Ye Tong: After 36 years of marriage, she didn't divorce when she witnessed her husband's "8 degrees", but she is not shrewd

My name is Ye Tong and I am an ordinary housewife. My husband Zhao Qiang and I have been married for 36 years. Our family background is very simple, my parents are ordinary farmers, and I have lived a simple and happy life since I was a child.

After I got married, I gave up my job and threw myself into my family. I am a traditional woman who believes that family is a woman's responsibility and destination, and I hope to use my efforts and wisdom to make the family happier and more satisfying.

However, the relationship between me and my husband was not as perfect as I imagined. My husband is a typical playboy who loves alcohol and often drinks and gambles with his friends. Although I was very dissatisfied with his behavior, out of a sense of responsibility to my family, I chose to tolerate and tolerate.

In our 36 years of marriage, I have witnessed my husband's "8 degrees" behavior, but I chose to endure it silently. Sometimes, I think to myself, maybe this is the so-called "man's nature", I just need to do my own thing well.

However, one day, I stumbled upon something that shocked me. I found some text messages with other women on my husband's phone, and their content was very ambiguous. I felt a pang of despair and anger, and I felt betrayed.

I decided to have a showdown with my husband, and I showed him the text messages on my phone and asked him why he betrayed my trust. He didn't answer my question, just silently lowered his head. I felt like a knife in my heart, and I didn't know how to deal with such a blow.

However, just as I was about to leave him, I suddenly remembered our 36 years of married life. In these 36 years, I have experienced too many ups and downs with him, whether it is joy or sorrow, we have spent it together. I began to think that maybe I didn't need to give up on our marriage because of a momentary mistake.

In the end, I chose to forgive him, and I chose to give him a chance to start over. I told him that I didn't want our marriage to end because of a momentary mistake, and I believed that we could get back on our feet and start over.

After a period of hard work, my relationship with my husband gradually returned to normal. We have learned to understand and tolerate each other, and we have also learned to respect and cherish each other. Our married life has become stronger and happier, and our love has become deeper and more enduring than ever before.

Finally, I want to say that tribulations and difficulties in married life are inevitable, but as long as we manage with our hearts and tolerate with love, we will definitely be able to overcome all difficulties and meet a better future.

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