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In interpersonal interactions, gift-giving and gift-receiving are very common things, and almost no one can avoid them.
Gift-giving is not a beast, it is also a shortcut to foster relationships and cooperation.
But be careful, no matter how good the relationship is, don't accept these gifts from others, otherwise you will be in big trouble.
01: Don't take money from unknown sources
In interpersonal interactions, most people give gifts to each other, and a few people give money to each other.
Money is such a sensitive thing, once someone gives it to you, you must be cautious, because it is likely to be money from an unknown source, and he will be a traitor in order to curry favor with you, and you will also be implicated at that time.
If you can't tell whether the other party's gift is in line with the norms, the best way is not to collect money.
Tell others that this is too inappropriate, that it is useless, and that it will not be rewarded, and so on, and reject him tactfully, believing that the other party will understand.
Never accept such a gift from someone because of greed, otherwise in case of the East Window incident in the future, you will only ruin yourself, which is the most pity.
02: Don't accept gifts you don't like
Gift-giving is also particular, we will be selective, according to the preferences of others, which proves that we care about others, but also shows the steadfastness of feelings. But if someone gives you a gift that you don't like, and it shows up again and again, then you have to be careful, which means that they may just be perfunctory, and we need to explicitly refuse.
Interpersonal communication is like this, everyone is testing your bottom line, with the first time, the second patience, there will be further intensification.
Once others start to perfunctory you, you are only a supporting role in the relationship, and you can only be used by others, and the result is too bleak.
So from now on, if someone has given a gift you don't like more than three times, tell them clearly what you think, and if the other person is obsessed, it is better to break off the relationship.
Dating is about making each other happy, and if he can't make you happy, then there's no need for the relationship to continue.
03: Don't give a second-hand gift
Many people often receive second-hand gifts, and some people think that these gifts represent someone else's heart, even if they are not brand new. But there are still some people who think that second-hand gifts, after so many people, have long lost the meaning of giving gifts, and they would rather not suffer this grievance.
Actually, second-hand gifts are not necessarily unavoidable, but they must be distinguished from the occasion.
If the gift he gives you is given to him by someone else, it means that he is borrowing flowers to offer Buddha and does not respect the hearts of others, and such a person is not worthy of deep friendship.
If the second-hand gift from the other party happens to be what you need, and there is no emotional dispute involved, then you can accept it generously.
Gifts don't care about expensive or cheap, they just need to be satisfactory and desirable to each other. If his second-hand gift happens to be delivered to your heart, then this is also a joy for all, so why not?
In interpersonal communication, gift-giving and gift-receiving are all exquisite, especially gift-receiving.
It is best not to accept the above three gifts, and if you accept them, you will lower your value.
Be cautious in giving gifts and be cautious in receiving gifts, so as not to be taken care of.
At the same time, you can also see the character of the other party from the gift, the person who gave the above three gifts generally does not care about you, you must carefully consider the relationship with each other, don't be the wrongdoer.
If you receive the wrong gifts and are still pleasing the wrong people in vain, you are really unlucky.
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