The biggest fate between people is not to meet, but to understand each other after meeting.
Some people in life are destined to just rub shoulders, while some people are lifelong friends.
In the vast sea of people, it is not easy to meet.
But in life, it is even more difficult to meet someone who really understands you.
Not all people in this world can really understand you.
So, no matter when or where, don't expect others to understand you.
Because there is a good saying: "There are not many true confidants".
- Those who don't understand you won't understand you at all
In this world, everyone's experience is different, so everyone has their own way of life. And in life, you will meet many people, but there are not many people who can really go into the depths of your heart.
Because you are in different circumstances and have different experiences. So, it's hard for you to resonate with each other.
Therefore, those who really understand you must be standing on the same height. Because only people who stand on the same level will understand each other.
If not, there is no way for you to understand each other.
There will always be conflicts between you over something. In the end, it is difficult for each other to understand each other, and even feel that the other party is an unreasonable person.
So, it's really hard to find someone who understands you. But as long as you can put down your body and take the initiative to communicate with others, to understand their lifestyles and experiences, then you will find that those who don't understand you are just that.
- Someone who really understands you won't deliberately look for it at all
There are some people in life who may be a burden to you, but they are a part of your life. And there are some people who, to you, are passers-by in your life, but who have left an irreplaceable mark on your life.
Someone who really understands you will get along with you in the simplest way, rather than looking for it deliberately. People who really understand you will understand all your joys and sorrows, pains and joys, gains and losses.
No matter when and where, it will not make you feel lonely, no matter when and where, it will be cold and warm to you, and it will be by your side whenever and wherever it is. Because he understands all your difficulties and understands all your strengths.
And a person who doesn't understand you, he won't feel sorry for you, and he won't take the initiative to do anything for you. Because he doesn't take himself to heart, it doesn't mean anything to others.
Whether you understand a person or not is never as simple as you say. People who really understand a person often come from the heart.
Because he can understand all your grievances and bitterness. I can also understand that in this world, it is a rare and happy thing to have a person who understands himself.
- How can someone who can't understand himself really understand others really understand?
There is a good saying: "It is better to read 10,000 books than to travel 10,000 miles, it is better to read countless people, and it is better to show the way by famous teachers." ”
In this world, although you can meet many people, there are not many people who can really understand you. The reason why we expect others to understand us is because we can't understand what others think.
So, no matter when and where, don't expect others to understand you.
Because when you expect others to understand you, you have already put yourself in a relatively high position.
Then when others can't understand you, they will feel that they have done something wrong that will make you so faceless.
In fact, everyone in this world has their own thoughts and opinions. Therefore, never put yourself in a particularly high position to view others. Otherwise, you'll only lose more things.