Once, Huang Xiaoming was on Xie Na's show, and he said:
"I think it's rare for me to meet such a good girl in my life, good-looking, good-looking, good-looking, hard-working and well-behaved, and the most important thing is that my mother is very satisfied with her and likes her very much......"
Even though Yang Ying was so perfect in Huang Xiaoming's mind, she finally divorced.
He didn't know that in addition to missing Yang Ying in this life, this failed marriage also deeply hurt his mother Zhang Suxia's heart.
01.
Huang Xiaoming's relationship with his mother is relatively close, in fact, he may be more independent, whether it is emotionally or professionally, he has his own opinions, but he still looks a bit like Ma Baonan.
This is also normal, parents love their children the same all day long.
For example, Zhang Suxia will directly intervene in the company's management, and on a show, the mother and son had a long talk in front of the camera for the first time because of this issue.
The reason is that his mother often reprimands the employees of his company, and if this continues for a long time, it will affect the normal operation of the company.
Huang Xiaoming felt that he had to talk to his mother.
He felt that his mother should not care about the company's things that she thought were not true. But my mother thinks that I take care of it because I saw it, but you don't know it, and I was kept in the dark, such as the wine you used for your wedding, I saw that there was a problem, and of course I would say them directly.
According to normal logic, this is certainly true. But Huang Xiaoming directly said: "You don't have a temporary position in the company." ”
That's right, if she is directly involved in management just because she is Huang Xiaoming's mother, then this will inevitably cause dissatisfaction with other management.
Moreover, if Huang Xiaoming allows his mother to do this, he will also ruin his image in the eyes of employees.
Huang Xiaoming feels that he is forty years old and fully capable of managing a company, and he also knows all the internal things.
But in the eyes of the mother, she will always be a child, even if she is seventy or eighty.
Huang Xiaoming's mother really loves him very much, and she has broken her heart for him since she was a child, I don't know if this kind of love is a little suffocating for Huang Xiaoming?
02.
When she was in her early twenties, Zhang Suxia began to urge Huang Xiaoming to fall in love, Huang Xiaoming's conditions were really good, and he came out to act at that time, and he was famous.
With such good conditions, it stands to reason that it is not difficult to find a girlfriend.
Zhang Suxia wondered, why didn't she fall in love yet? When she asked her son, she realized that she had put all her mind on acting.
She can't help it in a hurry, and her son has to decide on his own.
But at the age of 30, Zhang Suxia couldn't help her son, and urged almost every day: "Son, hurry up and find a partner to marry." ”
At this time, Huang Xiaoming's career is developing vigorously, and he is almost too busy with the plays, variety shows, and various commercial activities he receives every year.
In the face of all kinds of troubles, Huang Xiaoming has no skills, and at this time, his mother has to urge him to marry in various ways, which makes Huang Xiaoming even more headache, and he is really annoying, so he will scold his mother, and he will feel guilty afterwards, so he lowered his head and apologized to his mother.
During the New Year's holidays, Huang Xiaoming always goes back to his hometown alone, although he brings a lot of gifts, but his mother is still a little lost, relatives come to his house as guests, all with children, and his mother comes forward to hold the child and talk.
At that moment, Huang Xiaoming realized that his parents really wanted him to get married quickly.
Although he has also had many girlfriends in the circle, there is no one who is really suitable for marriage, and his marriage is very late, and he waited until he was 37 years old to meet Yang Ying.
But from the perspective of the elderly, Yang Ying is not the best daughter-in-law.
Why?
03.
Yang Ying is a mixed-race child, received Western-style education since childhood, developed abroad in her early years, and is an old man in the entertainment industry, giving people a strong feeling.
Yang Ying is more ambitious, which is related to her experience. At that time, she was still an unknown little model, her status was really low, she had almost no presence in the industry, and she was on the edge of the industry every day.
After going to Japan to develop, his career is slightly better, but he still can't compare with domestic stars, and he has never felt safe abroad.
Back in Hong Kong, the situation is only slightly better, and I can barely squeeze into this circle.
It wasn't until she was with Huang Xiaoming that Yang Ying's career was thriving, and she finally gained a firm foothold in domestic entertainment.
Seeing that her son had a girlfriend, the stone in Zhang Suxia's heart finally let go.
In 2015, Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying's wedding of the century was held, Huang Xiaoming held Yang Ying's hand and slowly walked across the red carpet, not only the couple, but also Zhang Suxia and Yang Ying's parents in the audience, also shed tears.
After a year or two, Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying had no movement to have children.
Zhang Suxia began to give birth again, until 2016, Yang Ying was finally pregnant, and the old people were so happy that they had to jump, especially Zhang Suxia, who hurried to Yang Ying's side and took care of her.
During that time, Yang Ying felt like a pet, eating and sleeping every day, and she gained a lot of weight.
When she looks in the mirror, she is always anxious, and Zhang Suxia wants to comfort her daughter-in-law again: "It's okay, you look good no matter what, even if you are fat." ”
Yang Ying smiled.
