Recently, a shocking news broke on the Internet, a man, after his wife had just undergone a caesarean section, actually scolded her loudly for three hours in a row, saying extremely ugly and aggressive words, which made people very uncomfortable to hear.
What's even more outrageous is that in this incident, a completely innocent lactation promoter was also implicated and became a scapegoat for this family dispute.
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It is reported that during the painful recovery of his wife from a caesarean section, the gentleman not only did not give due care and attention, but kept scolding her, from the pain of childbirth to the problem of breastfeeding.
Even some small things in life have become an excuse for him to vent his emotions. And when his wife's breastfeeding problem could not be resolved, he even turned his anger to the lactation promoter who helped him, and poured all his dissatisfaction on the professional.
There is a clash of views
The incident caused a strong reaction from the public, and everyone expressed great anger and incomprehension. Many people believe that this man's behavior is completely contrary to the respect and love that should be done to his wife, especially during a period when his wife is very vulnerable physically and mentally.
His indifference and ruthlessness really shouldn't be, and at the same time, many netizens stood up in support of the lactation promoter, calling on everyone to look at the work of professionals rationally, and should not involve family problems with innocent third parties.
The harm of verbal violence and how to deal with it
Psychologists and marriage and family counseling experts pointed out that postpartum women are already under great physical and mental pressure, and if they are still harmed by verbal violence at this time, it is not only not conducive to the healing of wounds, but also may increase the risk of depression.
It affects breast milk production and the establishment of the mother-child relationship. Experts suggest that society should strengthen the promotion of postpartum care and raise public awareness of postpartum mental health.
At the same time, family members should learn to communicate effectively to avoid adding extra pressure to the mother during this special period, which is very bad behavior.
The double torture of law and morality
This incident not only exposed the indifference and ignorance of some men to women's reproductive suffering, but also raised the dual question of law and morality: in the face of such obvious domestic violence, how should society and the law intervene and punish it in time?
And as a member of the family, what can we do to truly respect, love and support our mothers who are experiencing great stress?
Call for respect and care to build a harmonious family
This incident is undoubtedly a wake-up call for us, reminding us to pay attention to women's postpartum mental health and respect the great contribution of every mother.
In the face of verbal violence, we must not only resolutely oppose it, but also start with ourselves and cultivate a family atmosphere with love and understanding. Here, we sincerely appeal to all sectors of society, men and women, to strive to create an environment of respect, support and inclusion.
Let every new mother be fully cared for and cared for after giving birth, instead of being like this man, constantly scolding his wife, making his wife feel very helpless.
Next, we will continue to pay attention to how this man's behavior, law and morality will be judged, and if you have different opinions, you can also leave them in the comment area and discuss them together.