A member of the Love Heart Reading Club asked me: "Mr. Li, I am a member of our blind date platform, I have an annual income of more than 400,000 yuan, and there are three sets of full-payment houses at home, when I am looking for a partner, I don't want to write so much income and assets, is it okay?"
Li Zhenfang:
Regardless of men and women, everyone looking for a partner must remember this mental method, what value you release, what kind of faith you believe, what kind of object you will attract.
For example, I release the message that I am a beggar, that I am dressed in tatters, that I am sloppy, and that I have no job. But I want to find a female teacher, or a female civil servant, do you think I can find it?
I couldn't find it.
Life is a game, and finding a partner is also a game. And finding objects is a game of information value matching.
information matching, this will be the speed of finding the object will be very fast.
You have money, you have an annual income of 300,000 or 500,000, and your family assets are tens of millions, OK, then you will let others know your value, and others will know your value, and others will value you from the bottom of their hearts and will not underestimate you.
This is why many girls don't reply to boys' messages? The fundamental reason is that girls don't pay attention to you, and you have no weight in girls' hearts.
Others don't know your value = no value
Everyone has to remember this formula.
Value determines your attractiveness, the size of your attractiveness determines the number of your potential objects, and quantity determines quality.
Love has a price, different loves, different prices.
If you are a millionaire, then you will have the love of a millionaire. If you are a billionaire, you will have the love of a billionaire.
Millionaire love and billionaire love are not the same. The magnitude is different, the class is different, and the love is naturally different.
Therefore, we must release the information and show ourselves. Of course, everything you say is true, you can't lie to others, otherwise, you will hurt yourself.
You have an annual income of 500,000 yuan, and you could have found a female civil servant, a female teacher, or a female model. But you are afraid that girls will like your money, but you tell girls that you earn 100,000 yuan a year, which will cause female civil servants, female teachers, and female models to ignore you.
You will miss out on the love that is yours because of it.
You earn 100,000 yuan a year, but you tell the girl that you earn 300,000 yuan a year, but your actual consumption level does not reach this level, or the girl finds out that you lie and brag, and the girl will not pay attention to you.
Find a partner to fall in love, this is an activity to show value, who learns to show himself, who is better at showing himself, then he can attract more of the opposite sex, will have more love initiative, he can make his love value higher, and happier.
Boys, don't be afraid that girls like your money, you have money, this is your advantage, finding a partner is a competition between people of the same sex, you hide your advantages, it's like you cut off your arm, you will be at a disadvantage.
And what you have to learn is how to make the girls you attract fall in love with you, not with your money.
Only when you learn this, you won't worry that girls will fall in love with your money and not with your people. The specific methods and strategies have also been discussed in detail in our love heart audio lesson, so I won't say much about it here, if you are interested, you can listen to it.