commented that she was actually not good at singing, and was scolded and cried by Zhang Aijia in public on the street, but she didn't mind it at all.
said that she was really grateful to the people who criticized her, and in turn invited Martha to help her write songs.
So in many people's evaluations, "boyishness" is her label, and it is easy to feel that it is easier to get along with the big swagger.
is not upright, and often blows up his shortcomings and embarrassment, so it makes people feel amiable.
Even netizens feel that Chen Luyu, who is not a high businessman, loves Liu Ruoying very much and spoke highly of her interview:
said that interviewing others would be tiring, but Liu Ruoying would not, chatting like two good friends of the same age, using the word "very, happy".
After all, in that interview, Liu Ruoying vividly exposed the embarrassment of the microwave explosion at home, which made Lu Yu laugh non-stop.
And the so-called "boyishness" actually has nothing to do with gender, but should be said to be a kind of pride and atmosphere of children in the rivers and lakes.
Rene Liu is also a person with high emotional intelligence.
When interacting with others, he is very attentive to his feelings and is very good at regulating the atmosphere.
In Lu Yu's interview, she talked about the grandfather who brought her up fell into a coma before he died, and Liu Ruoying sang for him for the last time, and her grandfather shed tears.
Originally, the atmosphere was sad and heavy, but she suddenly said:
I knew he heard it
Then I said to my grandmother
Luckily, we don't usually speak ill of him
Lu Yu didn't need to adjust the atmosphere as the host, Liu Ruoying took care of the work herself.
When she went to visit the children with cancer, she did not bring a sense of heaviness to the children who were struggling with the disease, but teased them nonsensically and funny: In the future, when others ask you who your idol is, you will say that Liu Ruoying knows?
caused the children to quarrel with her and tell their true idols.
Not seen as special, they may have been more relaxed at that moment.
Of course, high emotional intelligence does not mean that you will have many friends.
Rene Liu's high emotional intelligence is not skillful, but first and foremost due to her upbringing. She is a girl who grew up in a military family as a child, and no matter how down-to-earth she is, her upbringing will not dissipate.
Once, the host tried to spy on whether she and Master Chen had an ambiguous relationship, and asked her what else she wanted to call each other besides "Master". didn't get the answer I wanted, and I felt that Liu Ruoying didn't tell the truth.
Liu Ruoying also revealed, this kind of speculation actually bothered her to self-doubt.
But in the face of offense, not only did she not get mad, but in turn helped the supportive host complete her interview KPI-
Her upbringing gives people a sense of security in this chaotic era, as well as the internal entertainment that condenses the times.
Deeper, behind the upbringing, it is because she has always sincerely used emotions to exchange energy with the outside world, and she is an emotional "bumpy".
When filming "Nanjing 1937", she was very homesick because of the depression of the role and the long time of filming in other places.
So when she learned that she was going to postpone her return trip for a few days, she broke down and cried so much that she alarmed her predecessor Qin Han, who lived upstairs with the crew, and the two later became old acquaintances.
Zhang Aijia said, don't look at Liu Ruoying at first glance seems to be stunned, but in fact, she is very thoughtful and smart, she has her own way of thinking about the world, and can even think about the world in several ways.
She is indeed a wonderful person in the spiritual world.
As an old soul with a very stable core, although it is slow all year round, it is easy to attract people with the same frequency as her.
Why does Andy Lau like Rene Liu? Because he likes to pester Rene Liu to talk about writing lyrics.
Lu Yu loves to read Liu Ruoying's books very much, and he has read them several times.
And Zhou Xun and Liu Ruoying have endless chats, because the two of them always stay up late to chat, the crew is worried that they will be edemous the next day, so they turn off the hotel elevator at night to try to stop it, but they climb the stairs to continue chatting.
The friends she attracts with her temperament and inner spirit are definitely more sincere and long-lasting than her friends who drink and meat, and some strange people will be automatically filtered out.
Huang Zijiao once claimed to be ambiguous with Liu Ruoying, and went to Hong Kong to find her to develop something, but she didn't call directly and didn't see the party (it's really good).
She does the same for her work.
She said that her external conditions are not amazing, but as long as it is a work she handles, she either does not do it, or she has to thoroughly convey the emotions she wants to express.
As long as she is moved, there must be people like her who will be moved.
Did you find out?
She dares to maintain a very self-contained Liu Ruoying for decades, and she also dares to expose herself, which is the lifeline for her to quickly screen many like-minded true friends and make many classic works with the same temperament.
Of course, like the top people in many fields, she is a workaholic, and she has already filled the confinement work before giving birth, and her achievements come from hard labor.
Her all-round award, others flattered that it was the capable who worked harder. But she revealed that she was "nosy".
She's nosy because she's someone who desperately needs to be part of the world.
The same is true for friends, who will be physically present as much as possible to participate in the important moments of the loved one.
has debuted for many years, and every time she bows at a concert, she still thanks the fans for touching her, and feels that she is so virtuous. When I went to cheer for my friends, I didn't think it was troublesome, but I felt that I was happy to be a part of it.
This sense of participation is actually a kind of heartfelt gratitude, which is essentially a process of exchanging energy with sincere emotions with the outside world very seriously.
That's why I said that Rene Liu is very shrewd.
When arguing that it is easier for E people to achieve success in the secular sense, groups of friends and dazzling achievements, Liu Ruoying has always regarded herself as a sincere signalman.
Shielding away the noisy negative information with a dull feeling, continuing to disseminate information that marks one's own temperament, identifying the souls and opportunities that are also compatible with the outside world, and creating a luxurious circle of friends and transcripts without making a sound.
I people have their own way of dominating the rivers and lakes.