In China, we have always been taught to be subtle and restrained, and people tend to feel embarrassed and uneasy about sexual topics. Many people don't have a clear understanding of sex and marriage, but with the continuous advancement of online technology, people are beginning to gain more knowledge through the Internet. However, many times we are not aware of the authenticity of the articles we read. Especially in terms of physiological knowledge, it is easy to fall into many misunderstandings
Many people think that the longer the couple's life, the better, so is this really the case?
Conjugal life is an integral part of marriage, and it plays an important role in maintaining the relationship between couples, promoting intimacy, and family happiness.
Excessive sex time can lead to boredom and burnout, and even have a negative impact on the couple's relationship. It is best not to have more than 12 minutes of normal sex, mainly because after a long time, the secretion of the girl's lower body will slowly decrease, and if you have intense sex, it will make the girl feel pain.
In addition, if it is too long, it is easy to cause various diseases. It has been clinically proven that if the sex life is too long, women are more likely to cause urinary infections, aunts are not allowed, etc., and men are prone to prostatitis.
Take stock of the 4 misunderstandings of sex life and mislead how many young couples
Increasing the frequency of sexual activity increases pregnancy rates
Couples who are trying to conceive will deliberately increase the number of times they have sex because they feel that doing so will increase the pregnancy rate. However, it turns out that this approach is the opposite. During a woman's reproductive stage, only 1~2 mature eggs are released per menstrual cycle, and 2~5 days before and after ovulation is the most suitable time to conceive. Therefore, having sex frequently only increases the amount of sperm released without enough eggs to bond with. Therefore, increasing the frequency of sexual activity does not improve the chances of pregnancy.
In addition, frequent sex can also lead to a decrease in semen volume, which can reduce sperm density. At the same time, the survival rate of sperm will also decrease, which in turn will further reduce the pregnancy rate. This is because it takes a certain amount of time for a man's semen to recover and produce, and having sex too often can lead to a decrease in sperm quality.
Ignore foreplay
Foreplay is an integral part of sex life, not only to help both partners relax, but also to add atmosphere to the couple's life, and to improve the quality of sex life. However, many people ignore the importance of foreplay, which leads to a significant reduction in the quality of their sexual life. Therefore, we should understand that we should not rush it and let both partners be well prepared so that both partners can better devote themselves to sex.
Decreased libido in women during menopause
Most menopausal women do not lose interest in sex with age, on the contrary, they are more comfortable and uninhibited in their sexual pleasures. After entering menopause, women no longer need to worry about pregnancy, which makes sex time more free and flexible to meet their needs.
Sex is an important part of the relationship, and during menopause, a woman's sexual needs and interests deserve to be valued and satisfied.
Only women are frigid
Low libido is a common phenomenon and is often considered a problem in women. However, recent studies have shown that men may also suffer from decreased libido. Whether it's drinking, taking drugs, stress, chronic illness, or aging, these can lead to a loss of male libido.
For those who suffer from low libido, it is very important to seek professional medical advice and psychological support. Through reasonable lifestyle changes, medication and psychological counseling, men can effectively improve their libido problems and restore a healthy sex life.
To have a long and harmonious sex life, we must recognize some common misconceptions and avoid them by them, and secondly, we should learn to communicate. Communication is one of the most important aspects of our sex life, helping us to express our needs and desires, as well as increasing understanding and trust between us and our partners. We can make sex give us endless pleasure and satisfaction.