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Huang Xiaoming and his mother
On January 28, 2022, the popular actor Huang Xiaoming and the beautiful actress Yang Ying officially announced their divorce, and their 5-year-old son Xiao Sponge was jointly raised by the two. As soon as the news came out, the whole network was in an uproar, and many fans deeply regretted and regretted.
Huang Xiaoming's mother, Zhang Suxia, has the greatest wish in this life, that is, her son's marriage is happy. She saved her son's and daughter-in-law's marriage, but ultimately failed. Huang Xiaoming divorced, and her mother Zhang Suxia's heart hurt the most...
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Zhang Suxia was born in Qingdao, Shandong in the 1950s, her parents are ordinary people, she is the eldest daughter of the family, and there are 4 younger sisters and a younger brother below.
Young Zhang Suxia
Because there are many children in the family, Zhang Suxia has helped her parents share their worries since she was a child, and has contracted half of the housework, which has also cultivated her capable and spicy personality.
After graduating from high school, Zhang Suxia entered a state-owned enterprise in Qingdao. After receiving her salary, she gave most of her income to her parents to support the family.
In 1976, Zhang Suxia married, and her husband Huang Jingqing was an engineer at the Qingdao Municipal Electric Power Bureau.
After starting a family, Zhang Suxia still takes care of her mother's family, and has to pay a part of her salary every month to support her younger siblings. Huang Jingqing is a gentle and kind man who never complains half a word.
In 1977, Zhang Suxia and his wife gave birth to their son Huang Xiaoming, and the world of the two evolved into a family of three. At this time, Zhang Suxia's younger siblings were all adults and had joined the work one after another, and she no longer had to subsidize her mother's family as before.
Childhood Huang Xiaoming with parents
Childhood Huang Xiaoming
Huang Xiaoming has been a beautiful boy with pink carvings since he was a child, and he has attracted the attention of adults everywhere he goes.
In fact, when she was young, Zhang Suxia and her husband were good in height and appearance, and Huang Xiaoming inherited the excellent genes of her parents.
In 1996, when 19-year-old Huang Xiaoming graduated from high school, he had grown into a beautiful teenager. It was also in this year that Huang Xiaoming was admitted to the acting department of the Beijing Film Academy.
After graduating from university in 2000, Huang Xiaoming quickly became popular in the film and television circle for starring in the "Great Han Tianzi" series, "Tang Bohu of the Merry Boy", "Huan Zhu Ge Ge 3 Heaven on Earth", "Divine Eagle Hero" and other film and television dramas.
At 1.79 meters tall, he is a handsome man with a handsome appearance and is a beautiful man loved by everyone. As early as When Huang Xiaoming was in college, an old colleague got in touch with Zhang Suxia and wanted to marry her.
Huang Xiaoming and Wang Ling stills of "The Great Han Tianzi"
Zhang Suxia said: Love is such a thing, or the child has to make up his own mind, I can't be the lord.
In the years after Huang Xiaoming graduated from college, a number of well-wishers found Zhang Suxia and wanted to introduce Huang Xiaoming to his girlfriend. Zhang Suxia communicated with her son about this matter, and Huang Xiaoming said: Mom, you don't have to worry about my marriage, I want to shoot a few years of drama before considering personal problems.
Zhang Suxia knows that the competition in the show business circle is fierce, and she and her husband can't help her son, so it won't add chaos to him.
In the years that followed, Zhang Suxia never mentioned finding a partner for her son.
In 2007, Huang Xiaoming was 30 years old and still single. Zhang Suxia and her husband could not sit still and began to urge marriage.
Huang Xiaoming
When Huang Xiaoming went home for the Chinese New Year, his parents urged him to get married, and he usually received a call from his parents, and his mother had to pull the marriage and love problem around and ask him when he would take his girlfriend home. Huang Xiaoming replied every time: Don't worry, you are looking for it.
After that, Zhang Suxia and her husband called their son every New Year's Pass and asked him whether he was alone or two people returning home for the New Year.
When she learned that her son came home alone, Zhang Suxia was very disappointed.
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In 2014, Huang Xiaoming and the beautiful actress Yang Ying established a romantic relationship. Born in Hong Kong in 1989, Yang Ying has a younger brother who followed her parents to Shanghai, 12 years younger than Huang Xiaoming.
Yang Ying's grandfather is German, her grandmother is Shanghainese, she has a quarter of German blood, is a delicate and beautiful mixed-race.
Yang Ying
Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying
As an adult, Yang Ying went to Hong Kong to develop, she worked as a model, a host, and then entered the film and television circle to shoot.
Since her debut, Yang Ying has successively starred in film and television dramas such as "Summer Happy Leisure", "The First Time", "Song in the Clouds of Great Han Love", "Di Renjie's God Dragon King" and other film and television dramas, and won the Most Popular Actress Award at the Beijing Film Festival.
"Nandu Entertainment Weekly" once selected Yang Ying as the "Four Little Flower Dan".
Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying are very well matched, and they are a pair of golden children and jade girls in the eyes of movie fans.
In the Spring Festival of 2015, Huang Xiaoming took Yang Ying back to Qingdao for the Chinese New Year, and Zhang Suxia was immersed in excitement and happiness. The son and daughter-in-law lived at home for 3 days, her face was smiling all day, and she cooked a large table of food for three meals a day.
On the sixth day of the first lunar month, when Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying returned to Beijing, Zhang Suxia asked them when they would get married. Yang Ying said softly: I heard Ming.
Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying
With these words, Zhang Suxia and her wife were solid in their hearts. As soon as her son arrived in Beijing, Zhang Suxia forced marriage on the phone: You are 38 years old, and your father and I can't wait, so we will hurry up and get married within the year.
At this time, Huang Xiaoming's career and life were very stable, and he felt that it was time to get married. On May 27 of that year, Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying returned to the Qingdao Civil Affairs Bureau to obtain a marriage license.
After the son and daughter-in-law returned home with the permit, Zhang Suxia said: The most important thing for you to do next is to hurry up and have a baby, and your father and I are still strong and can help you with the child.
The mother-in-law's love made Yang Ying's heart warm.
On October 8, 2015, Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying held a grand wedding in Shanghai, and half of the stars in the entertainment industry went.
Zhang Suxia and his wife and Yang Ying
Zhang Suxia and her husband dressed up to accompany their son and daughter-in-law. When Huang Jingqing delivered a speech, Yang Yingxiu, the daughter-in-law of the Quaker daughter-in-law, said that Huang Xiaoming's ability to marry such a good girl was a blessing for the Huang family.
Zhang Suxia also said: In the future, Yang Ying will not only be our daughter-in-law, but also our daughter, and we will love her like a son.
The guests at the scene gave the warmest applause to Zhang Suxia and her husband, and Yang Ying spilled tears on the wedding scene.
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On October 17, 2017, Yang Ying gave birth to her son Xiao Sponge in Hong Kong. As early as when Yang Ying was waiting for delivery in the hospital, Zhang Suxia rushed to her side to take care of her daughter-in-law.
Originally, Yang Ying wanted to confine in Hong Kong, but her mother-in-law was not accustomed to life there, so she returned to her home in Beijing to confine herself more than 10 days later.
Yang Ying and her son
Huang Jingqing also came from Qingdao to give his wife a hand. In order to reduce the burden on his parents, Huang Xiaoming also invited a sister-in-law. The in-laws and sister-in-law joined forces to take good care of Yang Ying and the baby.
Two months after Yang Ying gave birth to the baby, Zhang Suxia proposed to her son and daughter-in-law that she wanted to dismiss her sister-in-law. Huang Xiaoming disagreed: Mom, don't worry about money, this is not a pressure on me and Yang Ying.
Zhang Suxia replied to her son: Your father and I are still physically strong, and this matter at home can be completely handled. Besides, there is always an outsider living in the house, and we are all a little uncomfortable in our hearts.
Hearing his mother say this, Huang Xiaoming and his wife dismissed yue's sister-in-law.
At this time, Zhang Suxia and his wife were nearly 70 years old, had no other worries, and only wanted to serve their son's family.
Zhang Suxia and Yang Ying
Her son and daughter-in-law are filming outside, and she and her wife take care of their grandchildren at home and take care of the housework. Every day when they open their eyes, Zhang Suxia and her husband consider the issue of their grandson's eating and drinking.
The grandson changed a little, so she took pictures with her mobile phone, passed them to her sons and daughters-in-law, and advised: You work with peace of mind and don't think about home.
Huang Xiaoming is a big filial piety, his income has always been managed by his mother, and after getting married and becoming a father, he did not bother to take care of finances.
In 2018, Zhang Suxia consulted with her son and daughter-in-law and proposed not to take care of her son's finances. Huang Xiaoming coaxed his mother to be happy and asked her to continue to manage her finances.
Yang Ying supports her husband's decision, in her opinion: the in-laws have a pension, and usually do not spend money; besides, the husband is the only son in the family, and the in-laws put all their thoughts on Huang Xiaoming, and give the money to the mother-in-law to take care of, she is completely at ease.
Huang Xiaoming and his mother
Who knew that in August of this year, Zhang Suxia asked someone to speculate in stocks, and the result brought negative effects to her son. During that time, Zhang Suxia was in a very bad mood and often shed tears at home. Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying patiently enlightened their mothers.
After the storm passed, Zhang Suxia's mood gradually improved.
In September 2020, the grandson Sponge went to kindergarten, and Zhang Suxia and her wife were responsible for transporting her grandson to and from school and taking care of her grandson's life at home.
When Zhang Suxia was a child, her grandparents loved her very much, especially her grandmother, and in the difficult conditions of material, she also bought her a piece of red sausage from time to time, and sometimes fried a poached egg for her.
What her grandparents left zhang Suxia with tear-jerking memories, so she also gave all her love to her grandson.
