Big Fat Ling and Little Fox are the two girls next to me, and the age gap between the two girls is not big, one is twenty-four or five, and the other is less than 30, but the gap between them in terms of career is very large.
Da Fat Ling joined the full-time children three years ago, and now she is lying on her back at home all the year round and has not yet sat up, while the little fox has her own company, of course, their growth circumstances and life trajectories are different.
But I would like to use their examples to talk about the principles of success that can be applied everywhere!
Before I say that, let me have an interlude.
I can't do it when I look at the headlines, my eyes can't do it, so I usually listen to the headlines, thank God, the headlines have this function, and when I press the listening word in the upper right corner, a young lady will pop up inside, and broadcast it for me!
Of course, I'm listening at home, disturbing the people or not, we don't care, but for a long time, I put a conversation box at home, and sometimes my relatives at home also come to participate in the discussion.
For example, when an online article was broadcast in the headlines that day, the author swore that he listed 12 points for success in the workplace, which roughly means that he should be able to follow the right person, be able to look at the direction, and be able to actively cater to him.
You said that you just talked about this, he also came to pull and step on one, he meant that there are many phoenix men who have no emotional intelligence now, even if they have entered the workplace, and because they were born in the countryside, they are at the bottom, and they will not be stunned.
In the end, colleagues and colleagues do not get along well, and leaders and leaders are also offended, these people are not promising! And those children with good family conditions, one by one, because of their parents' foresight and vigorous output, they are invincible in the workplace by leaps and bounds, stepping on the watermelon peel and rushing forward!
My wife, who was washing fruit next to me, heard this. His wife, Pig Head, snorted from between his teeth, expressing his disbelief, he said:
Listening to this thing to guide the work is simply a chaotic command! What he said was all tricks, chickens and dogs and thieves, and this was the icing on the cake, and the most important thing was that he didn't talk about. The real workplace last word, he didn't say!
I nodded my head to that.
Although it has been 20 years since we left the workplace, the problem is that there may be some changes in the way we work within 20 years, but the basic laws of the workplace will not change. If you want me to listen to this, it is also a crooked mouth!
Now I am still active in the workplace of large enterprises, and I have also mixed with the middle-level, which is my wife Pig Head. Listen to this uncle who is still fighting on the front line of the part-time job:
On the contrary, it is the Phoenix man who is popular in the workplace today, and it is those guys and girls from rural towns.
This is really not just to hear from the pig-headed gentleman, there is a little brother in our institute who graduated from Harbin Institute of Technology and works for a large enterprise, what does he do in this enterprise? How do the satellites in the sky turn? They have to add a handle.
I also know a young lady who also works for a large company, and I need their help on the ship and submarine.
These people are the backbone of the unit, and through chatting with these people, I got a feedback, that is, often those from small town youth or even farm children with very ordinary family conditions, they are more popular in the workplace, why?
Listen to me.
In the words of Pig Head, a business phone call was put down, and I turned back to the person in the office and said:
There is something specific in the company in Zhanjiang, which of you will take a trip?
Look at it.
Little A is allowed to make a mistake in the future. Why? He didn't want to go on a business trip, he had been there for a month, what was the situation in Tianjin now? The city was full of golden armor. Oh no. It is full of begonia flowers. With this effort, he still has to go around with his girlfriend after work!
And what about Little B, Little B doesn't want to go either.
Because he just went on a business trip last month. In Xiao B's words, if I always go on a business trip, then is there some problem here? Is the leader bullying me? Oh, the hard bones always let me gnaw, not afraid that I will break my teeth?
Besides, the business trip subsidy of our unit is not enough to do! If I enter the base, it will be even worse, staying there, so that I can't come out for a few weeks, it doesn't cost money, and the reception party is in charge of food and housing, but the problem is that I am also tired!
In the evening, they asked me to work overtime, and you said I should not go? Go ahead, I won't be alive for a long time, and the leader here can't see it.
And every time at this time, Xiao C always stepped forward, and he said to the leader with enthusiasm:
Director, you say a word, if necessary, I can leave at any time, there is my luggage in the dormitory, I have no home and no job, and it is convenient to go on a business trip. Let's eat wherever we go!
