After the breakup, if I have to find the biggest fault of the redemption person, then I will leave this position to the anxious.
After the breakup, the person always wants to get it back quickly, and he always wants to return to his side immediately and immediately, if a person is broken up, and then tell you, I'm not in a hurry, I can take my time.
You can take what they say, but their actions will still reveal their eagerness.
Xiaoyu said to redeem
I'm not saying that it's wrong to be anxious, to be precise, I think it's useless to be anxious, since it doesn't help to recover, why am I in such a hurry.
Although everyone can listen to the truth, many people will nod their heads and feel that they are right, but when it is implemented on themselves, they find that they can't control it.
Today I will try to explain the problem of urgency from another aspect, and I hope you can follow my train of thought and try to solve the demon of urgency.
We can think about the question, why do people want to get a result?
In principle, it's because we can't be sure whether this outcome will come. Because if you are sure that this result will come, you will not be in such a hurry, you will sit and wait for the result to come.
But at this time, the question arises again, can we know the results in advance?
In principle, it can't be done, because time is ticking and you never know what's going to happen, so you can't be sure what the outcome will be?
But at this time, I want to tell you another truth, which is that you can increase the probability of the outcome coming, and it is infinitely larger. This method is also very simple, that is, to grasp the essential laws.
Xiaoyu said to redeem
We can speculate on the direction of things according to the law, and do the right thing at the right time, which naturally increases the likelihood that we will get results.
Let me give a historical example to illustrate, we all know that our ancient feudal dynasty basically did not live more than 300 years, and the reason is very simple, because in the later stage of the dynasty, there was an unfair distribution of resources at the beginning, the poorer the poorer, the richer the richer, so it shook the interests of many people, so it was easy to cause social turmoil.
After saying this, everyone should know what to do when they travel back to ancient times to be emperors, right?
Let's go back to our redemption, there is also a law to follow, that is, the attraction between men and women has an inseparable relationship with value, so in essence, as long as you have enough value, you can attract each other.
Then our problem becomes that the essence of love is the mutual attraction of value, so you only need to improve in the direction of value, and you can increase the probability of redemption, and it is infinitely increased.
As long as you think about the problem with this magic weapon of victory, you will find that there is no need to be so anxious, you concentrate on improving yourself, and you will definitely have a redeemable ending.
This is the calmness of seeing through the essence, and it is the key to solving your anxiety problems.
Thinking about it the other way, you also know that the reason why you are in a hurry to redeem it is because you don't think that the other party will definitely belong to you in the end, so you have to have each other quickly.
Xiaoyu said to redeem
Why is it important to have a mentality when it comes to recovery, and it must be important to believe that you can redeem success, because firmly believing that you can redeem success is also a redemption technique, which can alleviate your anxiety, make you present a better state, and help you successfully recover.
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