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Stick to Day 6: Learn to be kind to yourself in the way you leave

author:Elegant Tangerine eP2

Hello everyone and welcome to the world of oranges. Today, in the Year of the Dragon, the Dragon Moon, the Dragon and the Dragon, the rare good weather, finally the rain has passed and the sky is clear. Today is the 6th day of my copying.

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In the past few days, I have been busy with my own book-copying business, delaying a lot of housework, seeing that the summer in Chongqing is coming, I can't start with the seasonal clothes piled up in the house, and I have to spend a lot of time cleaning, sorting and storing every season, which is really a headache.

I finally understood that the older I get, the more I carry in my heart, and even if it is no longer useful, I still don't want to throw them away. As everyone knows, being reluctant to throw away useless things will only add more trouble and troubles to yourself.

Decisively, today I will share "Breaking Away".

Today's book theme

Stick to Day 6: Learn to be kind to yourself in the way you leave

Today's topic: Breaking Away

The room is messy, and the rude and random messing up of things makes a mess of the room, which is equivalent to giving oneself the energy of denial and inferiority.

I don't want to give it up, just because something is given emotion, it becomes too heavy, but after all, we don't need to carry such a heavy burden on our lives.

If you don't sweep a house, how can you sweep the world.

On the surface, it is a kind of sorting and storage of household items, and from a deep level, Duan Shuli is a kind of life realm that lives in the present.

is like what is written in "Breaking Away": "Breaking Away, from a deep point of view, is a kind of life organization that lives in the present." ”

Learn to break away from each other, so that the heart becomes simple;

Learn to break away in order to make life easier;

Only by learning to give up can life become wonderful.

Stick to Day 6: Learn to be kind to yourself in the way you leave

Classic quotations from "Breaking Away".

‬感悟

People have to try to be alone for a while, solitude does not make people feel lonely, only socialization will.

Stick to Day 6: Learn to be kind to yourself in the way you leave

爱自己

It's so embarrassing! Before, cleaning up WeChat friends and address books, "accidentally" deleted a friend who had not been contacted for many years, but after deleting, but for some complicated reasons, need to be contacted, do you want to add the other party back?

In fact, there are not a few people who have the same idea as me, they like to delete classmates or colleagues after graduation or resignation, and as a result, they have to continue to communicate for some reason, which causes both parties to feel embarrassed.

The original intention of "renunciation" is not to bear unnecessary burdens, so as to free up space and time and live more efficiently.

定期清理不必要的物品‬确实值得提倡,但我们应该认识到,不能生硬硬套‬地搬用‬“断舍离”概念,不要‬像‬我‬一样‬,大费周章‬地‬断舍离‬,最后却带来的只有尴尬。

减法不仅要做,但‬不能做得‬太‬绝对,完美‬的人生要‬靠加法和减法并行。 学会‬远离‬‬那些‬负能量‬的人,用离开的方式善待自己。

‬结语

Well, that's all for today's sharing of "Breaking Away", and then the real Breaking Away is about to begin, the clean and bright living room, the warm and comfortable bedroom, and the spacious and bright kitchen make me feel refreshed and happy when I think about it.

You can also make a break with the oranges!

Stick to Day 6: Learn to be kind to yourself in the way you leave