In addition, I will pass on a sentence about the true words that the pig-headed gentleman said to me while lying under the covers:
He said:
I know that Xiao A has a background, and he is the nephew of the one above, so the salary increase, the bonus, I have to push him forward.
But the problem is that I have to have a quota in my hand, it can't be all of you related households, I also have to pull some people to do the work!
What does Xiao C say this time, I also have to give him a promotion, miss it once, I'm sorry for other people's children, this is a person who is willing to work, this is a cadre under my hands, I have to point to him in the future, if I can't benefit such a subordinate, then I can't support this work!
Don't be a head of me.
And listening to Zhu Toujun, the work of the vast majority of central enterprises and state-owned enterprises has a very high technical content.
Don't look at the 985,211 graduates who came in, but that's all on paper, and when you get to me, you have to learn from scratch.
I give you the opportunity to learn, and you? Once or twice, you step back. Three or four times, you dodge backwards, and slowly you have fewer and fewer opportunities to gain experience.
It's like going on a business trip this time, if you go there specifically, there are any situations, you can learn by doing, and you can learn by doing, and you will not only go to our unit, but also to other brother units.
Everyone gets together, tackles key problems, and battles, how much knowledge do you have to grow, you have been working with our unit for ten years, and you can't grow this insight!
Those young master soldiers, lazy seedlings, I don't even want to mention it, and I still put this thing on.
When this pig-headed gentleman said such things, his voice was very loud and tough, and he said:
Don't expect any big or large central enterprises, even a 10,000-year-old ship, which will never sink in a lifetime! Do you think you'll be in the safe when you get here?
Maybe even the staff in the staff, there will be a PK layoff, you are now young, do not grasp some business in your hands, come up to retire, come up to lie flat, hum, I think you can lie down for a few years.
That's the little A. The aisle can't pull open the crotch master. It's still more than me at every turn. I don't compete with you, I just have one, you can't compare: age!
How old am I this year? I will go home in a few years to retire and enjoy the blessings, and I will retire immediately in a few years, and I will be able to get a pension in two years.
In fact, this situation is like what Pig Head Jun said, which is the case in many large enterprises. This is not an isolated case.
So much so that the little leader who graduated from Harbin Institute of Technology wanted to recruit three people this year, and he directly released his words:
I don't want the young master soldiers in the big city, I want the rural ones. If I want that town, I want the kind of people who dare to fight and can carry tough battles, have pursuits, ideals, and are willing to obey the leadership and management!
Such a person will not tell me here at every turn, I PUA him!
In fact, I have heard this kind of thing a lot in the past two years. So much so that some companies actually claimed:
We don't want people from Tianjin. It sounds strange, is this suspected of discrimination? But in fact, a young lady who does recruitment said to me:
There are some people that I don't see as good material for work, I just recruit them, and I have to make trouble for myself.
Many children from wealthy families in this city participate in work, what kind of mentality do they hold at every turn?
That is, I go to this class, I don't want to make money, I just want to have a place to pay social security for me.
Such a person is also mixed up when he arrives at the unit. It's a little bit less to be able to do a little less work. If you can push it out, you can push it out, why do you think we are looking for such a person?
At that time, there were many children in their 20s around me. You say how bad they are, and they are not so bad.
It's like the big fat Ling I know, this girl is round, if you want me to say that Lingzi is a rare beauty, why? Do you think, a little girl who looks like a big rice ball, who doesn't love it, especially someone like me who loves to eat rice balls!
This round and white Lingzi is also very loving. She feeds all the cats in our area, and if there is a female cat with an injured kitten and a pregnant cat, Reiko will also pay for it to be sent to the hospital herself, and in addition, she also collects money.
That day in the small garden, Reiko picked up a mobile phone,
The child hurriedly ran to the property and said that he would send a notice in the owner group and ask who had lost his mobile phone. At noon, she was still in a hurry, she was afraid that someone would lose her owner and delay things!
Do you think this kid is a good person?
Hello people!
But do you think this kid is not worried?
Worried?
Why do you say she's sad?
Because this kid really lacks a little basic initiative.
I suspect that Reiko is a time-traveling woman who traveled from the Ming Dynasty to the present day. If she were to be a lady of the embroidery building in the Ming Dynasty, well, she might still be admired!
