This is the case with my baby, who has to listen to stories before going to bed at night, and even sleep to them.
In the past, when he was young, he used to read with his parents, sometimes he would read a book for days in a row, and even if he knew what the next sentence was, he would still like to listen to it. Sometimes we would read a book before going to bed, and then when I would sleep with him, he would ask me about the content of the story, and sometimes he would ask him to answer his questions.
At that time, because we often read together before going to bed, I didn't find it difficult to have many problems that were easy to encounter at the age of 3-6. There are some things that can be solved naturally as long as you communicate with him.
Later, he was influenced by me and began to like to listen to stories. Sometimes it's detectives, some it's encyclopedias, sometimes it's a masterpiece, and he has to listen to what he likes several times.
At first, I just listened to it for a while before going to bed, but then I felt that it was not enjoyable, so I listened to it at night.
We have a listening machine that he uses to listen to Sherlock Holmes, a speaker he uses, and a mobile phone that he uses to listen to stories. Dolphin Xiaomeng APP, Uncle Kai told stories and opened a membership for him, just because he likes to listen to books.
In order to ensure that he rests, we have agreed to close it regularly.
Now my baby is in the second grade, usually after finishing his homework at about 8 o'clock, he goes to bed at 9 o'clock, but he really falls asleep at 10 o'clock, the main thing is that he wants to listen to stories.
I'm very supportive of him listening to stories, because everyone's preferences are different. For myself, I am better at listening to books than I am at reading and absorbing. My son can read and listen to books, and he prefers to speak them.
Whether he was reading or listening to a book, he would tell me what he knew. Although sometimes he feels that he reads a book repeatedly and listens to a story repeatedly, he can find that he has a different harvest every time.
I remember one day my husband picked him up from school, and the child saw the dandelion flower downstairs and wanted to pick it off, my husband said that it was poisonous, and my son said it was not poisonous, and I don't believe it, let's go back and verify it.
But because my husband went out, he never been able to testify with his husband, and when I sent him to school, he told me, "Mom, you go back to my bedside "Magic Library" There is a book of plants that is also crazy, and there is an introduction to dandelions in the "Little Paratroopers". You show my dad that dandelion flowers, leaves, and roots are all edible. 」
The same is true for the content he listens to, every time he doesn't just listen to the sound and a little movement to sleep with him, but he really likes it. He will even find the difference between the famous books he listened to and the original works, and he will also ask himself whether the stories he hears are unreasonable, and then seek verification.
So I think it's a good thing for him to listen to stories, as long as he pays attention to the time, because if he doesn't agree on a good time, he can really affect the time to sleep.
If the child is still young, then accompany the child to tell them bedtime stories, which is more of a parent-child companionship, a way to get closer to the child's parent-child relationship, and a way to let the child feel love.
Love is not instilled in children through preaching, and the truth is not understood by children as soon as they are spoken, it requires children to understand with their hearts, and listening to stories and telling stories is a way for children to easily substitute, resonate, experience love, and feel life.
In addition to letting children listen to stories, let them tell stories, which can cultivate children's imagination and stimulate children's curiosity.
Stories are not only children's sleep assistants, but also one of the ways children learn.
Children like bedtime stories, so arrange it~~#春日生活打卡季#