Hillary Clinton once said that after learning that there was someone outside her husband, I still kept my marriage to him as if it were a blind eye.
Maybe most people don't understand why this is, and even think that this sentence is just to comfort themselves, maybe after seeing Ye Tong, they will understand the meaning of this sentence.
Ye Tong has been married to her husband Chen Guoxi for 35 years, during which she witnessed her husband's betrayal many times, but she still did not divorce Chen Guoxi, but spoke out to protect her husband every time.
In the face of the interview, he said without changing his face: "I actually know some things."
What did Ye Tong and Chen Guoxi go through? After witnessing his many betrayals, Ye Tong used his life to interpret what it means to be a couple in a lifetime.
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Leslie Cheung once said: "If I were to be a director, I would definitely find Ye Tong to shoot the first play.
I think this girl is about genius."
Actor Chow Yun-fat also has a high opinion of Ye Tong, Ye Tong, I appreciate it very much.
Ye Tong, formerly known as Li Sisi, was born in an ordinary family in Hong Kong in 1963, and his parents were small employees of a foreign trade company, and they were busy outside all year round.
Ye Tong is the youngest child in the family, and there is an older sister and half-brother above her.
It stands to reason that the youngest child should be the most favored one, but Ye Tong, on the contrary, is the least favored, and her parents have little concern for her childhood life.
Xu is because her parents' expectations for her are too high, when Ye Tong was not born, her parents wanted her to be a boy, and when she was born and found out that she was a girl, she was disappointed, so she was naturally not treated by her elders.
In order to work, her parents fostered her in a relative's house for a long time, and lived a life under the fence since she was a child, so that Ye Tong learned to be financially independent at a young age.
Ye Tong said in an interview that when he was eight years old, he could go to far away places alone.
She spoke lightly, as if she were telling someone else's story.
A child who should have been nurtured by his parents, but because of a lack of love, he was forced to be independent, and his personality became introverted.
I am careful in everything I do, for fear that I will be scolded if I make a mistake, and I know how to observe words and emotions since I was a child, and I don't cause trouble to my aunt.
After all, it is a child, and the thing I look forward to most every day is that my parents can show up and pick me up, no matter what life is like, as long as I am by my parents' side.
After a long time, she no longer has illusions, because she knows that her parents will not come to pick her up, and every day after school, she will go to work part-time, so that she can subsidize the family, and her aunt will not have to work so hard.
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In 1980, 17-year-old Ye Tong had grown into a slim girl, and her height was relatively tall among her peers.
When I was in junior high school, I was selected for the school volleyball team because of my tall stature.
By chance, Ye Tong looked at the posters on the street and had the idea of wanting to be a model.
This opportunity came soon, a subway advertisement needed 100 people to be actors, including Ye Tong who wanted to realize his dream and make money.
It was at this time that Ye Tong met Chen Guoxi, who had just returned from studying abroad.
Born into a wealthy family, he was born with a very high starting point, and when he came back from outside, he engaged in planning work in Hong Kong.
At that time, the subway planner happened to be Chen Guoxi, and when filming the planning, the director said that he would select a heroine from 100 extras to shoot the advertisement.
So, everyone rushed to express themselves, hoping to be chosen and become the one of a kind.
Chen Guoxi was so loud by them that he didn't fight, and Ye Tong, who didn't fight or grab, became the most unique existence, which instantly attracted Chen Guoxi's attention.
Ye Tong's tall figure, unique temperament, and beautiful facial features made Chen Guoxi immediately choose Ye Tong as the heroine.
It wasn't until many years later that Chen Guoxi said in an interview that when he saw Ye Tong for the first time, he had a different feeling, but what he didn't expect was to be able to hold the beauty in the end.
At that time, the shooting equipment was still relatively backward, and the film was still used, and the scenes shot on the same day could not be seen until the next day at the earliest.
There are always a few unsatisfactory and flawed shots during shooting, and in order to make the effect even better, the producer can only ask Ye Tong to make up the shot.
In the face of the producer's request, Ye Tong never bothered, nor did he care about the salary, and sometimes comforted the production team in turn.
At that time, the entire crew felt that Ye Tong had a very good temper and personality.
And Chen Guoxi admired her very much during this time with Ye Tong, and sometimes filmed very late, Chen Guoxi was worried about her safety, so he offered to send her home.
After filming the advertisement, the producer also invited her to drink milk tea and said that she would discuss the issue of salary, but what Ye Tong didn't know was that this was a "net" laid for her.
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After going back and forth, Chen Guoxi launched a fierce pursuit of Ye Tong and often took the initiative to take care of her.
Ye Tong, who didn't feel any love, fell in love under Chen Guoxi's sweet words.
Because Chen Guoxi is 9 years older than her, at the beginning, Ye Tong did not talk about his feelings with his parents.
But in order to show his love, Chen Guoxi also reassured Ye Tong to be with him, and directly took her home to meet her direct parents.
Chen Guoxi's mother saw that Ye Tong was only 18 years old, and felt that her son just wanted to have fun and was not sincere, so she let him do without saying anything.
With the help of Chen Guoxi, Ye Tong successfully entered the showbiz, so he met many directors.
In 1982, at the invitation of director Tan Jiaming, Ye Tong and Leslie Cheung starred in the movie "Youth on Fire".
This is the first movie Ye Tong starred in, and she was the heroine as soon as she debuted, which can be said to be the pinnacle of her debut.
After all, Leslie Cheung was already a popular star at that time, and Ye Tong was still a newcomer who had just debuted.
