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In 2005, national first-class actor Gao Xiumin died suddenly at home due to myocardial infarction, and his life was forever fixed at the age of 46.
And her death also made his sweetheart He Qingkui, who had lived with Gao Xiumin for 14 years, very sad.
Fortunately, at that time, He Qingkui's original wife Zhang Yanru had been by He Qingkui's side, and with her own gentleness, He Qingkui walked out of the haze of Gao Xiumin's death little by little.
After that, He Qingkui, who had lived with Gao Xiumin for 14 years, finally returned to his family shortly after Gao Xiumin's death.
The original match with Zhang Yanru can be regarded as keeping the clouds open and seeing the moon.
Probably for this reason, everyone thought that why Qingkui would slowly forget the bits and pieces with Gao Xiumin in the day and night with Zhang Yanru.
However, some netizens recently posted photos of 76-year-old He Qingkui going to worship Gao Xiumin on this year's Qingming Festival.
In the photo, when He Qingkui looked at Gao Xiumin's statue, his eyes were full of affection, gentleness, and carefully helped Gao Xiumin's statue to brush off the dust.
is really across the screen, you can feel He Qingkui's deep affection for Gao Xiumin.
It can be seen that even though Gao Xiumin has been dead for 19 years, she still occupies a very important position in He Qingkui's heart.
In this regard, many netizens said that Zhang Yanru lost after all, although now she has got He Qingkui's people, but she can't get He Qingkui's heart.
Of course, there are also many netizens who lamented He Qingkui's deep affection for Gao Xiumin, and in everyone's exclamation, He Qingkui, who has been affectionate, ushered in a "surge in word-of-mouth", and the affectionate character was instantly full.
This also aroused more netizens' curiosity about the three of them.
So since He Qingkui has a wife Zhang Yanru, why did he go with Gao Xiumin?
And Zhang Yanru, why did she accept He Qingkui's return to the family without any guilt after Gao Xiumin's death, and allowed her husband to worship Gao Xiumin on Qingming Festival?
What kind of story happened in this that can make Zhang Yanru so "bear the burden of humiliation" in this marriage?
In fact, whether He Qingkui fell in love with Gao Xiumin, or Zhang Yanru was willing to "endure humiliation" in her marriage with He Qingkui, it had a lot to do with Gao Xiumin's talent and kindness.
It is reported that Gao Xiumin was born in a peasant family, and the family does not have much income, and there are seven or eight children to raise, so the family even has a problem with food and clothing.
Under this family condition, Gao Xiumin dropped out of school early after finishing junior high school.
Because of his outstanding appearance and loud voice, Gao Xiumin was later favored by a local folk group and incorporated it into his command.
After studying there for 3 years, Gao Xiumin unexpectedly learned that the propaganda team of the urban oil refinery was going to recruit versatile actors, and with the attitude of trying it out, Gao Xiumin signed up.
To her surprise, she was recognized by the interviewer just by virtue of a song "Embroidered Gold Plaque", successfully entered the factory, and had a fixed job.
In the second year of entering the factory, Gao Xiumin began to apply for formal literary and artistic groups in order to be able to make his artistic path go further.
It's a pity that Gao Xiumin was too thin at the time and his appearance did not meet the requirements of the art troupe, so he was repeatedly brushed down.
Seeing that it was difficult to make progress in his career, Gao Xiumin simply put his career aside at the suggestion of his family and put more energy on completing lifelong events.
Later, with the help of the people around her, Gao Xiumin quickly got married to her first husband Li Yunqi and entered the palace of marriage.
And not long after the two got married, Gao Xiumin gave birth to a daughter with Li Yunqi and named her Li Xuan.
After the birth of the child, Gao Xiumin was unwilling to be a housewife at home, so he picked up his career again, and finally in 1982, Gao Xiumin successfully went ashore and became a member of the Buyeo Civic Art Troupe.
After joining the troupe, Gao Xiumin endured hardships a lot, often sitting on a tractor and going to the countryside to perform with the people in the troupe.
Because the conditions are too poor, the "stage" of Gao Xiumin's performance is sometimes in the field, sometimes in the field, and sometimes in the body of the tractor.
However, no matter what kind of performance environment it is, Gao Xiumin can show 100% enthusiasm, and Gao Xiumin is indeed very talented, so every time he performs, Gao Xiumin can always easily get full applause.
In 1986, in the fourth year of Gao Xiumin's entry into the art troupe, she won the title of national second-class actor with her performances one after another, and became the business leader of the troupe.
This year, Guo Xiumin is only 27 years old, he is really young and promising, and the future is promising.