Zhang Suxia
Zhang Suxia likes to read books and usually buys books. When she read the book "Before You Leave", she was touched by the relationship between her grandmother and her grandson in the book.
One day she sent her grandson to kindergarten and told him: Baby, there are only 365 days a year, and after 10,000 years, grandparents will go to heaven.
Sun Tzu looked up at his little red face and said: When you go to heaven, will you die? Did you and Grandpa become the sun and the moon? The grandson is only more than 3 years old, and his attachment to his grandparents makes Zhang Suxia cry.
Little Sponge asked: Grandma, why are you crying? After speaking, he wiped Zhang Suxia's tears with his small hand, and said while wiping: If your grandparents die, leave me your mobile phone and photos, I want to see and talk to you.
Zhang Suxia took her grandson in her arms, and the tears flowed even more fiercely.
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Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying
In Zhang Suxia's mind, the career and appearance of the son and daughter-in-law are equal, and they have a common son, and their marriage should be as solid as a rock.
However, with the global outbreak of the new crown epidemic in 2020, Huang Xiaoming and his wife stopped working and quarantined at home all day.
In the past, the two of them filmed in the crew, and returning home to reunite had the freshness and passion of Xiao Beisheng's new marriage; now they are together every day, and both sides see each other's shortcomings.
Coupled with the gap in the pursuit of life and the distraction of housework, the feelings of the two have been estranged.
Although her son and daughter-in-law did not stumble in front of her, Zhang Suxia still sensed their strange appearance, which made her heart sink.
Huang Xiaoming
Since then, the emotions of her son and daughter-in-law have become a barometer of Zhang Suxia's feelings: she is very happy to see them smile on their faces; zhang Suxia is sad when she sees them not talking.
In the spring of 2021, Huang Xiaoming seriously told his parents that he planned to separate from Yang Ying.
Zhang Suxia was suddenly blindfolded, and after a while, tears welled up in her eyes: What's wrong with you? Why should such good conditions be separated? You have to think about the little sponge.
Huang Xiaoming said that he was not impulsive, he and Yang Ying reached an agreement, and his father Huang Jingqing was so anxious that his blood pressure soared.
No, the son and daughter-in-law are married well, and they must not be separated! Zhang Suxia decided to save her son's marriage.
Zhang Suxia with her husband and son and daughter-in-law
She spoke sincerely with her son and daughter-in-law about the impact of a single-parent family on her children and about the scene where her grandson wiped her tears. The more she spoke, the more she choked: Little Sponge is too sensible, and I hope he has a complete family.
Huang Xiaoming's eyes were moist, and Yang Ying couldn't help but cry.
Finally, Zhang Suxia got in touch with her own mother and told them about the separation of the two children.
The Yang family's parents were also anxious, rushing from Shanghai to Beijing to do work for Yang Ying and Huang Xiaoming. They did not take a stand, which brought illusions to Zhang Suxia.
She said to her son and daughter-in-law: If we affect your life here, we will take the little sponge to Qingdao to study. After a while, send him to Beijing to reunite with you.
Huang Xiaoming
Neither Huang Xiaoming nor Yang Ying wanted to be separated from their sons, and Zhang Suxia and her wife had to remain in Beijing.
Despite Zhang Suxia's efforts, in February 2022, Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying divorced.
Zhang Suxia shed tears, how could she not understand: the son and daughter-in-law have such good conditions, the two sides have not done anything to hurt each other, usually at home rarely quarrel, how can they get divorced?
She had met some middle-aged and elderly couples, some of whom often quarreled and were still together. How did the son and daughter-in-law come to this point? What happens to today's young people?
Little Sponge is jointly raised by Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying, but Zhang Suxia brought her grandson to the age of 5, and she has emotionally separated From Little Sponge.
Huang Xiaoming and his parents
She made a request to Yang Ying and her son: although they were separated, they could not neglect the child, and she would continue to stay in Beijing to take care of Xiao Sponge. Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying agreed.
Zhang Suxia is getting older, and her biggest wish in her later years is that her son's family is complete, his marriage is happy, and his grandson's little sponge is bathed in love and grows up healthily.
However, all these wishes were shattered, and Zhang Suxia's heart ached the most.
"Taste celebrity" comments: Poor parents in the world. Zhang Suxia's mentality is very typical and universal.
Divorce rates are now high, and many young people divorce at every turn, regardless of how much harm they will cause to their parents and the next generation.
Huang Xiaoming
Huang Xiaoming with his parents and grandmother
The divorce of children is actually painful in the hearts of parents. Zhang Suxia's mentality is a true portrayal of these parents.
When people are old and have no pursuit of career, they regard the happiness of their children as more important than themselves. The divorce of children is actually a great blow to parents in their later years.
I advise young people under the heavens, if you really love your parents, if you want to be a competent father and mother, if you want to be a filial son and daughter, please cherish marriage and do not easily say divorce.
Divorced, the direct and indirect harm to loved ones is immeasurable!
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