Walking in the world, I have met many people, some of whom were close friends who talked about everything, and some of whom were unforgettable lovers. It's just that fate has depths, and some people scatter as they walk.
When the person who originally thought he would accompany him all the way later disappeared at the end of the address book and no longer took the initiative to contact, he was inevitably lost and confused.
You may wonder what is the reason why the other party no longer contacts you?
In fact, when a person can't resist not contacting you, it is none other than the following three reasons.
1. He's afraid to disturb you
Relationships are delicate, and sometimes, it's wise to keep the right distance.
So, when a person chooses not to contact you, it is most likely because he is deeply afraid that his concern or greetings will become a burden to you.
He respects your time and respects the rhythm of your life, so he chooses to stand aside silently and not disturb your tranquility.
In this way, he is like a tree waiting silently, although he does not speak, but the concern in his heart has never decreased.
True concern is knowing how to keep a distance at the right time, so that each other can breathe in a free space.
He did this because he knew that everyone had their own trajectory in life, their own busyness and their own worries.
He doesn't want his presence to disrupt your rhythm, and he doesn't want his concern to become a pressure on you.
He chooses to express this understanding with silence and guard your peace with no contact. Behind this silence is actually his deep care and respect.
Second, he is waiting for you to contact
Sometimes, a person can't resist contacting you, not because he doesn't want you, but because he is waiting for you to reach out to him.
This waiting, perhaps because he wants to test the depth of affection between you, or because he wants to see how much you care about and miss him.
This subtle mental game is actually testing each other's position in each other's hearts.
He may have chosen this way to give you some space to think about your relationship and how important his presence is to you.
He believes that if you really care about him, you will definitely take the initiative to find him. This kind of waiting, although it is a bit painful, he is willing to persevere for the sake of your future.
However, such a wait is not always possible to wait for the desired result.
Sometimes, our silence and hesitation can cause the other person to misunderstand our mind and even lead to estrangement in the relationship.
Therefore, when we feel the other person's waiting, we might as well be brave and take the initiative to take that step to express our heart and concern. After all, true emotions need to be maintained and cherished by both parties.
Three, he wants to let you go
Sometimes, he can't help but not contact you because he's trying to let you go.
Maybe it's because your relationship has come to an end, or maybe it's because he's found a new direction in his life and needs to let go of the ties of the past.
This kind of letting go, although painful, is a kind of growth and relief.
He understands that some people and things are destined to become memories, and they cannot go back to the past. Instead of dwelling on it, let go and let each other start over.
This kind of courage, although it requires some struggle and pain, can allow him to go further and more freely on the road ahead.
When he chooses to let you go, maybe you feel lost and sad. But remember, the end of every relationship is a new beginning.
You can learn from this experience and make yourself more mature and stronger. At the same time, believe that there will be better people waiting for you in the future to spend quality time with you.
summary
When a person can't resist not contacting you, there can be many reasons. Whether he is afraid to disturb you, waiting for you to contact or wanting to let go of you, it is a choice and expression of his heart.
We should respect his decision, but at the same time learn to face our emotions.
In conclusion, no matter what the real reason is, no matter what the outcome of the relationship is, we should cherish the good memories we once had and bravely move forward into the future.