"You are not ashamed, are you going to kill our whole family!" his wife pointed at Xing Jianwen's nose and scolded.
At this moment, Xing Jianwen just hugged his body tightly, standing silently in the shadow of his home, not daring to fight back.
After all, it is my own reason to suffer from AIDS, and I can accept it no matter how I am scolded.
What makes Xing Jianwen even more afraid to open his mouth is that the fact that he has AIDS is not so simple......
The content of the statements is based on reliable sources of information, which are repeated at the end of the article.
The shadow of the family
Xing Jianwen is an ordinary office worker who lives an ordinary and stable life. Until that bad news came like a thunderbolt from the blue, completely crushing the family.
That day, Xing Jianwen went to the hospital for a physical examination and was surprised to learn that he was infected with AIDS. It was as if he had been punched so hard that he was so weak that he could barely stand on his feet.
Back at home, Xing Jianwen hesitantly explained to his wife Xiaofang that he was just accidentally infected when he kissed a woman.
However, how could Xiao Fang believe such a ridiculous excuse? She immediately became furious and asked Xing Jianwen if he had always had another woman outside.
Xing Jianwen cried and shouted injustice, saying that he was just confused for a while and did not really cheat. But Xiao Fang couldn't believe him anymore.
From that day on, Xiao Fang's attitude towards Xing Jianwen completely changed. She regarded Xing Jianwen like a beast in a flood and avoided him. Even if she slept in the same bed, she would try to stay away from Xing Jianwen, for fear of being infected by him with this terrible AIDS.
Once, Xing Jianwen accidentally knocked the pillow to the ground, and Xiao Fang was furious when she saw it, and scolded him: "You thing that harms others and yourself! Our whole family will be ruined by you!"
Xing Jianwen cried and begged Xiaofang for forgiveness, but Xiaofang was indifferent. She has completely lost trust and love for this former lover.
Son Xiao Ming and daughter Xiao Li also gradually developed fear and disgust for their father. They no longer dare to get close to their father as they used to, for fear that they will be infected with AIDS. Xiao Ming and Xiao Li's classmates also knew the family's secrets and began to distance themselves from them.
The family was plunged into endless pain and suffering. Xing Jianwen regretted it a lot, he hated the confusion at the beginning, but it was too late. Xiao Fang is getting thinner and thinner, and she can no longer see the warmth and happiness of the past in her eyes.
In fact, Xing Jianwen hides an even more terrifying secret deep in his heart. He didn't have AIDS because he kissed a woman at all, but he had a relationship with a man and unfortunately contracted this terrible disease.
Xing Jianwen has had some same-sex tendencies since he was a child, but he has always buried this impulse deep in his heart and tried to live a normal life. Until one day, he accidentally opened a same-sex website, and with the psychology of luck, he fell into an with the man.
Afterwards, Xing Jianwen regretted and blamed himself. He wanted to bury this secret in his heart forever, but he didn't expect that in the end, the scar was revealed by a ruthless fate.
Faced with the doubts and accusations of his wife and children, Xing Jianwen couldn't speak at all, so he could only lie. He knew that if the truth was told, the family would fall apart completely.
So, Xing Jianwen chose to bear all this alone. He silently endured the coldness of his wife and the alienation of his children, but never revealed the slightest truth.
Sometimes, Xing Jianwen would sit alone on the balcony, staring at the lonely moon in the night sky, tears streaming out of his eyes. He hated his weakness and desire, but he hated even more for his cowardice and incompetence that had put the whole family in such a situation.
Xing Jianwen has thought about it countless times, and has thought about giving up this family and flying away. But every time he looked at the innocent smiles of the children who were still in school, he would grit his teeth and persevere.
He knew that he was destined to endure all this alone until the last moment of his life. This is the price he should bear, the bitter fruit of his own brewing.
Compared with Xing Jianwen, who is obsessed with ghosts, Aunt Li seems more innocent.
A heavy burden
Aunt Li is 68 years old this year, her children are working in other places, and her husband passed away a few years ago.
The children were also worried about Aunt Li's condition, so they arranged for her to be with Master Zhu, who was widowed half a year ago.
The two had been very familiar with each other before, and with the gradual contact, the hearts of the two people gradually narrowed the distance.
In the dead of night, two lonely hearts snuggled together tightly at this moment......
But just when the two of them were mixing oil in honey, a bad news suddenly came out - Master Zhu was infected with AIDS!
Aunt Li suddenly turned around, she rushed to the hospital in disbelief and saw Master Zhu lying on the hospital bed.
She was angry and sad, she never thought that Master Zhu would be such a person.
