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Text: Li Yonghao
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Preamble:
She was the memory of the Spring Festival Gala in the hearts of countless people, and she was the goddess envied by countless people, but who would have thought that under the glamorous appearance, there was a painful past hidden?
She is Ni Ping, a woman who is dazzling under the spotlight, but she has tasted all the flavors of life in life.
When we marvel at her elegance and confidence on stage, have you ever wondered what kind of bumpy life journey is behind this?
What kind of suffering has created such a strong and wise soul?
Let's step into Ni Ping's world and listen to her story.
Unhappy childhood
Ni Ping was born in a family that was not wealthy.
The relationship between the parents has always been at odds, and they quarrel almost every day.
The young Ni Ping often hid in the quilt, falling asleep with the abuse of her parents, and her tears wet the pillow.
She couldn't understand why other children could grow up happily under the care of their parents, while she had to endure such pain.
The father is a very eccentric person, he only cares about his son, and often ignores Ni Ping and his mother.
When the family conditions were not good, Ni Ping and her mother couldn't eat a bite of meat, but her brother never worried about eating and drinking, which made Ni Ping's heart full of dissatisfaction.
She felt that the family was full of injustice, but she was powerless to change it.
What Ni Ping couldn't accept the most was her father's abandonment.
After a heated argument, the parents decided to go their separate ways.
However, the father only wants his son, and does not want this "burden" to follow him.
Ni Ping can only follow her mother and live a life of displacement.
In order to support her, her mother could only go out to work hard, and entrusted the young Ni Ping to her grandmother to take care of.
Ni Ping felt extremely lonely and lost, she didn't understand why her father didn't want her, why this family became like this.
Under the careful care of her grandmother, Ni Ping grew up slowly.
Mother rarely comes back a few times a year, and grandma has become the most important person in Ni Ping's life.
Grandma's love made Ni Ping still feel a trace of warmth in her unhappy childhood.
Grandma often told Ni Ping that she must learn to be strong and independent, because life will not be smooth sailing, and only with a strong heart can she face all kinds of difficulties and setbacks.
Grandma's concept of life also deeply influenced Ni Ping and laid the foundation for her future life.
Many years later, Ni Ping published a book "Grandma's Quotations" to express her gratitude to her grandma.
In this book, she shares her grandmother's wisdom and philosophy of life, hoping to help more people who are experiencing difficulties like her.
Two false emotional experiences
Time flies, and Ni Ping stepped onto the university campus.
Here, she met her first boyfriend, Guo Da.
Two young people met and fell in love on campus, innocent and beautiful.
They study in the library together, walk around the campus together, and imagine the future together.
However, this relationship eventually ended because of Ni Ping's mother's resolute opposition, leaving Ni Ping with lingering regrets in her heart.
's mother thought that Guo Da's family conditions were not good enough to give Ni Ping a happy life, and insisted that Ni Ping break up with him.
Although Ni Ping was reluctant, she finally succumbed to her mother's pressure and parted ways with Guo Da.
The haze of broken love has not yet dissipated, and Ni Ping met the famous director Chen Kaige again.
His talent made Ni Ping yearn for it, and the two soon fell in love.
For this relationship, Ni Ping has paid a lot, not only to take care of her busy work, but also to take care of Chen Kaige's family.
She is full of respect and understanding for Chen Kaige, and silently acts as the woman behind him.
She believes that as long as she pays enough, she will definitely be able to get Chen Kaige's sincerity.
However, Chen Kaige never gave Ni Ping a clear promise.
Ni Ping has hinted many times that she wants to get married, but Chen Kaige always refuses on the grounds of "unmarriage".
In this way, the two have lived together for many years, but Ni Ping has never been nameless.
She began to doubt her choice and the meaning of the relationship.
Until one day, Chen Kaige appeared in front of Ni Ping with his pregnant girlfriend Chen Hong, holding a mazazi to watch from the side
Ni Ping felt extremely shocked and sad, she couldn't believe that she had paid so much, but in exchange for such a result.
Ni Ping, who lost her love, fell into pain and confusion, and she began to reflect on her emotional experience, trying to come out of the pain and re-examine her life.
She understands that love is not the whole of life, and losing love does not mean losing everything.
She decided to love herself and pursue the life she really wanted.
A marriage broken by a child's illness
40-year-old Ni Ping is no longer young.
