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My name is Xiaofang, I am 26 years old, and I have been in the graphic design industry for 4 years. The job is stable, the income is okay, and the overall quality of life is good. Recently, however, I encountered something that bothered me a lot.
My boyfriend Xiao Ming and I have been dating for 5 years and have a very good relationship with each other. Last year, Xiao Ming proposed to me, and I happily agreed. Since then, we've been preparing for the wedding and finally started to buy a house some time ago.
Xiao Ming said to me: Fangfang, I have arranged to buy a house, it is in the newly opened community nearby, the environment is good, and the house price is within our affordable range.
I was suddenly asked, and my head buzzed. Xiao Ming saw that my expression changed slightly, and hurriedly explained: Don't think about it, it's just a matter of name, and the two of us are the parties to all rights and obligations such as the purchase contract. My sister has been working in the field recently, and she is too short of money to have money, so I added her name to give her a self-owned house in the future, which will not affect us.
I frowned, a foreboding feeling flashed through my mind. I thought about it: who is the owner of the house, what if there is any dispute in the future, and if there is a conflict between the two of you in the future, the house will be involved.
Xiao Ming waved his hand again and again: It's not that complicated, don't always hold on to small things. My sister and I have always had a good relationship, and she is a girl of good character, and she will have her own house in the future, and it is purely expedient to add her name. You should trust me.
Once upon a time, when we bought a house, we only thought about the two of us, but now I have to leave a gap for others, which inevitably makes me suspicious.
Xiao Ming saw that I was still uncertain, and sighed: Fangfang, you should be generous. You also know that our family attaches great importance to the concept of family, and my sister is like my own daughter to me, and she will rely on me as an elder brother for her future development. When she was really capable, she'd take that name off. You just look at it in the long run, although my sister will not be by our side in the future, but after all, she is still a family, can't you even do this little favor?
Seeing that I fell silent, Xiao Ming sighed, stood up and paced around the living room. I looked up at the side of his face, frowning, as if thinking about something.
After a long while, he finally stopped, turned to look directly at me and said, "Fangfang, we have been dating for so long, you should know who I am." I've never done anything wrong, and I'm true to you.
I nodded, acquiescing to what he said.
Then why are you just not at ease? He frowned and asked, I really just gave my sister a stopgap measure for the sake of her good, and I had no other intentions. Haven't you always admired my image as a 'good brother'?
My voice became quieter and quieter, for fear that saying something wrong would hurt Xiao Ming's self-esteem.
When Xiao Ming heard this, his face suddenly became gloomy. He sighed heavily, his eyes wandering, and he looked out the window elsewhere.
Fangfang, Fangfang, you're just too stingy. After a long while, he finally spoke, with a little disappointment in his tone, I thought you were a reasonable person, but I didn't expect to be too petty in such a small matter.
I was shocked, Xiao Ming had never accused me in such a tone. I couldn't help but feel a little aggrieved, and my eyes were slightly red.
Xiao Ming interrupted me, and his expression was a little angry: No, no, no, Fangfang, don't give me quibbles. The reason why you object is because you mind the house. Don't think I can't see it, in fact, you just think that the house is not yours and me, right?
As he spoke, Xiao Ming's tone gradually increased, and his emotions became excited. I was speechless at his words, and tears flowed down my face.
Seeing my crying appearance, Xiao Ming took a deep breath, and seemed to regret his previous actions. But he didn't apologize, just sat back on the couch in silence, pursed his lips and turned his head away.
And just like that, an eerie silence enveloped the living room. I lowered my head, tears rolling down, and Xiao Ming stared thoughtfully out the window, and no one spoke again.
Just as I was caught in the contradiction of the war between heaven and man, Xiao Ming suddenly spoke, interrupting my cranky thoughts.
Hearing Xiao Ming say this, I raised my head to look at him, tears in my eyes. Xiao Ming's brows furrowed slightly, and his face reappeared with the gentle expression of the past, and he reached out to take my hand, his fingers interlocked.
Fangfang, listen to me. Xiao Ming said earnestly, we are about to enter the palace of marriage and form a new family. And family means that there are no longer just you and me, and there will be more relatives included in our lives in the future.
I nodded, a little clear. Xiao Ming looked into my eyes and continued: You and I are both only children, and only the two of us will support each other in the future, and life will be very lonely. Luckily, we each have other relatives, such as my sister Xiaoping, who is just like our daughter in the future.
