All encounters are fate. It's just that there are many kinds of fate, not all of them are positive fate.
In this life, we will meet many people. But not every encounter can be eternal, sometimes the meeting is too early, destined to be just a passerby, sometimes the meeting is too late, and there is no way to write the future.
The right person, the right person, often needs to appear at the right time and in the right place, not early, not late.
1. Meeting too early is destined to be missed
When he was young and frivolous, he was full of expectations and fantasies about love.
At that time, we didn't know what true love was, but we were attracted by that hazy feeling and wanted to have it.
However, meeting too early often leads to separation due to mutual immaturity and lack of understanding.
They may quarrel over trivial matters, or they may drift away because of confusion about the future.
At that time, we had not yet learned how to manage a relationship, how to tolerate and understand each other. Therefore, even if you meet the right person, you often miss it because you meet too early.
On the stage of youth, we met in a hurry, but because of youth and ignorance, true love slipped quietly between our fingers.
Looking back, we may feel sorry for the relationship that passed away early, but we must also understand that it is the only way to grow.
So, don't dwell too much on the regrets of the past, and believe that there will be better people waiting for you in the future.
Second, if you meet too late, you are destined to be disqualified
Sometimes, we go through a lot before we meet the right person.
However, at this time, we may already have a family, or we may have a fixed partner, even if we are tempted, we can only bury that feeling deep in our hearts.
Such an encounter, although full of helplessness and regret, but also learn to accept the reality.
We can no longer pursue love as impulsively and desperately as we did when we were younger, because we already have more responsibilities and bonds.
The wheels of time roll forward, we meet too late in the river of time, those former passion and bravery, have turned into regrets and sighs in the depths of our hearts.
In the face of such an encounter, we must learn to let go of the obsession in our hearts and cherish the happiness in front of us.
Although that person cannot be our partner, his/her appearance also makes us cherish what we have now.
We need to learn from every encounter and learn from each encounter, so that we can become more mature and stronger.
Third, if it is not a positive fate, it will eventually become a regret
Some encounters are neither too early nor too late, but after all, they cannot come together for various reasons.
Such an encounter, although full of beauty and memories, can only become an episode in life in the end.
Maybe it's because of personality incompatibility, maybe it's because of family reasons, maybe it's because of other force majeure factors, in short, they didn't end up together.
Although such a result is regrettable, we must also learn to accept it.
Every encounter in life is an interweaving of fate, and if it is not a positive fate, it can only turn into regret and become an eternal nostalgia in our hearts.
In the face of such regrets, we must learn to let go and let go, and not be obsessed and self-tortured.
The world is scattered, and fate has its own arrangement. We have to believe that one day, we will meet the right person.
And before that, what we have to do is to keep a normal heart and face life positively.
summary
Meeting too early or too late is not a positive relationship.
Positive karma requires meeting the right person in the right place at the right time.
And before that, you need to go through all kinds of setbacks and grinds to make yourself more mature and strong.
Only in this way, when you meet the right person, can you firmly grasp his/her hand and write a better future together.
So, don't rush and don't give up easily. I believe that fate has its own certainty, as long as you keep a normal heart and face life positively, you will definitely be able to find your own positive fate.