Text: Jing Ma
Meg Meek, author of "Daddy is a Mountain": More than anyone else, the father is the one who lays the trajectory of his daughter's life, and is the real "backer" of his daughter's life.
Although the status of women is gradually improving, the tradition for thousands of years is that the male dominates the outside and the female dominates, that is, whether a woman is happy or not depends on what kind of husband she marries#春日生活打卡季! #
And what kind of husband a woman chooses in the end has a lot to do with her father. In a sense, the father is the epitome of his daughter's future husband.
Because the father is the first opposite sex that the girl meets on the road of life, and it is a very important opposite sex, which continues to influence the daughter, if the father is a positive energy, warm, and loving father of his daughter, the girl can grow up in the bath of love.
Then when she is looking for a partner, she will think that I want to find a partner like my father, so it is easier for her to find a partner who really loves her, and looks down on those scumbags, because she has abundant love on the way to growth, and the sweet words of scumbags can't confuse her.
But if his father not only doesn't take his daughter very much, but may also beat his wife, then it will make her daughter very indignant, she hopes to change her father, but the little girl's strength is too weak, she can't change her father.
So when she grows up, her daughter will find a man like her father to change, but she finds it too difficult to change a man, and in the end she will continue the misfortune between her father and mother!
Therefore, the father-daughter relationship determines the happiness of the child's life, and the father's ideological penetration of the daughter is also very strong.
Tong Liya was born beautiful and has strong abilities, but in the end, in her marriage with Chen Sicheng, we all felt that she was very wronged, Chen Sicheng repeatedly cheated in her marriage, but she could only endure it.
In fact, her attitude in marriage can be seen from the relationship between her father and her, her father said to Tong Liya when she got married: I hope that after her daughter marries into Chen Sicheng's family, she will do more work, cook for Chen Sicheng, serve her in-laws, and take the time to come and see us.
This shows that he married his daughter to serve Chen Sicheng and even Chen Sicheng's whole family, and when Chen Sicheng was derailed, he did not guide his daughter to stop the loss in time, but let her learn to be patient......
Although Tong Liya also divorced in the end, she was also scarred in her marriage before the divorce, and until now, Tong Liya has not entered the next marriage.
Du Xudong's daughter Du Jinjing found that her husband was very cold to her after she got married, and she didn't take the initiative to take on housework, and she didn't give herself due care when she was pregnant, and she felt very wronged.
In 2014, Du Jinjing ran home and cried to his father that he wanted a divorce, in fact, Du Jinjing's husband did not have any essential mistakes, but he was more machismo, but Du Xudong saw that his daughter was determined to divorce, so he said to his daughter: Then you come back, I will take care of you for the rest of your life......
As a result, the daughter divorced her husband, and the child was born smoothly, and later under the nourishment of her parents' love, she entered the second marriage, and the second marriage was also very happy.
If you want your daughter to be happy in the future, your father must do three things well, don't take it for granted
First things first: Dad must be a positive person
If the father smokes and drinks, or even goes crazy after drinking, then it is difficult for the daughter to find a good man, as a father usually works hard, and when he goes home, he has to do housework, and loves his daughter and wife, and the daughter will find such a partner in the future, and it is easier to be happy.
The second thing: Dad must be very affectionate with his wife
Don't be rough with your wife, if your father beats your mother, it will make the atmosphere of the family very serious, and it will also make your daughter walk on thin ice in this family, and in the future, when your daughter gets married, she will easily come into contact with some men who are violent at home, because it is easy to find a man like her father in her genes.
The third thing: the father must praise his daughter more
Dad is the first opposite sex on his daughter's growth path, praise his daughter more, recognize his daughter, so that his daughter can be confident and brave, feel that she is very good, and is not easy to be deceived by the sweet words of a scumbag.
Do you know how to educate your children as a father?
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