Marriage is a very important event in life, which is related to one's own happy life. Therefore, when choosing a partner, you need to be thoughtful and not act rashly. The phrase "women are afraid of marrying the wrong man" shows the importance of women in marriage choices, you must know that marriage is a major decision in life for everyone, and women need to consider more carefully when choosing a partner.
If you choose the wrong person, a woman's life may be buried, when choosing a partner, you must keep your eyes open, don't be blinded by some superficial phenomena, and consider whether this person is worth entrusting for life from many aspects.
In today's environment where there are more men than women, it is still difficult for men to find a wife, especially for young men in rural areas, there are many difficulties in marrying a daughter-in-law, and these situations are usually not directly related to more money and less money.
So what kind of family makes it difficult for them to marry a daughter-in-law?
1. Families with complex family relationships
This kind of family usually has a lot of internal contradictions, such as our common mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, simply put, the man's parents have a lot of things, love to calculate, are relatively strong, and so on. Such a family environment will cause women to have a lot of worries, worried that it will be difficult to integrate into the family after marriage.
In addition, if the sister-in-law in the family is not married, and she is as calculating as her family, for the daughter-in-law, she is facing the malicious difficulties of the "two mothers-in-law", so most women may not be willing to marry into such a family.
2. Ideologically backward families
It is undeniable that many rural families may still retain feudal and backward ideologies, such as preference for sons over daughters, and the definition of women is too harsh. In the minds of the older generation, they must want a grandchild to carry on the lineage.
If you marry into such a family, it's okay if the first child is a boy, but if the first child is a girl, then you have to face the problem of giving birth at all times, and it has become a fertility tool, which is really terrifying, so this kind of family really makes many women avoid it.
3. Ma Bao Nan's family
We often see Ma Bao Nan on the Internet, and think that men may be maliciously ugly, but in fact, Ma Bao Nan in real life is not as good as that. They obey what their parents say, think that what their parents say is right, and that the trivial things in life are also controlled by their parents, and they turn a deaf ear to their daughter-in-law's words.
If there is a conflict between parents and daughters-in-law, regardless of thirty-seven twenty-one, they will blame their wives first, and they will not ask the cause of the conflict, which is also unacceptable to women.
Fourth, families with many brothers
Many rural families believe that having more children is more blessed, so it is very common for two brothers, three brothers or even more to be a common event, and it is very difficult for this kind of family to marry a daughter-in-law. Many women will think that there are more brothers and more contradictions. In particular, the older generation thinks that brothers should help each other.
There are a lot of bottomless things that happen in order to help brothers, which is why most women are reluctant to consider this type of family man. In the face of lifelong events, people need to consider a lot of factors, because marriage is a common thing for both parties, and it needs to be built on the basis of mutual respect, mutual understanding, and mutual support.
In short, marriage is a major event that needs to be carefully considered, we need to carefully observe and understand each other, and only by finding a truly suitable partner can we create a happy married life together. Of course, these factors are not absolute, every woman has an independent mind, and they have their own criteria and factors to consider when choosing a partner and family.
With the development of society and the continuous change of people's concepts, these factors will gradually change. Therefore, for rural families, the most important thing at present is to strive to improve the family environment, update the old ideas, and at the same time cultivate the sense of family responsibility of their children, so as to attract more outstanding women to join.