04.
At the beginning of 2017, Yang Ying reached the due date, and Zhang Suxia, a mother-in-law, was more excited than Yang Ying herself, and every time she had a prenatal checkup, she was pacing back and forth outside.
On January 17, 2017, Yang Ying finally gave birth to a little sponge. Mother-in-law Zhang Suxia couldn't put it down, holding her little grandson and unwilling to let go, this addiction to being a grandmother was finally over.
When the child is born, there will always be many problems, but Zhang Suxia always takes the trouble to accompany and take care of the mother and son every day, and she does not let Huang Xiaoming find a confinement sister-in-law, she is not at ease, and she is not willing to let her son and daughter-in-law spend this money.
In this way, Yang Ying recuperated and could continue to work immediately, and the outside world praised Yang Ying for working hard, but she was not modest, tilting her head and saying, "That's how hard I work."
After giving birth, AB's reputation seems to be better, and its popularity is rising day by day, even surpassing Huang Xiaoming.
Huang Xiaoming is also highly ambitious, and he also plunged into work. The couple gradually had a sense of distance, and conflicts were frequent, but they would not show it in front of Zhang Suxia.
But she already felt it.
Especially in 2020, they rarely appear in public together, and they rarely go home together when they are busy with work.
It's okay not to inquire, but when I inquired, I heard someone say that they had a relationship problem, and they also said on the Internet that they were going to divorce.
even took out a lot of evidence, saying that there was a nose and an eye, and Zhang Suxia was very uncomfortable when she heard it.
As a result, at this time, Huang Xiaoming received an invitation from "Sister Lang 2" again, so that he would not die, and the former leader of the sect, Li Fei'er, was on the show, which made netizens very happy, and they quickly became melon eaters.
05.
Yang Ying, Huang Xiaoming, and Li Feier were pushed to the hot search.
The most collapsed and violent state is Yang Ying, because this incident made her very faceless, and there are actually other reasons behind it.
During that time, public opinion on the Internet continued.
In fact, there was a real problem in their marriage.
In 2021, Zhang Suxia learned that her son and daughter-in-law were really going to divorce!
Hearing this, as Huang Xiaoming's mother, the first thing she did was to reprimand her son, but when she saw her son shed tears, she didn't dare to say that she was too ruthless, she just wanted to know why the two divorced?
In fact, according to the analysis and observation in the past few years, Zhang Suxia has been psychologically prepared, but she still doesn't want to face this reality.
In fact, the contradiction between them is not irreconcilable, her mother-in-law is out of the horse, and her daughter-in-law Yang Ying will listen to her, and she also looks very guilty.
But in the matter of feelings, as long as there is a rift, there is basically no possibility of reuniting.
Zhang Suxia used the "little sponge" as a reason to persuade her son and daughter-in-law to think about the child, communicate well, and sit down to talk about any problems.
She doesn't understand the young man's concept of marriage and love, she just hopes that this family can be harmonious and beautiful. Although the son makes a lot of money, but the family is incomplete and the marriage is unhappy, what can he do if he makes more money?
This kind of thinking actually represents most parents.
Zhang Suxia went out with her wife, hoping that the two could persuade the two young people, but the result was the same, neither of them gave a positive answer.
Until February 2022, the two were divorced.
Zhang Suxia is extremely heartbroken!
06.
Coupled with the news that they announced their divorce at that time, the storm of public opinion on the Internet was too big, and in order to pay attention to the situation of his son and daughter-in-law, he always read comments on the Internet.
Since then, Zhang Suxia has been afraid to surf the Internet, and the pain is so painful that it is difficult to breathe.
Of course, she is most concerned about the child, the separation of the husband and wife is a huge harm to the child, and she hopes that the little grandson can grow up healthy and happy.
At this point, her son and daughter-in-law have assured her that even if they are separated, they will fulfill their responsibilities and try to give the little sponge more companionship and love.
Zhang Suxia nodded with tears in her eyes, and there was always a sentence in her throat, "Can you think about it again", but she didn't say it for a long time.
Relationship and marriage are like this, pay attention to the word fate, no matter how sweet and happy the two people once were, but the fate is scattered, everything is empty.
What's more, Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying are two people in the entertainment industry.
There is more helplessness.
Now, Zhang Suxia still spends a lot of time with her grandson, she really doesn't want to, the child grows up in a family without love.
Although Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying have a broken relationship, they really have nothing to say to the child, and they don't want to owe the little sponge.
After the couple parted ways, they have been developing according to their own career route.
Huang Xiaoming is okay, although he has also experienced a period of trough, but with his past resources, he can still get through this trough.
Yang Ying was even more miserable, a series of bloody things happened after the divorce, which made her favorability lose little by little and could not be saved.
Now, her coffee position has dropped several notches.
Maybe this is also fate.
They still care about their careers and are afraid that their careers will be affected, but Zhang Suxia is different, she just wants this family to be good, or that sentence, pity the hearts of parents in the world.
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