Nowadays, all kinds of electronic products are flooded in life, and it is really difficult to keep children from touching mobile phones and tablets, when children say to you "Mom, I want to play with mobile phones", how do you respond?
"I can't play, I keep playing with my phone, and sooner or later I'll have to be blind"
"What's the matter with you, kid, you know how to play with your phone every day, you can't think of anything else"
"What mobile phones do children play with, your most important thing is to read well"
"When you score above 90 in this exam, you can play on your mobile phone"
These answers invisibly treat electronic products as a flood beast, and the more you don't want your child to play, the more you may want to play.
Give your child a chance to give reasons
Do you want to play with your phone? So, you can tell your mother why you want to play and why, and this behavior can train your child's ability to persuade others to challenge authority. This is an indispensable and important part of elite education.
Have a regular agreement with your child
It's not that children can't play, but they can't play more than three times a day, and each time it can't exceed 15 minutes, and if you can abide by this agreement, you can play with it.
This can cultivate children's rules, and the survival of society needs to follow the rules.
Try to be your child's ideal playmate
Baby, let's stop playing with our phones for now, and I'll take you out to fly a kite later
In fact, sometimes children want to play with mobile phones because they are bored, and at this time give enough companionship, so that children can gradually forget their mobile phones.
Parents should lead by example and be persistent
If you want your child to play less with mobile phones, parents also need to lead by example and teach by example, so that it can be convincing.