The early warning of unfinished homework during the winter vacation, and the different ways of coping with parents affect the future of their children

The "Winter Vacation Homework Failure Warning" issued by a primary school homeroom teacher rushed to the hot search, and the teacher was also very funny, thinking of all possible reasons in advance, and there was no excuse for not completing the homework.

In fact, every school season, children will face the situation of "unfinished homework", and school will start in a blink of an eye, and the homework has not yet begun to be written, and it has become a common state for children to make up homework.

In the face of the situation of "unfinished homework during the winter vacation", parents have 3 different reactions that affect their children's future.

First, the whole family is in formation

In the hit drama "Happy Parents Group", there was a plot where the whole family went into battle to make up for the summer vacation homework for Liu Guoning in the fifth grade.

In the face of children's unfinished holiday homework, there will indeed be parents who uphold the concept of "hand in the homework first no matter what", help the child complete the homework, and finally get the whole family to go into battle.

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In fact, doing so seems to have completed the task, but it is cultivating the child's habit of "throwing the pot".

The child's inner monologue: No matter how much I write or not, and how far I write, when it comes to the last day of the holiday, my parents will always find a way to help me complete it. So why am I in a hurry to do my homework?

School is about to start, and teachers will urge parents in the group to check their children's holiday homework and bring it to school.

But we parents should not be swayed by this nervous air, do not rush to help children make up homework, it is important to let children see the serious consequences of procrastination and laziness, and try to let children bear the consequences themselves.

Second, the type of fooling things

School is about to start, and a lot of "observational homework" and "practical homework" are really not something that can be made up if you want to. For example, the plant observation diary requires the observation of the daily growth changes of the plant within 30 days, which if you don't do it during the holiday, and now you make up for it, I really don't know how to write it.

There is also a similar scene in "Happy Parents Group", in the face of the first-grade child's labor homework, the father chooses to pose for a photo, casually write about what the child has learned, and deal with things.

As a result, when the teacher asked the child to perform in class, she learned the "tying shoes" skill during the vacation, and the child could not, which especially hurt her self-esteem.

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Parents who are confused may be very busy with work, and they really don't have time to supervise their children to complete their homework.

Don't forget, "fooling" is an attitude towards life.

Once children learn, they will not only fool their homework, but also fool their parents and themselves, and in the end, they will lose their children's lives.

3. The next correction type

There are also some parents, seeing that their children have admitted their mistakes, so they want to give their children a chance to take the initiative to help their children explain to the teacher, telling their children: Don't take it as an example!

This seems to solve the problem peacefully, but in fact, the child's time management ability and learning initiative are not cultivated.

It will also give the child an illusion: the next time I make a mistake, as long as I show more remorse and cry more miserably, my parents will give me another chance.

In fact, we adults all know that opportunities are rare, and if you miss them, you miss them.

If the child did not complete the winter vacation homework this time, he missed the opportunity to lay a solid foundation, and at the beginning of the new semester, his starting point was lower than that of other students, which is beyond doubt.

We must let the child understand that the mistake is either forgiven or harmless, and his every behavior will affect the direction of his future life.

Fourth, how to respond correctly

In the face of the situation of children's "unfinished winter vacation homework", what should parents do correctly?

1. Fixed errors

Hurry up and take the child to review how his winter vacation homework ended?

Did he start the vacation without a plan, or did he go wrong in the process of execution? What is the easiest situation for him to slack off?

Fix the mistakes that have occurred in the child, and make a detailed description and record, so that the child can clearly understand his own problems.

2. Thought catastrophe

Ask the children to think about whether such mistakes will occur again in the new semester.

If so, what can be done to overcome these problems?

Ask your child to speak freely, parents can also contribute ideas, and finally let the child decide on his or her next course of action.

3. Drill immediately

Take advantage of the new semester to ask your child to make a new study plan, how to arrange the daily homework so that he will not procrastinate? How to avoid similar situations during the holidays, and ask him to implement the plans he has come up with.

4. Face reality

If you can't finish your homework during the winter vacation, parents can let their children bear the consequences.

For example, write a review letter to the teacher to review why you did not complete the assignment and list the follow-up correction plan.

If you don't turn in your homework, you may really be criticized or even asked by your parents, but only if your child sees the actual consequences with their own eyes will they really want to take responsibility and make changes.

Is your child's winter vacation homework done?

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