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A sudden disintegration
In 2013, just as the TV series "I Am the Fire Phoenix of Special Forces" starring Fu Chengpeng achieved unprecedented high ratings, there was a shocking news from the outside world - Cheng Su and Fu Chengpeng, who were highly praised and known as the "model couple", decided to divorce.
The couple met at the Shanghai Theater Academy, and at first they were close to brother and sister. At that time, Fu Chengpeng was handsome and chic, introverted and steady; And Cheng Su is peerless, gentle and intellectual.
The more time they get along, the more they have a liking for each other. Especially during the years of the Nanjing Frontline Art Troupe, the two got along day and night, and their relationship gradually sublimated into sincere love.
In 1997, after three months of love, they tied the knot with the blessing of family and friends, with a vision of a better life in the future.
Newlywed Yan'er, Cheng Su happily plans her future life: "I want to personally participate in every moment of my child's growth, and I don't want to miss any beautiful moment of companionship."
Sure enough, three years later, a lovely son "cub" was born, and Cheng Su got his wish. In order to take care of her children wholeheartedly, she resolutely chose to give up her career and become a full-time housewife.
And Fu Chengpeng fully supports his wife's decision, playing the role of a competent good husband and father.
In those years, they did their best to run this small family, loving and respecting each other. In the eyes of outsiders, they are the standard "model couple". There is no indication that the couple, who were praised as "exemplary", would go their separate ways and drift apart one day.
But in 2013, all that was shattered. In that year, the hit drama "I Am the Fire Phoenix of Special Forces" starring Fu Chengpeng won the highest ratings in the second half of that year, which can be described as a legitimate career.
At the same time, Cheng Su also played the heroine in the play with superb acting skills, both standing at the peak of their careers.
The two have been praised as "tacit partners" and "model couple" in many interviews, and their dedication and efforts have also achieved tangible achievements in the eyes of outsiders.
It all came so suddenly, no one expected it. In this way, the couple, who were regarded as "models" by the outside world, were estranged and disintegrated, and the city of hope they built with sincere love was completely shattered.
The process of meeting and breaking up
In 1990, Fu Chengpeng was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy with excellent results and became a 90-level freshman. In the same grade, he not only dealt with first-line stars such as Xu Zheng and Tranquility for four years, but also met his confidant and friend Cheng Su.
When he first saw Cheng Su, Fu Chengpeng was attracted by her gentle and generous demeanor with outstanding temperament. As the youngest student, he tends to play an introverted and stable role, and he does not have many opportunities to express himself among his classmates.
Cheng Su is a leader on campus, not only outstanding in appearance, but also with extraordinary wisdom and self-cultivation, which has a unique charm.
In the four years of college, although they maintained a close relationship between their brothers and sisters, they never took that step. After graduation, the arrival of the Nanjing Frontline Art Troupe changed the trajectory of the fate of the two.
After leaving school, Fu Chengpeng joined the Nanjing Frontline Art Troupe and started his career. And Cheng Su was also moved by his sincerity, and finally joined the art troupe. The two walked together day and day, getting along day and night, and the emotional spark gradually burst out.
With the enthusiastic matchmaking of friends, the two finally came together. After three months of love, they had a grand wedding in 1997 and entered the palace of marriage hand in hand.
On the occasion of the wedding, Cheng Su happily planned the future: "I want to personally participate in every moment of my child's growth, and I don't want to miss any companionship." Her yearning for a happy family can be seen.
Three years later, a lovely son "cub" was born, and Cheng Su became a mother as he wished. In order to take care of her children wholeheartedly, she decisively gave up her career and became a full-time housewife.
During her pregnancy, Cheng Su silently carried all the discomfort in her heart, and never complained to her husband who was far away from the crew. After giving birth, she devoted all her energy to taking care of her children and family, while Fu Chengpeng fully supported his wife and played the role of a good husband and father who was conscientious.
In those years, they held hands and did their best to run this small family. In the eyes of outsiders, they are the standard "model couple", and deep down, they have also looked forward to eternal happiness.
At the peak of his career
Time flies, and after his son "cub" slowly grows up, Cheng Su also regained his career dream. She and her husband Fu Chengpeng entered the field of military dramas together, and they blossomed everywhere in this fertile soil.
In the eyes of outsiders, they not only have a successful career, but also love and respect each other in life. Fu Chengpeng is considerate to his wife, and Cheng Su also fully supports her husband's career.
They trust each other, support each other, and manage this marriage with their hearts.
At that time, they were simply the epitome of reality of the "model couple". Whether it is in the crew or in life, the two are always inseparable and have a tacit understanding. No one could have imagined that at the peak of their careers, the bad news of the separation of the cliff came as promised.
Just when their career achievements were at their peak and attracted much attention, this model couple broke up decisively, which made everyone feel extremely shocked and puzzled.
Originally, everyone thought that they would grow old together and fall in love forever, but they didn't know that fate was impermanent after all.
This popular actor couple was praised as a "model", known as a "tacit partner", and expected to be eternal, but the reality slapped everyone's face so skinny.
Strong to raise children after divorce
The decision to divorce was like a lightning strike, tearing apart this couple who were once regarded as a "model couple" by the outside world. In the face of sudden changes, Cheng Su took on the responsibility of raising his son "cub" alone.
As a single mother, she put down her body to take care of the housework and worked hard to take care of the children's daily life. Despite the difficulties, in order to let the "cub" go through adolescence healthily and happily, Cheng Su silently carried everything with indomitable perseverance.
