Mother's biggest vision: from elementary school, only accompany the child to do these 3 things

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The role of the mother is crucial in the child's development. She is not only the initial guide in the child's life, but also the key person in shaping the child's character, values and behavioral habits.

A forward-thinking mother will not overly pursue her child's short-term academic achievements, but focus on cultivating her child's long-term abilities and qualities.

Since elementary school, she only needs to accompany her children to do the following three things, which is enough to benefit her children for life.

1. Cultivate good study habits

Study habits are the cornerstone of a child's academic career.

A child with good study habits is more efficient and autonomous in the learning process, and is more likely to achieve excellent results. What mothers need to do is to help their children establish correct study habits from an early age.

Xiao Ming's mother has paid great attention to cultivating his study habits since he was a child.

She will fix a time slot every day to accompany Xiao Ming to review the knowledge he has learned that day, help him organize his notes and plan his study plan. With the passage of time, Xiao Ming gradually formed a good habit of independent learning, and his academic performance has always been among the best.

More importantly, he learned how to manage his time reasonably and how to study efficiently, which played an important role in his future studies and work.

2. Stimulate a wide range of reading interests

Reading is the key to opening the door to children's wisdom.

Through reading, children can be exposed to a wider range of knowledge, improve language skills, and cultivate critical thinking. Moms should encourage their children to read widely and provide them with rich reading materials.

Xiaohong's mother pays great attention to cultivating her interest in reading.

She often takes Xiaohong to the library and lets her choose the books she is interested in. At home, my mother will also read with Xiaohong and share her reading experience. Under the guidance of her mother, Xiaohong gradually fell in love with reading, and her knowledge became wider and wider, and her thinking became more and more active.

The gains brought by these readings not only made Xiaohong perform well in school, but also made her full of confidence and charm in life.

3. Develop a hobby of sports

A healthy body is the foundation of a child's growth.

Exercise not only exercises the body and improves physical fitness, but also cultivates children's team spirit, sense of competition and perseverance.

Moms should encourage their children to choose a sport and stick to it.

Xiaogang's mother knows the importance of exercise to her child's growth.

She encouraged Xiao Gang to try various sports, and finally made Xiao Gang choose basketball as his sports hobby. Every week, my mother would accompany Xiaogang to the basketball court to practice, rain or shine.

With the company and encouragement of his mother, Xiaogang's basketball skills gradually improved, and he gradually fell in love with the sport. Through basketball, Xiao Gang not only exercised his body, but also learned how to cooperate with others and how to deal with setbacks.

These experiences have made him stronger and more confident in life.

Summary: A visionary mother, in the primary school stage of her child, only needs to pay attention to the above three things: develop good study habits, stimulate a wide range of reading interests, and cultivate a hobby of sports.

These three things seem simple, but they contain profound educational philosophy. They not only lay a solid foundation for a child's academic career, but also shape a child's personality, values and behavior.

The role of the mother is crucial in the child's development. She needs to patiently accompany, guide, and encourage her children, so that they can grow up happily and harvest in growth.

Such a mother is undoubtedly the most valuable asset on the road of children's growth.

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