Mencius said, "Those who convince others with strength are not convinced, and those who convince others with virtue are happy and sincere." What does it mean? Relying on strength to make people obey cannot convince people, but relying on character to convince people can make people convinced. If you want to get ahead in the struggle, you rely on wisdom, and if you want to win a lifetime in life, you rely on your character. (The picture below is the "2018 Shenzhen Skills Competition - Sommelier Final" hosted by Shenzhen Health Industry Association held in Futian Central District, Huang Guoming, founding president of Shenzhen Health Industry Association, Huang Ercheng, president of Shenzhen Health Industry Association, and representatives from various wine hotels, restaurants, and bar companies in Shenzhen participated in the finals and took a group photo to send to everyone)
Isn't this exactly the reason that "small victories rely on wisdom, and big victories rely on virtue"? In today's society, no one is a fool, and everyone is a ghost. That's right, you win a moment with a strategy, but you win a lifetime with virtue. People with noble character understand the truth of insatiable desires, not controlled by material, nor at the mercy of desires, in China, to convince people with virtue has been passed down for thousands of years, not out of thin air, nor made up nonsense, to convince people with virtue is based on compassion, not only to help people pay attention to their own practice, but also to use their own character to influence the surroundings, through their own character to gain the respect of others, ( The picture below is the 2023 annual meeting of Zhongyixin Painting and Calligraphy Institute, that is, the ninth anniversary celebration of the establishment of Zhongyixin Painting and Calligraphy Institute, and some of the participants took a group photo for everyone)
Earn the trust of others through your charisma. It can be said that in traditional Chinese culture, character is the highest form of Chinese education, and it is also the essence of Chinese education, and it is the soul of Chinese education. In reality, convincing people with virtue is often better than convincing people with strength, as the descendants of Yan and Huang, everyone must be virtuous, everyone must be virtuous, virtuous in the world, and reasonable in the world. (The picture below is sponsored by the Shenzhen Veterans Affairs Bureau, undertaken by the Shenzhen Yixin Painting and Calligraphy Institute of Shenzhen's "Welcome the New Year, Hanmo Supports the Army" calligraphy and painting into the barracks, Huang Guoming, president of the Zhongyixin Painting and Calligraphy Institute, led 20 calligraphy and painting masters of the Academy of calligraphy and painting to a certain department in Shenzhen to condole, and President Huang Guoming accompanied the head of the army to watch the photos of the on-site activities and send them back to everyone)
In real life, not everyone has virtue and morality, some people speak without hurting others, some people offend others, others do not listen to others' persuasion, other people's words should be fart, whimsical, alone, my words are the truth, my business is the royal way, not only not polite, but also often abuse others, and even above the law, who else can you suffer? If you really come to this point, do you think there is any meaning in living? Be a man to convince people with reason, to convince people with virtue, (The picture below is Huang Guoming (formerly known as Huang Hanming), president of Zhongyixin Painting and Calligraphy Institute, who won the glorious title of 2023 Shenzhen Advanced Individual for Supporting the Army and the nine people who won the award together in the city)
Don't violate the bottom line of morality, don't let your barbaric acts distort moral norms, don't let your bad temper scare away your warmth, and don't let your anger leave remorse! Repaying grievances with virtue is the foundation of ending all grievances, and repaying grievances with grievances can never resolve the entanglements in my heart. Do you agree with what Huang Guoming, a handsome guy from Lianjiang, said? The picture below is a small video made by Huang Guoming, president of the Zhongyixin Painting and Calligraphy Institute, and sent it to the people of the whole country......
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