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On Venus's 55th birthday, the family happily wrapped dumplings for the New Year. Venus looked at the three children and smiled, her heart full of a sense of gain and happiness.
Recalling 20 years ago, her friends advised her to think twice, thinking that she had just recovered and it was too difficult to raise three children on her own. But Venus was determined to become a mother, and she told everyone: "Since I can succeed in becoming a woman, then I have the ability to be a good mother."
So, Venus adopted three children in desperation. The eldest son, Dudu, daughter Nini, and the younger son, came to her in this way. At first, the three children were still young and had doubts about the parent-child relationship.
Jin Xing patiently replied: "Mom can't have children, because Mom used to be a man, and only when she becomes a woman can she be your mother." The children finally understood and accepted this fact, and they sincerely accepted the mother of Venus.
Since the age of 6, Jin Xing confided in her mother Han Ying that she wants to be a girl. At that time, Han Ying looked puzzled, thinking that it was just a child's whim, so she rejected Venus.
After the young Venus was blocked, he shouted angrily in the rain: "Tianlei, you appear quickly, split me into a girl!" Han Ying looked at the appearance of the child outside the window, both sad and ridiculous.
In order not to let his son be immersed in this obsession, Han Ying sent Jin Xing to the Art Troupe of the Shenyang Military Region. Unexpectedly, this made Venus fall in love with dance even more, and her desire to become a woman was also stronger.
Whenever she sees a female student with a good figure and temperament because of dancing, Venus is full of envy.
So, Venus practiced dancing day and night, hoping to make her figure like a girl. At the age of 12, he was admitted to the Department of Military Arts and Dance, and at the age of 18, he created the men's pointe dance.
At the age of 23, Venus was given the opportunity to study modern dance abroad, and by marrying a girlfriend, she obtained a green card, creating the conditions for a gender transition.
At the age of 28, with the support of her parents, Venus finally made up her mind to have sex reassignment surgery. Although the nerve necrosis in his left leg was caused by the operation accident, Jin Xing still gritted his teeth and endured the pain, and after 4 months of high-intensity rehabilitation training, he regained his foothold on the world stage.
Her dream was finally realized step by step.
With a dance career back in mind, a new desire arose in Venus's heart – she wanted to be a mother. Unable to have children, she made up her mind to adopt an orphan.
In 2000, Jin Xing came to an orphanage in Beijing, adopted a boy, and named him Dudu. When Venus picked up Dudu for the first time, tears flowed uncontrollably, and she was so excited that she felt that the child would be her whole life from now on.
After having a son, Venus longed to have a daughter. In 2002, she fell in love with a 3-month-old girl in an orphanage, who was abandoned at birth and wandered for 5 months.
Venus stretched out her arm again and brought the poor little life home, naming her Nini.
In 2003, Venus returned to the orphanage for the third time and adopted another boy, her youngest son. A family of three soon became a family of five.
Due to the young age of the three children, they are puzzled and troubled that Venus is not their biological mother. The eldest son, Dudu, once questioned with red eyes whether Venus was his own.
Venus patiently explained that her body was unable to have children, so she adopted the three of them.
Gradually, the children understood and accepted Venus, and also approached her as if she were their own mother. Since then, Venus has adopted different education methods according to the different personality characteristics of the three children, and guided them to grow up healthily step by step.
In 2004, Venus went to the airport to buy tickets after a show in Paris. At that moment, she saw a German Hans sitting in a chair with a serious face, wearing a piercing golden tie.
Jin Xing subconsciously complained: "What taste, such a serious expression, with such a lively tie?"
Hans seemed to notice Venus's gaze, and looked at her in a coat with a short skirt and leather boots, and muttered to himself: "This kind of woman is very proud and conceited at first glance, and she can't care about it."
Neither had a good first impression of each other, but fate pulled them together in a wonderful way. They happen to be on the same flight and are seated next to each other.
In order to avoid disturbing Hans, Venus took the initiative to speak: "I'm sorry, I hope my dog won't bother you too much." In this way, the two began to talk, and gradually opened up the conversation.
Hans learns that Venus is a dancer and a single mother of three. Before getting off the plane, Hans suddenly said to Jin Xing, "Can I go to Shanghai to see your performance?" Venus had some doubts, but curiosity made her say yes and leave her contact information.
The next day, Hans took the initiative to contact Venus and confessed his heart to her, hoping to have more intersections with her life. Venus invited Hans to his home, and as soon as he saw the warm scene of Venus holding her child in his arms, he was deeply moved in his heart and strengthened his determination to get close to her.
Hans began to frequent Venus's home, trying to fit in. But initially, the eldest son, Dudu, had a great rejection of Hans. In Dudu's eyes, Hans is a person who "snatches his mother", and he is unwilling to be close to him.
