Ma Yili is a Shanghainese woman. How good the acting is, we are not qualified to evaluate.
For marriage, I think Ma Yili is sober in the world.
In her good years, she met the article, and despite the fact that she was 8 years older than him, she resolutely married him and had children. Who hasn't been young? Who hasn't worked hard to love? Love is love, regardless of whether others are optimistic or not.
The article derailed during her pregnancy, she chose to forgive him, and said the famous sentence of Ma Yili: Although it is easy to fall in love, marriage is not easy, do it and cherish it.
That's when I was impressed with Ma Yili. According to common sense, Ma Yili should have yelled and cried, but she didn't, she only said this resonant sentence.
Out of many considerations, she divorced the article 5 years later, and said a famous quote from Ma Yili who broke up: "You and I have loved deeply, worked hard, and achieved each other." There is a regret in this situation, but there is no right or wrong. From now on, every life rejoices. ”
Yes, in marriage, it is impossible to distinguish who is right and who is wrong, being together is fate, and separation means that fate is over. These two sentences summarize the past, look forward to the future, and do not complain about each other.
I don't know if she has the guidance of a master, anyway, what she said is very philosophical and warm.
Very qualified, very educated, very cultured.
After the divorce, her career was not affected in the slightest, but became more and more brilliant, showing herself as a more independent heroine.
It wasn't until I saw this passage that Ma Yili didn't know on what occasion I didn't know what to say, and I admired and impressed her even more.
She said: The current marriage, looking at the scenery from afar, makes people envious, up close to tears, bruises, sorry for the parents, sorry for the children for the divorce, sorry for themselves when they get married, they will regret it if they get married, the cat in the alley is very free, but there is no home, the dog in the wall has a home, but they have to bow their heads for life, the multiple-choice question of life, how to choose there are regrets, but please remember, no matter how you choose to make a living before you love, love yourself before you love others.
This may be her personal experience of being a wife and a mother, and no one who has experienced it personally can say such a thing.
To be a woman is to be a person like Ma Yili. Love when you should love, and divide when you deserve. I've experienced all kinds of identities as a woman, and it's worth it!
Be a self-reliant, self-loving, and self-reliant woman like Ma Yili.
It's not out of date at all.