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Sentence No. 2 Explorer
Editor|Explorer No. 2
As we all know, Ni Ping's second husband Wang Wenlan is a well-known photographer.
His photographs always show the most real life, and he is a photographer for major newspapers and magazines.
His works have also won many awards in China.
But these honors are far less famous than the fame brought to him by his marriage to Ni Ping.
The two had a son Huzi together, because the son had a congenital disease.
The two also had a lot of disputes in this, and finally the two ended the marriage.
In the years when Ni Ping took the child to see a doctor alone, did he go to see it?
After the divorce, did he find his home again?
He can be favored by Ni Ping, which shows that he is not an unknown person.
He was born into a military family with four brothers.
Under the influence of his uncle, he became interested in photography since he was a child, and all four of them learned excellent photography skills.
When he was a student, he liked to ride his bicycle to the countryside with his playmates in the yard and took a lot of photos.
In the 50s of the 20th century, he also experienced the life of going to the countryside to cut in line.
At that time, he also spent 8 yuan to buy a camera to bring with him.
In the arduous life of joining the queue, he took hundreds of photos, and photography also brought great joy to his life.
In 1974, because he played basketball well, he successfully enlisted in the army.
In the army, he became a photographer again, and the skills he learned from childhood played a big role at this time.
During his time in the army, he went deep into the scene of major events such as the Tangshan earthquake and the Yunnan front line to conduct interviews and reports.
A few years later, he transferred from the army and joined a newspaper company.
He has taken many series of photographs that reflect the lives of ordinary people, which have caused great repercussions at home and abroad.
Within a few years, he was one of the top 10 photojournalists.
In 1995, he became the newspaper's chief photographer and chief photographer, wearing many hats.
At that time, he was a well-known figure in the world of photography.
The reason why he has such an amazing palmares.
is because his main energy is focused on work, and he has to stand aside in love and life.
So in love, he failed twice, so that when he was over 40 years old, he was still a golden bachelor.
At this time, Ni Ping was still in a happy relationship with a well-known director, and she thought she was the daughter-in-law of the Chen family.
He and Ni Ping met at a party, and they just nodded and said hello.
In 1996, Chen Kaige and Chen Hong got married abroad, which was a big blow to her.
At this time, Ni Ping realized that she was not his ideal partner.
As a glamorous host, she is the goddess in the hearts of many men.
Emotionally, she lost to a little-known young actor at the time, and she also had mixed feelings in her heart at that time.
In the time she spent with Chen Kaige, she lived a humble life and wasted her best years.
At that stage, it was the lowest moment in her life.
She always forced a smile in front of people, but behind her back she secretly shed tears.
Wang Wenlan is good at capturing the eyes of the camera, and has already seen the pain in her heart.
For this talented woman whom he admires very much, he feels sorry for her, and his eyes are full of distress.
He was not good at talking, and he even began to open up.
boldly confessed to Ni Ping, and she also felt very abrupt in the face of the sudden confession.
She has not yet come out of the last failed relationship, and she also changed the topic with a smile.
Since then, Wang Wenlan will come to pick up Ni Ping to and from work every day.
will also try their best to make her happy, hoping to ease her mood.
helped her realize her dream, and he also paid a lot silently.
In 96, he bought a piece of land on the outskirts of Beijing and built a courtyard house.
And the dress is very classical, and the scenery is also very good.
After it was completely renovated, he found a suitable opportunity to bring Ni Ping here.
Tell her that she can take care of her grandmother, who has been dependent on her since she was a child, and this house is for her.
Everything he did finally touched Ni Ping, and he also let go of the knot in his heart.
The two also came together.
It didn't take long for the two to get married, and the two very literate people were a good match.
The two of them play together, go biking in the suburbs, and walk through the beautiful scenery.
Wang Wenlan also captured some beautiful moments of Ni Ping, and slowly integrated into each other's lives.
To this end, the two also published a book together, and at the launch ceremony, the two appeared together on the scene.
The combination of two people is very enviable.
In 1998, their son was born, nicknamed Huzi.
Wang Wenlan, who is middle-aged and has a son, is very happy, but this joy of becoming a father for the first time did not last long.
When the child was a few months old, he was diagnosed with a congenital eye disease.
A layer of film grows on the outside of the front of the eye that obscures the view.
The diagnosis given by the doctor was that if not treated earlier, he would be completely blind before the age of 5.
From the day they were diagnosed, the two also embarked on a long journey to seek medical treatment.
