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In 1995, at the age of 19, Li Na joined the Hubei Provincial Tennis Team, where she met fellow tennis player Jiang Shan. At that time, Jiang Shan was already the leader of the Chinese youth tennis team, winning the gold medal at the National Games, while Li Na was still an unknown second-tier player.
Facing this talented star, Li Na couldn't help but feel sincere admiration and affection for him. In the following training and competitions, the two gradually cultivated a deep relationship.
Although they knew the obstacles of the world's vision, they still chose to hide their love and silently maintained the relationship.
A few years later, Jiang Shan was unfortunately injured in an important event and chose to go to Wuhan for further study. At the same time, Li Na began to emerge and achieved a string of victories, even surpassing her former idol Jiang Shan.
But even though her career has developed rapidly, Li Na still resolutely withdrew from the competition and went to Huazhong University of Science and Technology to study for a master's degree and reunite with Jiang Shan.
Under Jiang Shan's careful guidance, Li Na reached the top again like a rebirth. In 2006, they finally waited for the moment when they achieved positive results and officially became husband and wife.
In 14 years of married life, the two have witnessed each other's glory and experienced countless hardships and hardships. But it was precisely because of the initial acquaintance and sympathy that they finally came together.
From partners on the sports field to loving partners in life, it can be said that the marriage is destined.
As a terrific tennis champion, Li Na has shown great competitiveness and tenacity on the court. But in family life, she behaved quite "weird".
Li Na admitted that in the 14 years of marriage, she has never cooked in person, and rarely visits her in-laws. Even when she's entertaining guests, she's more used to ordering takeout than cooking her own meals.
Li Na explained. She said that for many years, she and her husband Jiang Shan have been fighting all over the country due to career development needs, and rarely have the opportunity to go home.
Even after retirement, you have to spend a lot of time and energy taking care of your children and coping with social activities, and you can't take care of all the details.
On the other hand, the estrangement between Li Na and her in-laws also stems from her psychological shadow of her mother's remarriage. She can't directly call Jiang Shan's parents "Mom and Dad", she can only call them "uncle and aunt".
However, it is gratifying that Jiang Shan's family did not mind this, but sincerely expressed their gratitude to their in-laws.
In general, although Li Na's married life seems "wonderful", she has her own story and reasons behind it. She is not deliberately alienated from her family, but she is unable to take a break from her busy career and life.
This situation may be puzzling, but it also reflects the true portrayal of celebrity families in today's society.
Li Na's special concept of marriage has attracted widespread attention, but not all celebrities choose this lifestyle.
Papi-chan, a well-known blogger, has publicly stated that although she has been in love with her boyfriend for many years, she has not accompanied her home to visit. Even if she is facing the New Year of marriage, she prefers to accompany her family.
Papi-chan believes that biological children are what parents value the most, and in contrast, the role of daughter-in-law and son-in-law is often overlooked.
In contrast, Ariel Lin and Zhu Dan are completely different representatives. No matter how busy Ariel Lin is, she insists on saying good morning to the public at 6:30 a.m. every morning and cooking breakfast herself; Zhu Dan admitted frankly that she had never had an argument with her husband.
This kind of meticulous care for family life has also aroused doubts from experts, "too groveling".
It can be seen that there is no one-size-fits-all standard for the lifestyle of marriage. Some people advocate independence, while others prefer intimacy; Some people put their family at the center of their lives, while others put their careers first.
Everyone has different expectations for marriage, and we have no right to judge the choices of others.
There is no standard answer, and marriage should vary from person to person
Through the analysis of Li Na's married life, it is not difficult to find that even stars who are also in the entertainment industry have very different attitudes towards family life.
For Li Na, her concept of "wonderful" marriage largely stems from her own family experience. lost her beloved father when she was a child, and her mother's remarriage cast a shadow on her family world, which created her future alienation from her in-laws.
But we also have to see that she didn't mean to do so, but was bound by a busy career.
And people like Papi-chan who advocate independence and autonomy may prefer to reserve some personal space and respect their parents. But there are also people, such as Ariel Lin and Zhu Dan, who prefer to take care of their families at all times and maintain intimate relationships.
This shows that there is no standard answer in married life, and everyone should choose the most suitable mode of getting along according to their family background, personality characteristics and lifestyle.
We should not be quick to judge the choices of others, because everyone has different expectations for marriage.