It's just that when Gao Xiumin's career is getting better and better, her work is getting busier and busier, the family has less and less time, and she and her husband Li Qiyun have been in a state of gathering less and leaving more.
This also led to the relationship between the two getting weaker and weaker, in 1992, the two who had little left of their relationship, divorced peacefully, and after the divorce, their daughter Li Xuan lived with Gao Xiumin.
After that, Gao Xiumin began to take care of her daughter while working her own career.
At this time, He Qingkui on the other side was selling fish with his wife Zhang Yanru who went out early and returned late, relying on a meager income to support their two sons and a daughter, and the family lived a stretched life.
At that time, Gao Xiumin, who went to the vegetable market to buy fish, unexpectedly met He Qingkui, who was shivering in the cold wind, which made Gao Xiumin feel pity for He Qingkui, a fellow countryman.
In addition, Gao Xiumin once learned from a mutual friend that He Qingkui could write scripts, so Gao Xiumin had the idea of wanting to promote his fellow villagers and let them get rid of their embarrassing lives.
And it happened that there was a lack of a script writer in Gao Xiumin's group at that time, so Gao Xiumin threw an olive branch to He Qingkui, promising He Qingkui to write a script for himself, and he would pay him 200 yuan.
For He Qingkui, who was forced by life to give up his dream, the opportunity given by Gao Xiumin is really rare.
So, He Qingkui responded, in order not to disappoint Gao Xiumin, and at the same time seize the opportunity given by Gao Xiumin, He Qingkui began to concentrate on creation.
I have to say that with works such as "Burden" created by He Qingkui, Gao Xiumin successfully appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala in 1993.
After that, the cooperation between the two became closer and closer, and in the cooperation again and again, the two who appreciated each other and achieved each other slowly developed feelings.
It's just that at that time, He Qingkui already had a wife Zhang Yanru by his side, and the two were still a husband and wife in distress.
Back then, as a knowledgeable youth in the countryside, Zhang Yanru, who was educated and outstanding, gave up many young talents with good conditions around her, married He Qingkui, who was mediocre and poor, and the two also gave birth to two sons and a daughter.
Back then, in order to support He Qingkui's dream, Zhang Yanru once carried the burden of supporting her family on her shoulders alone.
Because he couldn't bear it anymore, He Qingkui gave up his dream and made a living by selling fish with Zhang Yanru.
During that time, no matter how hard and tired Zhang Yanru was, she didn't say a word, and wholeheartedly guarded her and He Qingkui's small family.
It's just that the friendship between the two of them did not make He Qingkui give up chasing love, in order to be able to be with Gao Xiumin, He Qingkui finally filed for divorce from Zhang Yanru.
At that time, although Zhang Yanru was sad, she was still reluctant to have a relationship with He Qingkui, and fantasized that one day He Qingkui would be able to change her mind.
Therefore, Zhang Yanru refused to go through divorce procedures with He Qingkui, not only that, but also took her children with He Qingkui to live in other cities.
As soon as Zhang Yanru left on the front foot, He Qingkui moved to live with Gao Xiumin on the back foot, and the two lived together in a very high-profile manner.
Because of his love for the house and Wu, He Qingkui also treats Gao Xiumin and her ex-husband Li Yunqi's daughter Li Xuan as his own.
Gao Xiumin was reluctant to buy things for his daughter Li Xuan, and He Qingkui would pay out of his own pocket and secretly buy them for Li Xuan.
Even when he went out to work, He Qingkui often brought Li Xuan, just to let Li Xuan see the outside world.
It is He Qingkui's love for Li Xuan that has kept the relationship between the two very good, and even later, in Li Xuan's heart, He Qingkui's status once surpassed that of his biological father.
In 1994, Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui co-founded a studio, and after the studio was established, Gao Xiumin was responsible for the performance and He Qingkui was in charge of the creation.
It's just that during that time, because the two were not allowed to tolerate secular love, the two suffered a lot of gossip, but fortunately, the two were good enough and their careers were not greatly impacted.
Because He Qingkui's script was well written, He Qingkui's talent was later favored by Zhao Benshan, a pillar of CCTV at that time, and expressed his intention to cooperate with He Qingkui.
Facing the olive branch thrown by Zhao Benshan, He Qingkui put forward the only request, that is, he must bring Gao Xiumin.
On the one hand, Zhao Benshan really wanted to cooperate with He Qingkui, and on the other hand, Zhao Benshan really recognized Gao Xiumin's strength, so the two quickly reached a cooperation.