The "cub" was in a rebellious period at the time, and often blamed his mother, questioning why she divorced his father. In the face of his son's rebellion, Cheng Su never got angry once, but was patient and magnanimous.
She knows that adolescent children are not yet mentally mature, and many behaviors are unintentional mistakes, which need to be guided and tolerated with more love.
In this way, under Cheng Su's careful care, the "cub" finally passed the restless adolescence and entered a new stage of life. As a single mother, Cheng Su uses her practical actions to interpret the tenacity and non-giving up of contemporary women.
At the same time, after the divorce, Fu Chengpeng and Xiao San Zhou Liqi secretly entered the palace of marriage again. In order to hide people's eyes and ears and avoid too much criticism, the two even did not hesitate to go through the marriage registration procedures by tampering with their names, and the whole process was full of suspicions and abnormal behavior.
The outside world has always questioned whether the couple is entangled out of interests, rather than a sincere love union. What's even more striking is that although they had a son after marriage, it did not attract more attention.
In the absence of family resources, Fu Chengpeng could only continue to stay in the original Nanjing Frontline Art Troupe to seek a job.
Some commentators said that the second-married couple "took risks with no conscience" and was a "blend of family interests" rather than true love. And Cheng Su's hardships of raising children alone have won more people's admiration and admiration.
The fate of their lives after their divorce was very different. One slowly regains his career and reaps new achievements in life in the midst of difficulties; The other entered into marriage with Xiao San in the shadows, and his future is strange.
Cheng Su regained his career and continued to work hard
The pain of divorce was like a hammer, smashing Cheng Su's life to pieces. But in the midst of a desperate situation, she chose to stand up strong again, not defeated by the ruthlessness of fate.
Time flies, and the "cub" who was once cared for by her hands has now grown up and left home to stand on her own. As a mother, Cheng Su watched this former child grow and transform little by little, and her heart was full of mixed feelings.
In the days when the "cub" left home to study, Cheng Su began to rethink the direction of his life. Although taking care of the family was a choice she had no hesitation in the past, as her children grew up and left home, she also realized that she still had too many dreams and pursuits to achieve.
As a result, Cheng Su regained his beloved dream of being an actor, and focused his career development on military-themed dramas. With the experience gained in this field over the past few years, she has quickly reaped impressive results.
One after another military masterpieces have been completed, and Cheng Su has impressed everyone with his superb acting skills and professional performance. Her passion and dedication to her career make her stand out in this field.
There are well-known directors who have tailor-made roles for her, which can be described as a winner in life. In addition, Cheng Su has also been appointed as the dean of many art academies, becoming a rare "double" talent in the industry.
It is gratifying that when his career was getting better, Cheng Su did not rest on his laurels, but took the initiative to shoulder social responsibilities and enthusiastically devoted himself to various public welfare and charity.
She pays attention to the disadvantaged, especially those who are hearing impaired, and provides them with material and educational support.
A viewer once praised Cheng Su as the beacon that illuminates the darkness. Indeed, if divorce has dealt a heavy blow to her life, then she has finally regained her light with her hard work, tenacity and great love.
And along the way, Fu Chengpeng, the ex-husband who divorced her and entered the marriage hall with the suspicion of Zhou Liqi, did not seem to have any achievements in his career.
In contrast, Cheng Su is the lucky one who gritted his teeth and faced difficulties in the adversity of life.
The value and meaning of marriage
Looking at the lives and fates of Cheng Su and Fu Chengpeng now, we can't help but feel a lot of emotion. Once upon a time, they were praised by the outside world as a "tacit partner" and a "model couple".
No one expected that at the peak of their careers, their relationship was full of holes, and they finally chose to break up and divorce.
Everything is self-evident, but if you think about it, there must be some reason for their breakup that we can't see for the time being. Maybe it's the lack of understanding and tolerance when getting along in the early stage; Perhaps both sides are too stubborn about their principles; Or maybe it was an impulse and made a decision that the scar is difficult to heal.
In any case, their divorce is undoubtedly a heavy mockery of the reputation of "model couple" back then. The "model" that was pinned on high hopes was ruthlessly shattered one day, which inevitably makes people sigh.
The essence of marriage is the heart-to-heart blending of two people, and it is a commitment to work together with each other to live together. When this commitment is missing, the marriage loses its meaning of existence.
From this point of view, the divorce of Cheng Su and Fu Chengpeng seems to confirm this to some extent.
However, it is gratifying that the trauma of divorce did not completely crush Cheng Su. She chose to be independent and strong, and held up a piece of heaven with her hands. And what accompanied her through the trough was the dedication to her career and her love for life.
It is with this spirit of not giving up that Cheng Su was able to regain his dream and achieve good results in his career after the heavy blow of divorce. In addition, she has a heart of great love, is keen on public welfare and charity, and uses practical actions to add more warmth to the world.
Some people praise her as the beacon that illuminates the darkness, warming every neglected corner of life with her own light. This praise is the best interpretation of her facing difficulties in life.
Therefore, when we look back on the experiences of Cheng Su and Fu Chengpeng, in addition to sighing at their "ignorance of cherishing" back then, we should reflect on what is the true meaning of marriage? It requires mutual care from both parties to last for a long time; It requires us to be considerate and tolerant in order to be eternal.
Only by firmly grasping this can we avoid repeating their mistakes and find the eternal key to a happy marriage.