#万古神帝#张若尘去天堂见安抚众人的时候, Fan Chen was blaming himself again, thinking that he had let go of Erjuntian and was a sinner, and if he didn't get him back, he would have no face to live in this world.
Zhang Ruochen feels that Fanchen's mentality is very bad, at best it is a glass heart, and at worst it is a depressive personality. Just by listening to the name, you know that if you don't handle it well and let it develop like this, then there will definitely be problems with Fanchen.
Throughout the experience of mortal dust, like an electrocardiogram, it has ups and downs, although in the end it has found itself again. But after he found himself, he became a little wrong, and he liked to blame himself whenever something didn't go well, and this mentality was not good for his cultivation.
There are historical reasons for this self-reproachful mentality. When he was the Great Brahma, it was because he had something in his heart that he couldn't break through. Seventy-two Pinlian once helped him, but he also used him to do some bad things, which made him blame himself very much, and finally self-extricated, and seeking relief also made Zhang Ruochen feel admired.
Later, he became a drunkard, drunk every day, but he made progress in his cultivation, and at that time he was extremely chic, and even the Dark Lord felt unfathomable when he saw him. And then he followed Zhang Ruochen to walk on the border wasteland, and he could always turn evil into good fortune.
But after remembering who he was, that depression returned. This kind of mentality, we can call it a depressive personality, that is, always taking yourself as a target, whenever you encounter something, you will feel that you are not good enough, and blame yourself for it, and you will never be happy if you go on like this.
The impact of this mentality can be significant, first of all, self-blame can be uncomfortable, and it may lead to more serious problems. Secondly, this is a big obstacle to the progress of cultivation, which is supposed to make the mind more and more pure and the strength stronger, but excessive self-blame will make people feel tired and panicked, and they will not be able to concentrate on cultivation. Finally, this emotion can also affect relationships with other people, making it difficult to communicate genuinely and depriving people of opportunities for growth and help.
The key is to adjust one's own views and learn to look at things rationally. First of all, we must understand that not everything in the world is under our control, and external factors are also important. Therefore, when something goes wrong, you should objectively analyze the cause and don't blame yourself.
In addition, mortal dust has to learn to accept his imperfections, everyone has limitations, and making mistakes is also part of growth. In this way, he can learn from his mistakes instead of making them a burden on his mind.
Zhang Ruochen did a very good job in this regard, he also took on a lot of responsibility, he still remembered that his senior sister and senior brother died tragically one after another, he could only watch, he also condemned his lack of strength, but he turned this negative emotion into motivation, and finally killed Shang Ziyan to avenge his senior brother and sister.
If he is also like Fan Chen, he may eventually avenge his senior sister and senior brother, but he will also fall into endless self-blame, thinking that if he could have been stronger, this situation would not have happened, then after that, he will only fall into a dead circle and can't do anything, which is irresponsible for his own life.
Everyone's time and energy are limited, and some things must be looked at, and we often say that it is rare to be confused. For Fan Chen, maybe he really has to give him a jar of old wine, so that he can return to the chic and comfortable wine stuffy man he used to be.