I want to write a time-traveling novel for her, and I have the name in mind, and that is:
After graduating from college and not getting employed, I wrapped my little feet and returned to the Ming Dynasty!
The family arranged two jobs for Reiko, and they were both good units that made people drool when they heard it.
Although the library in the university and the scientific research institute of a certain undertaking with editing are all administrative posts, they are not something that ordinary people can squeeze into. For the sake of these two good units, he begged all the people he could.
Oops, during the mask period, her mother was an adult, and she took the guy to an old classmate to be a nanny to take care of the children, for the sake of her daughter, alas, she didn't say anything, and drank out!
The old classmate is now a lady, and the lady feels sorry for it at first glance, so she urges her husband to arrange a post for Reiko, but she just begged someone to choke and find a job!
Hey, the girl said she wouldn't do it!
I don't do work, I'm always a cat at home. This kid himself is also awkwardly panicked, because there is no social interaction. Everyone else has gone to work, who still plays with her?
I can't match her with two girls anymore, let's play with her. The average family with a small family, even if it is a middle class, cannot reach this level.
What's more, I used to be tired of being with her, and the other, the full-time children in our yard: the male treasure is lazy.
Now people are also employed. Doing game playing on the Internet, game anchors, have officially signed studios, so there is less time to accompany her.
And the lazy parents still have some bada eyes on Reiko, and they are swept away. That means don't look for our son to walk with you in the middle of the night...
There's no way, Da Fat Ling feels that it's a shame to wander around the courtyard during the day.
So she often asks the lazy man to take a walk together in the middle of the night, but the problem is that the lazy man has to work during the day now, and he walks in the middle of the night, he really can't do this, so he goes back and forth, the relationship between the two is a little estranged, and Fat Ling is about to be depressed now!
So, the family also persuaded her, be a good girl, don't worry about illness anymore.
In this way, my family persuaded my friends, and even my aunt and I helped her to worry, and it was easy to find a job online. Fat Ling has studied photography before, and her skills are not bad, so let's do landscape photography and pick up jobs from the Internet.
No one needs to see each other, we don't belong to anyone, one-on-one alone, isn't this good? But in fact, after less than five or six orders, Fat Ling retreated again, what do you say? Oh, the quality is too poor, the quality of the guests is too poor!
The first guest was a little doll, only three or four years old, led by his mother. The child cries, the adult screams. The photography experience is not wonderful!
The second guest, a little boy, that is, just entered high school, somehow, he was also interested in Hanfu, wearing a flower robe like a flying fish suit, and wanted to take pictures, but the shy Miss Lingzi was embarrassed, twisted and pinched and pulled me together, and said that she was talking to the opposite sex and blushing.
The third is a quick temper. Fourth, there are too many things. The fifth is a fat aunt...
By the way, bad luck is bad luck on this fat aunt!
This is good, he is a fairy who has enjoyed the service, and he doesn't care about giving money, and he always pushes and finds faults!
Looking left and right at the photo, not satisfied. I didn't appreciate it after changing it, and in the end, I didn't even give 100 yuan for renting clothes, and threatened to give a bad review.
When Da Fat Ling heard this, she was so aggrieved that she cried:
I've been busy for her for so long, I've been running for her, but she actually owes me money, why is she bullying children so much?
Oh, don't do it, I see that this flower can't bloom for many days, the recent list is particularly full, people also do scenery and shooting, you can take three or four orders a day, a single earns 300, this day is good, it is four figures!
Hurry up and take advantage of the flower season to pull business, if you take a break at this time, there will be no life in the future!
Oops, I'm really worried about Fat Reiko. Yesterday, she was too hot, today, she was too cloudy, tomorrow she said it was windy, and the day after tomorrow when she looked at the weather forecast, she couldn't prepare, and she had to sprinkle a few drops of rain!
Hey, this time is good, the rest is stretched indefinitely, and Reiko is ready to lie down!
I was so anxious that I, the photography assistant, had nothing to say to help my aunt, and Reiko said to me weakly on the phone:
Aunt Cat, let's start work again on May Day!
Buy Karma Quack Quack!
Such a lazy girl really can't do anything but her full-time children!
That day, someone came up with the idea of marrying Fat Lingzi and then asking her to have a baby quickly. Eh, hugging a baby as an excuse for a full-time mother, can't this stay with the family?
