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Text丨Xingyue
Editor丨Xingyue
I grew up in my grandparents' house, and my relationship with them is closer, but my relationship with my grandparents is more "distant".
However, when I grew up, I thought I was closer to my grandfather, but some things made my thinking change drastically.
So what happened between me and my grandfather, and what changed my mind?
Grow up
I am the only child in the family, and because my parents work in the county, I have lived in my grandparents' house since I was a child, and my relationship with them has become deeper.
My mother is the eldest in the family, and there is a younger sister and younger brother below, and the relationship between the three sisters and brothers is very good, and the uncle and aunt are also very fond of me.
I feel very happy in the years I have lived in my grandmother's house, and I have grown up healthy and happy with the company and love of my family.
After the college entrance examination, I was admitted to the university of my dreams, and my academic performance has always been at the top of my school since I was a child, and I have never worried my parents, and they are very happy about it.
To celebrate my admission to university, my parents held a small party. My father took my grandparents to the county seat, and as soon as they saw me, they hurriedly hugged me and looked at me with moist eyes.
Since I grew up in my grandparents' house, I spent less time with my grandparents, and I would only go home during the New Year's holidays, especially in high school, and the number of times I went back to my hometown was even more "rare".
My father is the only child in the family, and I am the only grandson of my grandparents, and every time they see me coming home, they are very excited, pulling me to chat and make me food.
However, after I entered high school, I didn't go back to my hometown often, and my grandparents thought that I could only talk to me by phone. For this reason, the moment they saw me, my grandparents' eyes were moist.
My father also felt very guilty about this, because of his work, he and his mother chose to live in the county seat, and I followed them to live with my grandfather's house.
When my mother saw this scene, she hurriedly stepped forward to comfort my grandparents and asked me to help them upstairs for dinner. My father ordered a private room where everyone could sit down.
The atmosphere of the box is very harmonious, and the lively chatting fills the whole box, which makes me feel extremely happy. I was also happy to see the smiles on my parents' faces.
After the party, my aunt and uncle each wrapped a big red envelope for me to congratulate me on my admission to university, and I quickly thanked them.
Originally, the grandparents wanted to let the grandparents live at home, but the grandparents felt uncomfortable, so they refused and asked the father to drive them back to their hometown.
I followed my mother back to my grandmother's house, and when I got home, my grandmother called me to my room, took out a red envelope from the drawer at the bedside, and handed it to me to take the school flowers.
I hurriedly refused, saying that the living expenses were enough, and she was asked to keep the money for herself. At this time, my grandfather also walked in, persuading me to let me take it as he went, which was their intention.
At the insistence of my grandfather, I accepted this "heavy" red envelope. I am very grateful to my grandfather for his love and care for me.
The next day, my mother woke me up early and told me to pack up my things and go back to my hometown to live for a while, and my grandparents were always thinking about me.
In this way, I followed my father back to my hometown, my grandmother had already prepared the meal and made a table of my favorite food, and my grandfather also cleaned my room very clean.
I lived in my hometown for half a month, and I didn't return to the county until school was about to start. During this time, my grandmother always changed her way to cook all kinds of delicious food for me, as long as I wanted, my grandmother would make it for me.
Even my father said that my grandparents had more smiles on their faces during this time. When I first arrived, I was still a little uncomfortable, and I was a little "unfamiliar" with the closeness of my grandparents.
But slowly, I gradually relaxed, and my feelings for my grandparents became deeper. When I left, my grandmother kept pulling me to talk, and my grandfather stood silently on the side, with reluctance in his eyes.
They also packed me with lots of snacks and snacks in a big plastic bag. When my father drove away, they also stood there and watched us leave.
I looked at my grandparents in the rearview mirror who were getting smaller and smaller, and I felt sad, so I quickly opened the window and waved to them to hurry home. My grandparents also waved to me as soon as they heard the voice.
After a long journey, we finally arrived at the county seat. My mother stood at the door of the house to greet us, and when my father opened the trunk of the car, my mother was surprised to ask how he had packed so many things.
In fact, my grandparents prepared all these things for us, and my father and I took all the things home one by one, and my grandma and grandpa were also very surprised when they saw this.
After moving things, my father and I were tired and collapsed on the couch. The snack my grandmother had prepared for me was on the coffee table, and I opened it to grab a snack.
Suddenly, I saw a red envelope, which was very conspicuous in a pile of snacks, and I quickly took it out and opened it to see that it contained 1,000 yuan.
