In the process of interacting with people, our popularity often depends on our emotional intelligence.
Those with high emotional intelligence, even if their own abilities are average, can be reused in their work. They are long-sleeved and delicate, and they are more popular than high-IQ talents.
A person's professional skills and knowledge reserve are important, but if you want to achieve something in love and career, knowledge alone is not enough, you must also understand people, know the world, and make yourself better in the process of continuous tempering.
On the other hand, those with high emotional intelligence have unique skills in getting along with others. Women should know that when a man says "thank you", these 4 answers from a smart woman can easily touch his heart!
01
"Don't take it to heart, everyone has a difficult time"
Such a woman has a high emotional intelligence, and when a man asks a woman for help, he will feel very faceless in his heart. So when he said thank you to the woman, he felt a little uncomfortable in his heart.
And the woman's reply with this sentence makes the man's difficulties something that everyone will experience.
Such an answer minimizes the embarrassment of men, so men will like to associate with such a woman very much, because everything she does will make people very comfortable.
This attribute is not innate, but acquired through contact with people.
02
"It's my pleasure to be able to help you"
Such a sentence made him not feel that it was not only a burden to help him, but was very willing to enter his life.
You put the other person in a unique position, give him unparalleled treatment, he realizes his uniqueness, and will slowly be impressed by you.
Don't underestimate the power of this sentence, the difference between people is often pulled away from the details.
If you can express your love with this sentence, you will be able to overcome other people of the opposite sex and capture your beloved. Maybe from the moment you say this, your love begins.
03
"And I still need to be polite"
If it is a help from friends, the wise woman will use this sentence to reply to the man's gratitude, just because he does not want the man to be so polite to him.
But no matter what kind of difficulties men encounter, women will always be enthusiastic to help without hesitation, and the emergence of this kind of friendship will be seen by discerning people.
A man will definitely have an unusual affection hidden in the depths of his heart for the woman who can always save him from fire and water, and he will say "thank you" to you to express his gratitude in his heart, and you will reply "I still need to be polite".
This sentence has insinuations in it, one is that he is willing to help you, and the other is that your relationship has changed slightly, indirectly reminding you that he treats you differently.
04
"It's okay, I still have something to ask you to help with in the future."
If you don't know each other that well, or just just got acquainted, a woman with high emotional intelligence will do what she can when it comes to helping. When they can, they will lend a hand, and when they can't, they will silently turn around.
When the man says thank you, the woman will reply with "It's okay, I still have something to ask you for help in the future", which not only loses politeness, but also closes the relationship between each other.
If you first meet each other, you are likely to become friends because of this statement.
The excellence of a woman with high emotional intelligence is that she is good at leaving room and retreat for herself in the process of speaking and doing things. Every word they say is just right, making people comfortable, and naturally they can quickly build a good impression and make men remember them.
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Emotional message
Zhang Xiaoxian once said: "I just hope that there is someone who knows that I am really not okay when I say that I am okay, and there is someone who knows that I am not really happy when I am forced to laugh." ”
Men are the same as women, women need security in relationships, and men want to be understood and tolerated in relationships.
Therefore, when a woman says "thank you" to a man, don't say "you're welcome" stupidly, spend more thought, don't be stingy with the deep affection in her heart, only by expressing it, can you be full of love.
Caring about the details will make the whole game of love look majestic, use more small methods to experience, and the accumulated love will last for a long time.
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