When Fat Ling's mother heard this, she glanced at the man fiercely, and then said hatefully:
Who will marry her?
Is this still messy?
That day, I actually came from another aunt with bad news, I heard that Lazy Meat was going on a blind date, and now he has a job, and his mother Zhang Luo let her son go on a blind date!
Oh, if this meat brother marries, Da Lingzi, don't live.
When Brother Meat's door is posted with the word "happy", it is the day when the older man puts a wreath in this box!
Oh, isn't this going to our girl to death?
But in stark contrast to Fat Age, there was a little fox I knew.
Don't care about other people's three views? Is it to be a junior? Is it to take a shortcut?
But let's just say, this kid is so impulsive and so motivated!
She is always making arrangements for her life. This kid has a measured way and a bottom line. Speak and look at the eyes, and the communication is very comprehensive!
If she doesn't succeed, that's a small probability event.
This little beauty named Fox is a professional dancer.
When it comes to her professional experience, in her words, I have lost every toenail more than three times.
I believe it. As a dancer who can dance the peach and plum cup, the hardships she has paid are unimaginable to ordinary people.
The girl who learned to dance was hilarious. But how many of them can cry and howl in the practice room, and those with tears and blood have to grit their teeth and carry the gong down!
In addition, the little fox has a bottom line in his principles.
She has been to the entertainment industry before, and she has also shown her little face in some film and television works, and she is an 18th-tier artist.
Ten years ago, someone offered a high price of 10,000 yuan a day to make a guest appearance in a top nightclub for a few days. Ten years ago, the little girl lived in the basement, ate Malatang, wanted to eat KFC, McDonald's had to think about it.
She was poor, but she also gritted her teeth. She said, "There are roads that I will never be able to take."
And the little fox also shouted to the mommy who threatened her, what kind of artist was the agent:
If you force me to take this path, aren't you afraid that I will expose you? Tell you, I also have channels, and I also have a big brother!
The so-called mommy was cowardly at the time, after all, there are a lot of people who are willing to do this, not to pick her alone,
I heard a big guy tell me about this, and even the big guy admired the little fox very much.
He said:
This child really has a bottom line, you must know that once she takes that road, she will always be stained!
And such a woman will not be able to associate with high-level men!
Let's talk about relationships with men!
The little fox is affectionate.
Whether it is her ex-boyfriend or now, her husband, who has been married to her for three years, praises her.
For her ex-boyfriend, she has a righteousness, selling bags to pay liquidated damages for her boyfriend in the dance studio when he is in the most difficult time.
to her current boyfriend, who was her former husband.
The little fox is affectionate. Her husband abused her many times, but the little fox just smiled and said:
You have done me more good than you have done me bad, so I am forever grateful to you!
There is a kind of ruthlessness in the little fox! a kind of ruthlessness to himself!
She doesn't have any feminine thinking, and if a man loves me, he has to be responsible for me, and he has to provide me with a comfortable life for the rest of his life, and he has to shelter me from the wind and rain.
Without these, I think she is a female and male person, in the words of the little fox:
We Hubei people are the most righteous. To roam the rivers and lakes, you must rely on friends, but you can't rely on friends!
When it comes to doing business.
Both are girls in their 20s, and the little fox has no delicate posture at all, but their eyes are shining, and they are gearing up!
worked wildly in the live broadcast room for seven hours, you must know that this is seven hours of jumping and fighting, playing, and dancing!
Then he turned around and broadcast, followed by a two-hour flight and ten hours of negotiation and selection.
Among so many Internet celebrities, she was able to stand out, not only by her appearance, but also by her own efforts, both smart and hardworking. A beautiful girl like her, who carries one and has bright ambitions, is the one that is appreciated by the big guy.
Because in her body, the big guy saw his own yesterday!
The right path to success always requires hard work and tears of blood. It's a pity that some people don't want to take this path because it's too difficult!
I'm worried about what I'm going to do with this big Reiko now? 25-year-old she's going to lie next to door? When is it going to be a head?
But recently I heard a strange story, dare to love that there is a 37-year-old male baby in our hospital, who is said to have been lying with his family for 12 years. Relying on his parents, his mother and his wife to support them together, he and his five-year-old son are called the two treasures in the family!
Oops!
Lying on the fairy, worship me!