Once, Hans drove the family on a trip and subconsciously put his hand on Venus.
This made Venus cry and laugh, but she was also a little awkward in her heart, worried that the children would not be able to truly accept Hans's appearance.
However, Hans did not get angry, but was patient. He treats his three children as his own, cares for their daily life, and makes them feel the warmth and care from their "father".
Hans also gives thoughtful gifts according to the children's preferences, and when they have fun with them, they are even more lively like children.
Over time, Dudu and the other three children let down their guard and rekindled their trust and affection for Hans. They finally accepted the appearance of this "father", so that the relationship between Venus and Hans came naturally, and the two finally entered the palace of marriage.
Although he was once divorced in order to handle the child's household registration, his relationship was unswerving, and he finally remarried in 2018.
As a mother, Venus has her own focus on the education of her three children. For her daughter Nini, she is quite strict, hoping to let Nini learn traditional female celebrity skills such as female celebrity, playing the piano, needlework, and cooking from an early age, and require her to pay attention to manners and manners, and cultivate elegant and generous femininity.
Nini sometimes questions why her mother is so demanding of her, and she is so indulgent to her brother and brother. Venus will patiently explain: "You can fall in love after the age of 18, but until then, Mom hopes that you can lay a good foundation for becoming a good woman in the future and learn more skills." ”
In Venus's view, both men and women can only gain a foothold in society in the future if they have the strength and ability to take charge of their own affairs. That's what she was strict with Nini for.
In contrast, for the eldest son, Dudu, Venus is much more hands-off. Dudu has been very sensible since he was a child, and he worries about family affairs like a little adult, and will take care of his naughty younger brother.
Venus supports Dudu in pursuing his dream of football and encourages him to follow his heart.
As for the youngest son, Venus needs to be seductive. Because this child likes to say things that make people unhappy, he is more impatient. At one point, Venus and her husband Hans went out to work, leaving only three children and a nanny at home.
Unexpectedly, Dudu and his youngest son had a big fight, from the restaurant to the kitchen, and the scene was out of control for a while, and even the hands of the nanny and aunt were scratched.
Jin Xing rushed home overnight, and when she saw that her eldest son hadn't slept all night and looked apologetic, she didn't get angry, but communicated with the two of them separately. She first said to Dudu, what you did is right, but the way is wrong.
Then she warned her youngest son to pay attention to the proportions of his speech, because it is easy to offend people if he is too poisonous. Through the sincere persuasion of their mother, the two brothers reconciled.
Time flies, time flies. In the blink of an eye, the three children adopted by Venus are now adults, and each has made outstanding development in their own fields.
The eldest son, Dudu, has always been passionate about football, and Venus unreservedly supports his dream. Now Dudu is studying at a well-known university in the UK, and in addition to studying, football is also the direction of his full efforts.
Not long ago, Dudu also asked her mother Jin Xing on social platforms, hoping that she would resume the well-known program "Venus Show", which was once suspended. It can be seen that he has also received much attention and support for his mother's career.
As for her daughter Nini, she has grown into a beautiful girl with a very fashionable temperament. She and her mother Venus are walking in and out of the street, and they are often photographed by passers-by.
Nini's elegant and generous demeanor shows that Venus's concept of educating her as a traditional female celebrity since she was a child is effective.
Compared with his older siblings, the younger son gives the impression of being much more suave. From childhood to adulthood, he has always looked like Sven and behaved steadily. However, Venus told him that it was not okay to be too sven, and to be cheerful so that it would not give people a depressing feeling.
Today's youngest son is indeed a college student with outstanding grades both inside and outside.
On the festive day, the mother and son siblings will be happily reunited and live a harmonious life. Just like the previous Spring Festival, their family was lively in making dumplings and doing housework, and the children helped each other and took care of each other, and Venus was very relieved and proud in his eyes.
This family happiness is a great comfort to Venus.
Looking back, Venus has experienced too many ups and downs in her life. In order to realize her inner desire to become a woman, she did not hesitate to endure both physical and psychological suffering; In order to be a mother, she bravely adopted three children and took on the burden of raising them.
In the face of many difficulties, Venus showed perseverance and fearless courage. She used her actions to interpret the life philosophy of "how to get the fragrance of plum blossoms without going through a cold bone".
Because of this, she finally won the ideal life.
As a mother, Venus has no reservations about her love for the education of her three children. She spares no effort to cultivate children's interests and specialties, teach them the principles of life and things, accept their shortcomings and shortcomings with tolerance, and nourish them with maternal love to grow up healthily.
Nowadays, the life of the family is happy and happy, and Venus is full of a sense of gain and happiness. This happiness has become her inexhaustible life force, which will nourish and warm this big family, which will be passed down from generation to generation.