When Wang Wenlan appeared in her life, Ni Ping was moved.
Wang Wenlan was full of love for her, and even built a courtyard house for Ni Ping and her mother in Beijing, which deeply touched Ni Ping.
After experiencing several failed relationships, Ni Ping decided to entrust her life to this man again.
She believes that this time, she will definitely find true happiness.
The life after marriage is plain and happy, the husband and wife respect each other like guests, Ni Ping thinks that she has finally found true love.
She plays the role of wife and mother with all her heart, giving everything for this family.
However, the birth of his son Huzi broke all this.
Huzi was diagnosed with severe congenital cataracts and was at risk of blindness.
This news was like a thunderbolt from the blue, shattering Ni Ping's happy life.
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They had heard that the United States was more advanced in medical technology and might be able to cure Huzi's eye disease, but the high cost discouraged them.
Ni Ping was so anxious that she couldn't watch her son go blind and decided to save the child at all costs.
In desperation, Ni Ping decided to take her son to the United States for treatment.
Expensive medical bills put the family in a difficult situation, and Wang Wenlan flinched in the face of enormous financial pressure.
He began to complain, began to run away, and eventually chose to leave the family.
In 2005, Ni Ping and Wang Wenlan divorced by agreement.
This marriage was eventually broken by the child's illness.
Ni Ping felt extremely disappointed and helpless, but she knew that she had to be strong because the child needed her.
Accompany Yang Asia to old age
Shortly after the breakdown of the marriage, Yang Yaya appeared in Ni Ping's life.
He felt sorry for Ni Ping's experience and wanted to give her and her son a complete home.
Although the combination of the two is more to live together, the appearance of Yang Yaya has given Ni Ping a reliance.
He is not a romantic person, but he is kind, down-to-earth, and willing to bear the burden of life with Ni Ping.
Under Yang Yaya's careful care, his son Huzi's condition finally improved.
After more than ten years of treatment and a lot of money, Huzi was finally cured.
Ni Ping, who learned the news, felt extremely relieved.
She can finally stop suffering from her child's illness and start thinking about her life.
She is grateful to Yang Yaya for his dedication over the years, and to him for giving herself and her children a home.
Although Yang Yaya is not good at words, he expresses his love for this family with his actions.
He learned to cook and made healthy and delicious meals for Ni Ping.
He took the initiative to share the housework, so that Ni Ping had more time to pursue her hobbies.
With the support of Yang Yaya, Ni Ping picked up painting again and started a new life.
Get back to painting and start a new life
After her son's recovery, Ni Ping rekindled her passion for painting.
It was her childhood hobby, but it was put on hold for many years because of the hardships of life.
Now, Ni Ping finally has time for herself.
She devoted herself to painting, and her works won many awards.
In 2012, more than 80 of Ni Ping's paintings were sold for 5 million yuan, and a work titled "Joyful Chinese Knot" sold for 600,000 yuan.
These achievements are not only a recognition of Ni Ping's artistic talent, but also an affirmation of her perseverance and never-give-up spirit.
Today's Ni Ping lives a full and happy life.
Health, travel, and painting constitute the second half of her life.
She began to learn to enjoy life and learn to relax herself.
She would drink tea and chat with her friends and share her insights on life.
She will travel with Yang Yaya to enjoy the beauty of nature.
She would sit quietly in the studio and record the bits and pieces of life with her brush.
Although the years have left a mark on her face, she is stronger and more open-minded inside.
Epilogue:
She used her own experience to tell us that the suffering in life is actually a kind of wealth.
It allows us to learn to grow, learn to be strong, and learn to cherish.
Only after experiencing wind and rain can we better understand the preciousness of sunshine; Only by crossing the ravine, can we reach a broader world.
Now, Ni Ping has her husband Yang Yaya, who accompanies her until she grows old, has the freedom to pursue art, and has a more indifferent and open-minded attitude towards life.
She is no longer obsessed with the pain of the past, but embraces the beauty of life with a grateful heart.
Her story has inspired countless people to understand that no matter how difficult life is, as long as there is hope, they will be able to get out of the haze and usher in the dawn.
Ni Ping's life is a legend and an ordinary journey.
She has laughed, cried, fallen, and grown along the way.
Her experience may be a microcosm of each of us.
Let's learn from Ni Ping, embrace everything in life with tenacity and optimism, and create a wonderful life of our own.