Recently, "Chenghuan Ji" starring Yang Zi and Xu Kai was launched, and after watching the first few episodes, I only feel that the main focus of this drama is a reality, especially the mother-daughter line of Yang Zi and He Saifei, which makes people empathize fiercely and have a strong sense of substitution!
It's like I've experienced everything myself!
is really worthy of being a big heroine and an old drama bone!
I'm your mother!
Daughter: "I want you to have your own life, I don't want you to revolve around me every day!"
Mother: "I'm your mother, I don't revolve around you, who do I revolve around?"
Daughter: "I'm begging you, don't pay so much attention to me every day! I'm going crazy, okay?" ”
Mom: "It's me who is redundant!"
Daughter: "Yes!"
Mother: "You think I'm redundant?"
The daughter is tired of her mother's self-sacrificing care and expresses her heart to her mother, but the mother is unaware of her desire to control, and the dispute between the two parties becomes more and more intense.
Even ended up saying something that shouldn't have been said.
Isn't this the reality, I always feel that sometimes my mother's care is very "annoying", which makes people feel suffocated, and subconsciously says something unpleasant, but regrets it after saying it.
So don't let your emotions hurt the people who love you the most!
29 Isn't it a little girl?
I will always be touched by what my mother said: "What's wrong with 29? 29 is not a little girl?"
Probably in the eyes of all mothers, children are children, children to be taken care of, no matter how old they are!
Don't buy what you should buy and what you shouldn't!
In the play, in order to give her daughter the confidence to be in her mother-in-law's house, her mother did not hesitate to sell her bracelets, gold earrings, pendants, and gold rings to save a dowry for her daughter.
was worried that the dowry for his daughter was not enough, and he complained to himself: "A few years ago, it would be good to tighten the belt of my pants a little more, and don't buy what I should buy and what I shouldn't buy, so that by now, I can have more savings!"
Mother's love is probably like this, the mother would rather have nothing, but she also has to give her child everything and always think about the child.
I'm not comfortable wearing it!
My mother wanted to buy a cheongsam, so I tried one, which was very beautiful and fitted, but it cost more than 2,000 yuan, and I thought it was too expensive.
So my mother made an excuse: "The key is that I think it's a material, I'm uncomfortable to wear, the size is too big, even the flower is too flowery, which one is what I wear?"
At this time, my daughter's friend went into battle to help, and after a flicker, she said that there were coupons that could be discounted, and the daughter also gave the staff on the side a look, and everyone lied to her mother that it was only a few hundred yuan.
Isn't this the mother who has been reluctant to spend money on herself in reality, although she likes it, she still feels sorry for money.
Xiaobian thought: If this is replaced by buying it for her daughter, the mother must not hesitate to pay for it, and she will not say that it is expensive at all!
And Yang Zi's daughter also acted well, and in reality, many children were worried that the real price would make their mother feel distressed, so they said a price that could be accepted by their mother to deceive her.
It's better not to come back!
The daughter and her mother quarreled, and the daughter walked out of the house in a fit of anger, but after leaving, she stayed by her phone, wondering if her mother had sent a message.
Here, my mother hasn't slept, but she says, "It's better not to come back!"
Dad: "I said I didn't care, I wasn't worried, but I was more anxious than anyone else." ”
The next day, the daughter came back early in the morning to make breakfast for her mother, and took the initiative to apologize to her mother, who was also directly concerned about her daughter's situation last night.
Therefore, the mother and daughter did not have an overnight feud, and took the initiative to apologize for making a mistake, and this matter will pass, don't delay, don't let the family feel cold.
Because of the quarrel, my mother will also be sad, worried, and even unable to sleep all night.
Spend money recklessly!
The daughter bought earrings for her mother, who has always been thrifty, and her mother: "It's so beautiful, it's a lot of money, right?"
Then it is customary to say, "Spend money indiscriminately." ”
The daughter also understands her mother, and lied: "No, you gave my daughter a discount to me, double filial piety, do you like it?"
At this time, I can see the happiness on my mother's face!
Isn't this the "different" mother in reality, who is very happy to receive gifts from her children, but also complains about spending money!
One of the things my mother often hears is: "If you have money to save for yourself, don't spend it indiscriminately!"
But how do you spend money indiscriminately when you buy things for your mother?
epilogue
I have to say that Yang Zi and He Saifei's acting skills are really good, and the daily life between mother and daughter shines into reality, which is very real and empathetic!
I want to say: Mom is also a mother for the first time, although sometimes in an inappropriate way, but they love us after all.
From the mother's point of view: there is no one else in the mother's life, only three meals a day and her own baby child, who does not revolve around the child?
And the saddest thing after a quarrel is always my mother!
But we are obviously the closest existence between us, but we will always hurt each other because of some small things, isn't it too undeserved!