Tong Dawei: I broke up once, married a teacher for 8 years, gave birth to 3 sons, lived in a 200 million mansion, married for 17 years and had 0 scandals, and there was bitterness behind the happiness

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Editor-in-charge|Xiang Wanwan

There are not a few celebrity couples in the entertainment industry, and it is normal for them to divide and merge. 

Tong Dawei Guan Yue and his wife have always been known as the "model couple" in the circle, and they have been in love for 17 years of marriage, and their three children are also well-behaved and cute.          

has been married for many years, and the two have almost no scandals, and their love is as good as ever, which is really rare in the complicated entertainment industry.

Guan Yue's reputation is not as good as Tong Dawei.

At the beginning of her marriage, many people questioned whether she used any "means" to get Tong Dawei.

But in fact, for Tong Dawei, Guan Yue is not only his wife, but also the fetters of his life.

The relationship between them is not all smooth sailing.      

01

The young Tong Dawei was not happy.          

When he was 6 years old, his father, who was a traffic policeman, was in a car accident while on duty, and his injuries were seriously injured and became a vegetative state.

For a while, the roof of the family collapsed, and life changed dramatically.

couldn't bear to watch his mother run around and work alone, Tong Dawei and his sister were forced to grow up overnight.              

They have to help their mother share the pressure, not only taking care of all the household chores, but also running between the hospital and the family, taking on the heavy responsibility of taking care of the father.

Once, someone came to the school to select a group performance, and Tong Dawei resolutely signed up to participate, thinking that it was just to make money to subsidize his family, but he didn't expect to fall in love with acting because of it.

With the strong support of his mother, Tong Dawei came to Dalian and was successfully admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy with his own efforts.

In his spare time, Tong Dawei shuttled between various crews, making money to reduce the burden on his family, and honing his acting skills.

"Sister-in-law", "Young Bao Qingtian 2", "It's All Angels", Tong Dawei is in these film and television dramas, although he is not popular, but his extraordinary strength also makes him famous.              

In 2001, Tong Dawei, who was filming in Beijing, went to Beijing Film Academy to play with his buddies whenever he was free.

Coincidentally, the good buddy was Guan Yue's teaching assistant teacher, and he and Guan Yue met.

When I saw Guan Yue for the first time, there happened to be a beam of light shining on Guan Yue who was performing.

At that moment, Guan Yue was like a fairy from the earth, and she was deeply attracted to Tong Dawei.

At this time, Guan Yue's eyes also looked at Tong Dawei, and he secretly rejoiced that Guan Yue also happened to be interested in him.              

So, in order to learn more about Guan Yue's news, Tong Dawei often looked for his good buddy, asked him about the news, and invited Guan Yue to dinner in the name of his buddy.

The assistant teacher's dinner, Guan Yue, who didn't know why, had to go to the appointment nervously.

After the filming, Tong Dawei, who returned to Shanghai, still remembered Guan Yue.

In order to meet Guan Yue, she often traveled between Beijing and Shanghai, especially when Guan Yue stayed in school to become a teacher, she specially audited her classes and became her "student".

At first, Guan Yue was unimpressed by Tong Dawei's pursuit.

She felt that Tong Dawei was in the entertainment industry, and he must have met many excellent women, who was already famous, and his pursuit was just a whim.

often gave her flowers and gifts, this person must be a "master of love", so he refused Tong Dawei's pursuit many times.

Tong Dawei, who has been defeated repeatedly, did not give up, and after three years of unremitting pursuit, Guan Yue slowly changed his opinion of him and saw his deep affection.

On Guan Yue's 24th birthday, Tong Dawei confessed again, and this time Guan Yue's answer was: "If you fall in love, then I have to take care of you, do you think it's okay?"

How can Tong Dawei not agree?

So, they fell in love.          

02

Love is on the right track, and careers are blooming everywhere, which can be described as double happiness.

After falling in love, due to the particularity of the actor's profession, Tong Dawei, who was on the rise in his career, did not disclose this relationship.

On the broadcast of "Jade Guanyin", he won the audience's favorite TV series actor award in one fell swoop, and the film appointments continued for a while.

In 2006, "Struggle", "Our Youth with Nowhere to Place", "Days Related to Youth", "Apple", these popular movies and TV series were broadcast, and Tong Dawei became a hot popular student.

As a teacher, Guan Yue, out of the mentality of being responsible for students, has been concentrating on teaching, and has never been involved in the filming of film and television dramas in the 4 years since graduation.

The gap in his career is getting bigger and bigger, fame and fortune are both gained, and Tong Dawei, who is at the peak of his career, is also getting more and more inflated, and he begins to play big names, and there is no one in his eyes.

Guan Yue, who couldn't stand it, hurriedly persuaded Tong Dawei and asked him to remember his original intention.

Tong Dawei did not listen to Guan Yue's advice as promised before, but yelled at her irritably: "I'm the most annoying to care about me." ”

often drank until late at night before coming home, Guan Yue said that he got angry when he said two words, and during that time, intimate lovers often quarreled over trivial things.

The changes after Tong Dawei became popular made Guan Yue feel that he couldn't catch him more and more, and when they reached the age when they should get married, they proposed to get married.