In the play, Ye Tong and Leslie Cheung's passion play, Ye Tong conquered the audience with her acting skills, and also conquered Leslie Cheung.
Ye Tong won the Best Newcomer Award at the Academy Awards with this movie, and Ye Tong was not yet twenty years old at this time.
The first play she starred in was so popular that she became a smash hit.
After that, many directors asked her to cooperate, and the film appointments continued, but her parents broke her dream.
The parents saw that some of the plots in "Youth on Fire" were so open, and Ye Tong's parents felt that their daughter's work was not serious, so they didn't let her continue filming.
I haven't taken care of Ye Tong much since I was a child, but at this time, I was afraid that the work she did would be embarrassing, so I disciplined her.
At that time, Ye Tong was already preparing for the filming of the next movie, but she was locked at home by her parents in the name of love, and in order not to delay the shooting, she even jumped out of the window and escaped.
In the end, it was Chen Guoxi who came forward and gave her parents some money, and Ye Tong came out, which felt like "selling her daughter".
In 1983, Ye Tong starred in "Seven Days of Expression" and won the Academy Award for Best Actress.
The peak of her debut is used to describe Ye Tong as good, after all, it is used in three movies, so that she can completely take off the title of newcomer.
Leslie Cheung has a high evaluation, Ye Tong is his favorite actress, if he is the director, he must find Ye Tong in the first play, she is too free.
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In 1988, Ye Tong and Chen Guoxi ended their 8-year love run, and walked hand in hand towards the long-awaited married life to welcome their new beginning.
In 1990, Ye Tong's partner Xu Guanzhuo acted in "Smiling Proud Jianghu", playing the role of the little sister "Yue Lingshan".
It can be said that Ye Tong's works can be regarded as high-quality works, in "Flying Over the Dusk", Ye Tong is on the same stage with the old drama bones, which is not inferior at all.
starred in her true colors and won the "Best Supporting Actress Award at the Academy Awards".
In 1992, Ye Tong's career reached its peak, when Ye Tong was 29 years old and starred in "The Legend of the New White Lady" with Zhao Yazhi.
When she first started casting, the director didn't plan to let her play Xu Xian, and the director interviewed many actors, but she didn't find what she wanted.
In the end, because of Ye Tong's sentence, are you age-discriminatory, the director asked her to put on makeup, but she didn't expect that Ye Tong after makeup was like "Xu Xian" himself.
As soon as "The Legend of the New White Lady" was released, it had a good response, almost a household name, and Ye Tong became popular all over the country again.
So that Ye Tong finally became an immortal, and defeated an immortal.
After Ye Tong starred in "The Legend of the New White Lady", he never took off the label of "Xu Xian".
After that, she starred in a lot of works, and when everyone looks at her, they still feel like they are watching Xu Xian.
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Ye Tong and Chen Guoxi have been married for many years, but they have not been able to give birth to a son and a half daughter, so that every time the Hong Kong media sees Ye Tong, they ask when they will have a child, and they are more anxious than Chen's mother.
Later, Chen Guoxi came out and clarified that everyone has their own way of living, and not having children is our common choice.
In 1997, when the financial crisis broke out, most of Chen Guoxi's property was affected, and the economy fell for a while, so he was saddled with loans.
Ye Tong had to work harder to make money, couldn't take care of his family, and let the backyard catch fire.
It is reported that in 2002, Chen Guoxi took advantage of Ye Tong's filming in Shanghai to have a night party with actress Anya late at night, behaving intimately, but there were no photos, and it was finally over.
After Ye Tong learned about it, she publicly supported her husband as soon as possible, saying to the outside world that Chen Guoxi had absolutely no cheating, I believe in him, maybe my husband is too charming.
However, less than a year after this incident, Chen Guoxi had another scandal, and this time, it can be regarded as a real hammer.
Chen Guoxi was photographed by the media, he went shopping with Anita Mui's agent Wang Minhui, and kissed passionately.
When Ji Yetong saw the photo, he was first surprised, and then said that the two of them were just friends, I knew the ins and outs of the matter, and believed him.
The parties concerned think that this is nothing, and the media will naturally not say much.
In 2010, Chen Guoxi was photographed by the paparazzi again, behaving indecently with a woman in the mall, and his attitude was extremely ambiguous.
Later, a reporter called Chen Guoxi to inquire about the matter, but he denied it, saying that the other party was a banker, and he and she were just talking about investment.
However, this time, Ye Tong did not respond or accept an interview with the media.
Just when everyone thought that Chen Guoxi would change his mind, he was photographed by the media watching a movie with a woman in her 40s, and then kissed passionately in a taxi.
It seems that Chen Guoxi has completely let go, he knows that Ye Tong will not say anything, and while showing affection with his wife outside, he is messing with flowers and grass outside.
Later, Ye Tong also expressed his attitude, "My husband is alone in Hong Kong, and when I am bored, I want to find some friends to play, I turn a blind eye, I think it's nothing."
According to media statistics, Chen Guoxi was photographed by the paparazzi as many as eight times, but every time, Ye Tong chose to remain silent, expressing his belief in her husband, as if it had never happened, and never left him.
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Now, both of them are over half a hundred years old, and Chen Guoxi has also put away his fun-loving heart, perhaps realizing that no matter what he does, the person who can always be by his side is the most important thing.
Ye Tong used his own experience to interpret what it means to be a couple in a lifetime, and companionship is the most affectionate confession.
Maybe this is the way Chen Guoxi and Ye Tong get along, all in all, they are happy