I feel very guilty in my heart, this 1,000 yuan grandpa and grandma may have to save for a long time. I picked up my phone and went back to my room to give them a call and we talked for a long time.
Encounter love
Soon, the summer vacation was over, and I came to the university of my heart and started my college years. During my freshman year, I met a beautiful, lively and cheerful girl.
We are in the same department, and we are in the student union together. We became very good friends at first, but I was already attracted to her.
I often talked to her, asked her out for dinner, and the relationship gradually changed. After spending some time together, I plucked up the courage to confess to her, and we developed into a sweet couple.
During our relationship, our relationship has been stable. I also informed my parents about this, saying that I wanted to marry her after graduation. After hearing this, my parents joked to me, are you willing, are you willing to be a girl?
In this way, my girlfriend and I spent our college years steadily. When I graduated, I asked her if she would like to marry me, and my girlfriend agreed.
So, I immediately bought two plane tickets and took my girlfriend home to meet my parents. They waited for us at the airport early when they learned about this, and as soon as they saw us, they hurriedly greeted us and took our suitcases.
The mother held her girlfriend in her arms and walked in front of her, chatting happily. It can be seen that the mother is extremely satisfied with her girlfriend.
When I was in college, my parents bought me a car and a house in the county. In fact, my mother's family background is much better than my father's, and my grandparents rely on farming to make a living, and their family background is not very good.
But grandpa is different, grandpa opened a restaurant, business is very prosperous, and the family is relatively wealthy.
After getting married, they chose to stay in the county because of work, but their father couldn't afford to buy a house.
So, my grandfather let them live in the house, and my father was very grateful for this, and as long as he got off work or rested, he hurriedly went to the restaurant to help.
My uncle didn't complain about this matter, but always helped my mother take care of me. My aunt married in the city and lived a very happy life, and when she came home, she brought me all kinds of toys.
My parents lived here for many years, and it wasn't until my father saved a certain amount of money that he finally bought a house in the county.
Originally, I wanted my grandparents to live together, but after living for a while, my grandparents felt very uncomfortable, so they went back to their hometown.
My father felt guilty about this, and my grandparents felt guilty for not helping. Fortunately, my mother did not complain about my grandparents and was still very close to them.
I feel blessed to have grown up in such a harmonious family. There is the company of parents, the love of grandparents, and the care of grandparents.
Chengke
After meeting my parents, I followed my girlfriend back to her home and met my future parents-in-law. Luckily, they were also very happy with the marriage.
In this way, the parents of both parties met to discuss the wedding. My girlfriend and I had a simple and romantic wedding, and we entered the palace of marriage in the presence of family and friends.
After I got married, I discussed with my wife not having children for now, and I was going to think about it when my job was stable. Parents are enlightened people who are supportive of our ideas.
My wife and I have both found suitable jobs, and although we are very busy and a little stressful, our relationship is still very stable, and we are there for each other and encourage each other.
During the work, due to his outstanding ability, he was deeply appreciated by his superiors, so he rose to the top and rose to the top of his position. This has been followed by an increase in pay and salary.
My wife and I decided to have a child after our jobs were stable, which made my parents happy because they had been looking forward to becoming grandparents.
During her wife's pregnancy, the mother is busy with work, and even then she finds time to cook nutritious meals for her wife. But there are always times when she can't be busy, so in desperation, my mother has to call my grandmother and ask her to help take care of my wife.
Grandma immediately came from the countryside and did her best to take care of her wife at home, help her mother with housework, and reduce the burden on her mother.
In fact, when I was about to get married, my grandmother took out all the savings she and my grandfather had saved over the years and gave them to my mother, but my mother hurriedly refused and let her keep them for herself.
But my grandmother said that you didn't help you when you got married, and now that my grandson is getting married, we also have some savings to help you lighten your burden.
At the insistence of my grandfather and grandmother, my mother had no choice but to accept the money and use it to buy things for the wedding. I am very grateful for that.
Although I grew up in the company of my grandparents, as long as I returned to my hometown, my grandparents were always very enthusiastic, cooking me all kinds of delicious food and taking me out to play.
When his wife was pregnant, he helped take care of him and kept the affairs of the family in order. After the child was born, the grandmother stayed in the county seat to help take care of her great-granddaughter.
epilogue
I know that my grandfather and grandmother are making up for their regrets, but even if I didn't live together, my grandparents didn't love me a lot.
It's just that when I was a child, I didn't know much about this, but fortunately, it was not too late, and I knew that there were many people in this world who loved me, and grandma and grandpa, grandpa and grandma, their love was equal.
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