Famous doctors who visited the country also hit the two deeply.
Whenever I was queuing up in the hospital corridor with my son in my arms, I smelled the pungent smell of potions.
Looking at the child's innocent face, they are also very distressed.
Because the membrane on the outside of the eye keeps growing repeatedly.
Your child will have to have surgery every once in a while, and he will have to take medication and physical rehabilitation all the time.
For several years in a row, the child's eye disease always recurs.
The husband and wife are also in this infinite cycle, and they are also physically and mentally tortured to the point of exhaustion.
After finding no hope at home, they turned their attention abroad and ran all over the well-known eye hospitals abroad.
A lot of money is spent, and the effect is still not ideal.
Not only did the family's savings run out, but they also had a lot of debts.
If this situation continues, it is a bottomless pit, and it is not known how much it will cost in the future.
But there is still no hope of recovery.
In order to earn money for their son's treatment, they desperately went out to work.
They will take any job that can make money, but they are never able to pay for their children's treatment abroad.
In the face of this major pressure, both husband and wife are in a bad mood.
Every time I come back from the hospital with my child, I feel the worst, and the relationship between husband and wife is the most fragile.
At this time, a blow or a trivial matter will trigger a quarrel between the two.
Soon, the two disagreed over their son's treatment plan.
Both of them were originally intended for the good of their children, but they were two opposites.
After visiting famous doctors and seeing no hope of a cure, Wang Wenlan wanted to give up the treatment and save all the money for the child.
I hope to leave enough security for his future life.
And Ni Ping didn't want to give up the child, but still wanted to take the child for medical treatment.
It may be Wang Wenlan's sentimental personality, and under heavy pressure, his mood is also very unstable.
The two often quarreled, and all the good things they once had disappeared, leaving them with only a deep rift.
In 2004, in order to take the child for treatment, she resigned from her job at CCTV.
Then she took her son to the United States for better treatment.
It is precisely because of this incident that the husband and wife have a big difference of opinion.
After a fierce quarrel, the two felt too tired to be together, and finally chose to divorce.
Although the two divorced, he never gave up his responsibilities as a father, and he left all his property to his wife and children.
On the day he left, he hugged his son and told him: Daddy will always love you.
Ni Ping took her son to the United States alone to see a doctor, and Wang Wenlan worked in China.
He also did his best, and as an ordinary salaried person, he also had a limited income.
In addition to maintaining his normal living expenses, most of his salary will be sent to his son on time.
I also go abroad regularly to see my son.
Since the news of the divorce of the two was exposed, Wang Wenlan has become the target of public criticism.
He has become a "negative man" in everyone's eyes.
He also has his own difficulties in making such a choice.
Under the dual pressure of reality and emotion, emotions have always been very unstable.
In addition, he needs a careful environment to work in the arts, and it is difficult for him to devote himself to his work.
In the face of all kinds of remarks from the outside world, he chose to remain silent and devoted himself to his work.
It didn't take long for Ni Ping to marry Yang Yaya, and the remarks on the Internet gradually subsided.
And he has always remained single, and he still cares about his children as always.
Ni Ping's mother also gave him a high evaluation, and her love for her son has never diminished.
parted ways with Ni Ping, it can only be said that the two have no fate.
He was 52 years old when the two divorced, and the well-wishers around him introduced him to him, hoping that he could start a family again.
He refused, still sticking to his duty as a father.
In 2014, Huzi's congenital eye disease was completely cured, and he was no different from a normal person.
After that, Ni Ping's life was also on the right track, her career was thriving, and her family was also very warm.
She suffered too much in the first half of her life, but she can be regarded as settling down.
On the other hand, Wang Wenlan, who is now over 70 years old, has long let go of the past.
The unbearable past has also become a cloud of the past, perhaps because I experienced too much turmoil when I was young.
As he got older, he became much more peaceful and stable.
His relationship with his son did not become indifferent because of the separation.
On the contrary, in the years that the father and son have been separated, they have still maintained a close connection and a good relationship.
Huzi, who is studying abroad, will stay with his father for a few days every holiday.
In his spare time, he will read books, listen to music, and conduct WeChat videos with his son.
As for the real situation of the two at that time, as outsiders, we can't judge it arbitrarily.
The marriage between the two is indeed very sad, but there is no perfect thing in the world.
In terms of personal emotion, Wang Wenlan has lived alone for his son so far, and has no idea of remarrying.
just wants to see his son get married and start a family, and this wordless father's love is the best proof.
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