I don't know if you have this feeling, but today's children are a bit precocious, and they seem to understand some things at home, or when they hear adults talking about certain things. In short, I think that today's children are smarter and more exposed to more things than when we were younger.
When we were young, we were honest, in addition to studying, we were greedy for play, and we were only interested in games and play anyway. Even if I was doing my homework at home, I still wanted to finish my homework and play with my classmates. Sometimes adults discuss things together, and we children will be very interesting and walk away, even if we don't want to go, adults will find an excuse to break us apart, that is, not to let children listen to adults.
When we were young, we were asked by teachers and adults what our dreams would be when we grew up, but most of them answered that we would be scientists, doctors, teachers, etc., because the education we were exposed to since childhood was that we must be useful to the country and society when we grow up. And now, when many children are asked this kind of question, you will find that some children must say that they must be rich when they grow up.
How does this happen? It's actually the family environment. For example, in a recent incident, a video was uploaded on the Internet, in which a child said something like this when he was making a sentence in class: "I want to be the president of the Agricultural Development Bank of China, because my grandfather is the president and my mother is the vice president, and I want to inherit my father and want to inherit our family's property." ”
After this video was exposed, it immediately caused an uproar, and there was nothing wrong with children talking about dreams or anything. The key problem is that he said that his grandfather and mother are both presidents, and they have to inherit the family property and be presidents. Therefore, people will speculate that their family must have a lot of power, not only to be the president, but also to inherit the family property.
However, when netizens were concerned and hotly discussed, the relevant staff of the Agricultural Bank of China immediately clarified and exposed the identity of the child and some things about his family. The staff of the Agricultural Bank of China said: "This is the child of the president of a certain branch, and he is not the president as stated in the video." His grandfather is an ordinary employee in the branch and has been retired for 20 years, and his mother is an ordinary section-level cadre. ”
Another netizen said that he thinks the child's words are right, grandpa and mother are both presidents, and his father seems to be the president of the branch, and he will be the president when he grows up, and the whole family will work together to serve the people, isn't it a good thing?
In fact, we don't care what the true identity of the child's grandfather and parents is, but it seems that we can feel a problem from the child's words, that is, the influence of the family environment. Presumably, their families often discuss this issue, and over time, the child is gradually affected, and unintentionally, the child changes his values.
I have such a friend around me, his family conditions were very good when he was a child, his parents were unit leaders, and he often told us when he was a child: "I don't have to study, anyway, my parents will arrange a job for me when I grow up......" It is precisely because of the change in the price concept that I grew up to develop a character of high hands and low hands, and I achieved nothing, and then I made a mistake and went in. Therefore, this matter should arouse our attention and thinking, and family education needs to be correctly guided, not wrong values. What do you think about this?