Later, in Master Zhu's mouth, Aunt Li learned the truth.
After the death of his wife, Master Zhu once looked for a woman outside, and was infected by negligence. He didn't expect that this mistake would pay such a heavy price.
And at this moment, no one cares about Master Zhu, because Aunt Li also hurried to the hospital for a physical examination to check whether she was infected.
Check for AIDS
Aunt Zhang is an ordinary middle-aged woman whose husband has passed away for many years and lives a poor but peaceful life alone. In order to make ends meet, she worked as a nanny in three elderly families living alone in the neighborhood.
Aunt Zhang is diligent and capable, in addition to cooking and cleaning, she will also accompany the elderly to chat and relieve boredom, and sometimes even sleep with them.
However, no one thought that this seemingly ordinary job would bring such a huge disaster to Aunt Zhang.
One day, when she went to the hospital for a check-up, when the doctor told her that she had been infected with AIDS, Aunt Zhang fell to the ground like a thunderbolt from the sky.
The doctor asked Aunt Zhang how she was infected with the virus, and Aunt Zhang cried and told her story.
Subsequently, the three elderly people also came to the hospital for examination, and it was found that one of them had AIDS.
It is likely that Aunt Zhang was accidentally infected with this terrible disease while sleeping with her.
Reasons for the rise in the number of elderly AIDS patients
From the above examples, it is not difficult for us to find that most of these elderly people with AIDS have the following commonalities:
Widowed and living alone, mentally empty and lonely
Due to loneliness, some elderly people who live alone may seek satisfaction in unsafe ways when facing their physical needs, thus increasing the risk of HIV infection.
The level of education is low, and the awareness of protection is weak
Some elderly people have limited education, lack of knowledge about how HIV is transmitted and how to prevent it, and neglect to take safety precautions when having sex.
The economic situation is average, and access to protective equipment is inconvenient
For some elderly people with poor economic conditions, buying protective equipment such as condoms may create a certain financial burden, thus increasing the risk of infection.
Physiology decreases and is more susceptible to infections
As people age, their immune system gradually weakens, and once they are infected with HIV, they are more likely to develop AIDS.
In the face of the increasing number of elderly AIDS patients, what measures can be taken to avoid it?
measure
In order to prevent more older people from becoming infected with HIV, we should pave a warm and peaceful path for them to end their lives with empathy and tolerance.
First of all, the government and society should increase the publicity of HIV/AIDS prevention and treatment knowledge among the elderly, popularize relevant knowledge to them through various forms, and raise awareness of prevention. At the same time, it provides necessary psychological counseling for the elderly who live alone to alleviate their loneliness and avoid them from going down a dangerous and misguided path.
Second, the necessary financial support should be provided to older people with financial difficulties to ensure that they have access to protective equipment such as condoms to reduce the risk of infection. In addition, medical protection for the elderly should be strengthened to ensure that they can receive timely and effective treatment once they are infected.
Furthermore, we should adopt an open and inclusive mindset to eliminate discrimination and prejudice against HIV/AIDS, and create a fearless social environment for older people, so that they can face their needs calmly and choose safe ways to meet them.
Finally, we should prevent and curb the spread of AIDS at its source, and jointly build a solid line of defense through strengthening education and raising public awareness, so as to build a solid fortress for the health of all.
Only by working together can we pave a safe and peaceful path for older people and prevent more older people from becoming infected with HIV. Let's join hands to add more sunshine to this blue sky.
epilogue
The old age of life is a time that deserves to be treated gently.
The physiological needs of the elderly are not shameful, but a natural manifestation of life. We should be broad-minded and empathetic to their desires, and we should not criticize or discriminate against them. After all, everyone has been young, and everyone has had a yearning for warmth.
Elderly AIDS patients need our friendliness and tolerance. The suffering of the disease has caused them enough pain, and we should surround them with tolerance and care, rather than look at them differently.
In the last days of their lives, they should also be allowed to pursue a warm quality of life, even if it is only a small pleasure.
Treating the physiological needs of the elderly with a friendly attitude and embracing the elderly AIDS patients with a broad mind is not only a humanitarian embodiment, but also a tribute to the dignity of life.
Let us use empathy and tolerance to add warmth to the lives of the elderly, and use a friendly and respectful attitude to make their old age no longer lonely, but full of joy and peace.
This is not only a tribute to life, but also a sublimation of human nature. Let's work together to create a warm and inclusive environment for the elderly, so that the flower of life can bloom.
Shingen
"Do you know that it's embarrassing?" after the old man in Jinan dyed Ai...... Experts talk about the AIDS epidemic: there has been a significant increase in adolescents and the elderly