Since then, Zhao Benshan, Fan Wei and Gao Xiumin Gao Xiumin have formed a "Golden Triangle", often appearing on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, bringing countless popular works to the audience, such as "Selling Abduction", "New Year's Greetings", "Water Delivery" and so on.
These works, which brought countless laughter and laughter to the audience, also made the private become more and more famous and popular, which made Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui earn a lot of money, and Gao Xiumin even became a national first-class actor, with unlimited scenery.
However, when He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin gained fame and fortune and lived a rich life, He Qingkui originally lived with Zhang Yanru and her three children, but they were very poor, and the usual expenses of the four of them all depended on Zhang Yanru in takeaway dishes.
It's just that this money is even a problem for the family to have enough to eat, and Zhang Yanru really can't come up with the money to let her children receive education, so Zhang Yanru's three children have dropped out of school one after another.
Later, after Gao Xiumin learned about this, he felt guilty in his heart, so as soon as Gao Xiumin had time, he would carry a large bag and a small bag to see Zhang Yanru.
At the beginning, Zhang Yanru never had a good face for Gao Xiumin because she resented Gao Xiumin for snatching her husband, but even so, Gao Xiumin still did not give up helping Zhang Yanru and her children.
In order to change the living conditions of Zhang Yanru and her children, Gao Xiumin first helped Zhang Yanru's daughter open a restaurant, and then paid to help Zhang Yanru's eldest son He Shuchun open a chemical company.
As for Zhang Yanru's youngest son He Shucheng, Gao Xiumin felt that he was very artistic, so he personally took him to Tianjin to apprentice with the cross talk master Shi Shengjie, and gave him a lot of help in He Shucheng's artistic career.
Because Gao Xiumin arranged all the futures of her children properly and lived a happy life, Zhang Yanru not only slowly let go of her resentment towards Gao Xiumin, but also gave birth to family affection for Gao Xiumin, and Zhang Yanru's children also had a more and more harmonious relationship with Gao Xiumin.
Seeing that the relationship between his sweetheart, wife, and children is getting better and better, He Qingkui is also sincerely gratified.
It's just a pity that this relief didn't last long, and the successive changes caught He Qingkui off guard.
In 2005, this year, He Qingkui, who was working outside, suddenly received a court summons, and a farmer in his hometown sued He Qingkui for infringement.
In order to deal with this matter, He Qingkui rushed back to his hometown in Changchun overnight.
After learning about this, He Qingkui's eldest son, He Shuchun, also put down the business at hand and rushed home to see if he could help when he went home.
However, what people didn't expect was that He Shuchun was in a serious car accident on the way home and died on the spot.
So, before He Qingkui had time to deal with the lawsuit, he hurried to Guangzhou to deal with his son's car accident.
And Gao Xiumin was busy with He Chunshu's funeral in the interval between participating in various activities and performances, so in the days after He Chunshu's death, Gao Xiumin was rotating almost every day.
On August 18, Gao Xiumin caused a myocardial infarction in a high-intensity busyness and passed away forever.
Within 10 days, his son and sweetheart died one after another, which made He Qingkui heartbroken.
Seeing her husband who was heartbroken by the death of another woman, Zhang Yanru did not gloat, nor was she sour, and even set up a mourning hall for Gao Xiumin in her own home, so that her children could wear linen and filial piety for Gao Xiumin.
It can be seen that Zhang Yanru has let go of the past and treats Gao Xiumin as her own relatives.
After Gao Xiumin's burial, Zhang Yanru has been by He Qingkui's side, and with her own gentleness, her husband He Qingkui has walked out of the sadness of Gao Xiumin's death little by little.
Finally, Zhang Yanru ushered in her husband's return home after 14 years of separation from He Qingkui.
In 2015, Zhang Yanru was accompanied by her husband He Qingkui and completed the last time of her life.
It's just that after all, Zhang Yanru still hasn't got her husband's heart, even if it has been 19 years since Gao Xiumin died, the person in He Qingkui's heart is still Gao Xiumin.
Therefore, from his wife's point of view, Zhang Yanru lost completely.
However, as a mother, Zhang Yanru has won a bright future for her child, which can be regarded as another comfort for Zhang Yanru!
And Gao Xiumin still occupies an important position in He Qingkui's heart 19 years after his death, and it is not in vain that Gao Xiumin was under so much pressure that He Qingkui fell in love.
It's just that I still want to remind everyone that love still has to be packed in a secular framework, and love that is divorced from morality, although it seems to be vigorous, but behind it is unspeakably sad.
So, what do you think?