At the mention of the word sister, I can't help but feel a little awkward. Xiao Ming naturally saw the change in my expression, and he hurriedly explained: Fangfang, I know that you may not be able to accept the statement that your sister is equivalent to your daughter. But trust me, as long as you really get to know her, you will find out what a lovely and kind girl she is. We treat her as if she were our own daughter, loving and caring for her with our hearts, rather than excluding her.
Hearing this, I couldn't help but feel a little moved in my heart. Yes, we are about to enter the palace of marriage, and it is time to look at the definition of family with a broader mind.
Looking at my soothing expression, Xiao Ming continued: The reason why I want to add my sister's name to the real estate certificate is also out of love for her. You know she's working hard out of town right now, and she's always on the strain, and I just want to give her a stopgap solution so that she can have a home of her own in the future. When she is really capable, she will naturally take the name off.
I nodded thoughtfully, Xiao Ming's approach was indeed well-intentioned.
Fangfang, the family we will form in the future should be the concept of a big family, not just a small family of the two of us. Xiao Ming held my hand and said earnestly, we must know how to be tolerant and understanding, and be more tolerant and caring for our families. You say, can we do it?
When I heard these words, my heart was like being illuminated by the warm sun, and I finally opened up. Yes, isn't this what a family should be? care for each other and support each other. How could I have been so narrow-minded?
I nodded vigorously, tears oozing from the corners of my eyes again, but this time they were tears of happiness. Seeing this, Xiao Ming opened his arms and hugged me into his arms and imprinted a kiss on my forehead.
I'm sorry Fangfang, but I was too impulsive. He whispered in my ear, but it doesn't matter, from now on we will be a big family, I will look at my family with a broader perspective, and you must also learn to be tolerant and tolerant.
I nodded, and a warm feeling welled up in my heart. It seems that this little thing of buying a house has given me an important life inspiration. The definition of family is far more than just me and Xiao Ming, it is a big concept that needs to be cherished and cared for with enough tolerance.
Thinking of this, I couldn't help rubbing it in Xiao Ming's arms, revealing a sweet smile that I hadn't seen for a long time. Xiao Ming was also very happy when he saw this, and kissed me the cheek.
Then we will make a decision, and the house will be added to Xiaoping's name. He smiled and said that when she was really capable, she would naturally take the initiative to remove the name. At that time, we will have a house that belongs to our big family.
In this way, after some heart-to-heart talks, Xiao Ming and I finally reached a consensus on adding my sister's name to the real estate certificate. Although I was indeed a little narrow-minded and paranoid at first, under Xiao Ming's persuasion, I finally opened my mind and learned to look at the definition of family with a more inclusive and broader vision.
Fangfang, hurry up! The agent said it was best to complete the formalities before 10 a.m. When Xiao Ming saw me coming down, he beckoned happily.
I nodded, expectant. Once in the car, we went straight to the agency's office.
Fangfang, you see, this community environment is good, right? It's in the center of the city, and it's very close to our unit, so it's super convenient to go to work in the future. Xiao Ming pointed out the window and introduced me while driving.
I couldn't help but smile as Xiao Ming gushed about the advantages of this new house. Xiao Ming's personality has always been like this, and when he does things, he will find a way to take care of every detail clearly and clearly to ensure that nothing goes wrong. Although this kind of personality is a little verbose on weekdays, it also makes people feel more intimate and safe.
When it arrived, it was this intermediary company. Xiao Ming parked the car, took my hand excitedly, and walked into the office building of the intermediary company.
The staff of the agency was very neat, and when they saw our arrival, they quickly took out a stack of documents and explained to us in detail how to implement the steps of adding names on the real estate certificate. I listened carefully, and Xiao Ming patiently explained some proper terms to me from time to time.
I turned my head to look at Xiao Ming, and he smiled slightly, signaling to reassure me.
Okay, let's get started. Xiao Ming said briskly.
So, with the assistance of the intermediary, Xiao Ming and I began to verify the personal information and sign the procedures one by one.
Everything went smoothly until the last step, when the signatures of the three were required as proof. Xiao Ming has already signed his name at the designated place in the contract, and I have signed my name Xiao Fang in the next position.
Xiao Ming and I looked at each other, and then reacted, it turned out that it was because Xiao Ping's name was placed after our name. As a matter of common sense, Xiaoping is younger than all of us, so her name should be signed last.
What should I do then? My sister is not here now, so she can't sign immediately? Xiao Ming asked with some worry.
The intermediary thought for a while and said: It doesn't matter, according to your situation, you can sign by Ms. Fangfang and Mr. Xiao Ming first, as for Miss Xiaoping's signature, you can entrust Mr. Xiao Ming to sign on your behalf first, and then make up the formalities after she comes back.