My name is Li Juan, and I am an ordinary white-collar woman working in the marketing department of a large company. My husband's name is Zhang Qiang, he is an excellent sales manager, we have been married for many years, and our life is ordinary but happy. Until a sudden accident broke our peaceful life.
I remember it was a sunny weekend and my husband and I were going to go hiking together. But just before I left the house, I received a shocking phone call: my husband had passed away in a car accident while he was away on business. I was in a panic and the world seemed to collapse in an instant.
After a few months of difficult adjustments, I slowly began to adjust to being single again. Work has become my best reliance, and I devote myself to busy work every day, so that I can forget the pain in my heart for a while. And my colleagues have also given me a lot of care and support, which makes me feel warm and comforted.
However, just when I thought I had stepped out of the shadow of losing my husband, something unexpected happened to me. A colleague of mine, surnamed Wang, is a technical engineer in our department, and less than half a year after my husband's death, he suddenly announced that he had married another female colleague.
I was blown away by the news, and I couldn't understand how he had come up with such a decision. I think that the pain of losing a lover should be the same, why can he start a new life in a short period of time, while I am still suffering and struggling?
I tried to understand his thoughts, but every time I saw him, I felt an inexplicable anger and resentment. I feel that his behavior is not only irresponsible to himself, but also disrespectful to his ex-wife. I couldn't come to terms with the fact that every time I saw him, the anger and disappointment in my heart could not be calmed.
Gradually, however, I began to think about my emotions and attitudes. I realized that no matter how upset and angry I was, I couldn't change the choices and behaviors of others. I should pay more attention to my life, let go of the pain of the past, look forward, and find my own happiness.
So, I tried to adjust my mentality and let go of my anger and dissatisfaction with my colleague Wang. I started trying to get back into work and life to find my own joy and happiness. I believe that only in this way can I truly get out of the shadow of losing my husband and welcome a new life.
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