Tong Dawei, who used to talk about marriage all the time, hesitated.

With a thriving career, he felt that getting married when he was popular would affect his image and lose fans.          

After a quarrel, Guan Yue felt that each other needed to calm down and think about it, and proposed to calm down for a month for the time being.

Unexpectedly, a month later, Tong Dawei found Guan Yue, not admitting his mistake, but proposing to break up.

Although Guan Yue was sad after the breakup, Tong Dawei's vexatious troubles also made her not entangled too much and left decisively.

Half a year after the breakup, none of them contacted anyone.    

Guan Yue, who has never been able to get out of the pain of falling out of love, often locks herself in the house alone and has no intention of working.

Tong Dawei's life is not very easy.

Tong Dawei, who had settled down, found that he loved Guan Yue so deeply, and in the days when he was separated from Guan Yue, it seemed that everything had lost its color.       

He regretted not being at the beginning, he sent messages and called Guan Yue, and all of them were lost in the sea.

When he was at a loss, Tong Dawei thought of asking for help from others.

With the help of Guan Yue's good friend Dong Xuan, he was able to meet Guan Yue.

He took the initiative to admit his mistake, regretted what he had done, carefully prepared the ring, and proposed directly.

But the road to reunion was not as smooth as imagined, and Tong Dawei's confident marriage proposal was rejected by Guan Yue.    

Tong Dawei's rash behavior at the beginning, how could Guan Yue, who is from the Northeast, easily forgive him.

Afraid that reuniting too easily would repeat the mistakes of the past, Guan Yue was determined to teach him a lesson.

It wasn't until Tong Dawei used Guan Yue's idol Liang Jiahui as an excuse to ask her if she wanted to have dinner with the idol couple, and Guan Yue happily went to the appointment.

At the dinner, when Tong Dawei introduced Guan Yue to Liang Jiahui and his wife as his girlfriend, Guan Yue did not deny it for the sake of face.

With Tong Dawei's continuous efforts to recover, Guan Yue, who still loves him, finally agreed to get back together.

Soon after, the two received their certificates in Beijing.          

At the subsequent wedding banquet, Tong Dawei also specially invited a group of friends in the circle to witness the happiness of the two.

At the wedding, Tong Dawei made a lifelong promise: he and Guan Yue will be together forever and only get married once in their lives.          

03

After marriage, Guan Yue, in order to shorten the distance with her husband, started her acting career.

With solid acting skills and the support of her husband, she has performed well in TV series such as "Dragon Travels the World" and "Detective Di Renjie Part III".

Guan Yue, who quickly became popular, developed rapidly in her career and gained an audience.          

Subsequently, she participated in variety shows, released albums, and hosted shows.

is thriving in his career, and his marriage is also happy.

Of course, a happy marriage depends not only on love, but also on management.

Once lost, Tong Dawei cherishes the happiness he has in front of him even more.

Tong Dawei kept his promise when he got married, doted on Guan Yue, and handed over all his property.

not only cooks for Guan Yue every day, but also washes her feet.

Guan Yue, who is in charge of finance, often encourages Tong Dawei to use money to subsidize the elderly in the family and be filial to the elderly.

When they have free time, the couple often goes back to their hometown to visit them.

In the year of marriage, his eldest daughter was born, and he named his daughter "Tong Hanyue", combining the names of the couple together.          

In 2010, they welcomed the arrival of their second child, and the birth of their youngest daughter also made their family even more lively.  

If you have a family, you can better understand the difficulties of your parents.

Tong Dawei bought real estate for his parents in Beijing and took the elderly to Beijing to take care of him, and Guan Yue also gave full support.

In order to take care of her vegetative father-in-law, she also deliberately went to learn nursing and rehabilitation to help her husband share the pressure of the family.

Under their careful care, the father, who had been in a vegetative state for many years, miraculously woke up.

In 2016, their son was born and upgraded to a happy family of five.

Taking care of her three children and her family while also juggling her career, Guan Yue often has no time to rest, but they are all an indispensable part of her life, and she is willing to do it.

Relying on the smooth development and unique vision since his debut, the courtyard house bought by Tong Dawei in Beijing in the early years has also appreciated by as much as 200 million yuan.

For more than ten years of marriage, the couple has not had any scandals, and they can be called "models" in the entertainment industry.              

Tong Dawei, who has a bumper family and career, has always kept in mind his original intention and developed his acting career in a low-key manner.

not only presents wonderful works for the audience, but also often joins hands with Guan Yue to participate in variety shows, and even appears on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala.

With their hard work, this home is full of love and warmth.          

04

From falling in love to getting married, from constant quarrels to happy families, there is no lack of joint efforts of the two.

It is each other's mutual understanding and mutual support, so that they can resist the temptation around them and accompany each other for a lifetime in the drunken entertainment industry.    

Marriage is not the end of love, but the starting point for two people to go on together.

Only by knowing how to cherish can we not regret it, and by operating with heart, we can work together.

For them, marriage is not only the sublimation of love, but also a responsibility, a commitment, and a contract.

That's why they can still be as sweet as ever after 17 years of marriage.          

Now, their three children are gradually growing up, and their parents' words and deeds have also made them sensible and filial. 

The family lived a prosperous life and envied others.

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