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Life always inadvertently gives us profound revelations to think deeply about when faced with big choices. Sometimes, we think that our hearts are full of love, but after the baptism of the years, we find that the foundation of that emotion is more gratitude than love. This is my story, a story of growth, responsibility and true love, which made me deeply aware of the complexity of emotions and the importance of life choices.
Ever since I was a child, I grew up in an environment where my mother lacked love, and my father, despite his best efforts, was unable to fully fill that void. His hard work and helplessness, I see it in my eyes and hurt in my heart. Just when I thought that life could not give me more burdens, fate dealt me a heavy blow again - my father suffered a sudden cerebral hemorrhage and has been partially paralyzed ever since. In the face of this sudden change, my world seemed to collapse overnight, and all my dreams and hopes seemed to become out of reach.
Just when I was at my most helpless and hesitant, he appeared, like a warm ray of sunshine shining into my life. He not only took care of my tuition fees and solved my urgent need for continuing education, but also took care of my father without regrets and warmed my cold heart with his practical actions. His kindness and persistence allowed me to see the best side of human nature and planted a seed of gratitude in the deepest part of my heart.
As time passed, I successfully completed my studies and started a new life. Work has given me a sense of accomplishment and confidence that I have never felt before, and I have begun to have the ability to give back to those who have helped me. However, just when I thought everything was going in a better direction, life threw me a conundrum again. He asked to get married, which was supposed to be the happiness that every girl dreams of, but it made me feel lost and frightened like never before.
This realization made me deeply painful, and I was afraid that my choice would hurt him, and I was even more afraid that such a marriage would make us both unhappy. So, I chose to escape, made excuses not to go home, and even stayed in a hotel alone, just to give myself a space to think.
After a few days of contemplation, I realized that sincerity and confession were the only way to solve the problem. I decided to face my true feelings and also face him bravely, expressing my gratitude and at the same time being honest about my hesitations and fears about marriage. I know it's going to be a tough conversation, but I believe it's only through honest communication that we can find the best solution for both parties.
Life is always moving forward with constant choices, and every choice is full of unknowns and challenges. My gratitude to him will never change, but I must also be honest with my heart and courageously pursue my true happiness. This is probably the best reward for him, and it is also the most important lesson I learned growing up. #情感#