#头条讲真的#
"Anyone who can run a family well must be a great person. You must know that in this world, the most difficult sutra to recite is not the Buddhist sutra or the Taoist sutra, but the sutra at home. —Mr. Yang Jiang
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Some people work hard, but their hearts are not bitter, and some people's hearts are hard, but they are not hard. Buddhist scriptures are easy to read, Taoist scriptures are easy to speak, and family scriptures are not easy to sing!
Home is a place that is both warm and complex. Although family conflicts are small, they can make people's hearts seem to be shrouded in thick dark clouds, and endless depression and depression make people unable to breathe! Therefore, anyone who can make the whole family happy is a great person.
Don't believe it, there are ashes at the bottom of everyone's pots, and some husbands and wives can turn the ashes into ink and write joy and laughter; they can turn pots and pans into a symphony, so that the whole family is filled with happy laughter, and both husband and wife are vying for happiness for the family!
Don't believe it, there are frictions in anyone's big family, some parents can have children and grandchildren, and can unite their children to work together for welfare, while some parents break up the big family in a mixed manner, and none of their children want to deal with anyone......
Therefore, this book seems to be very vulgar, but it contains great wisdom, only by reading it with heart, understanding it with affection, and practicing it with action, can you win life!
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If you don't stop quarrelling, your family will fail!
Mr. Yang Jiang once said: "People who have been accusing and suppressing their family for a long time, as long as they speak, they are evaluated, accused and judged, and the whole person is like an emotional black hole, sucking the spirit of the whole family dry!"
Accusations, sarcasm, cold words, and throwing faces seem to be trivial things in daily life, but if there is a person in the family who has been dumping and transmitting negative energy for a long time, once a bad habit is formed, it will shroud the whole family in a haze and plunge the whole family into the mud of emotional internal friction!
The trivial struggle between family members seems to be small, but the resentment is too heavy, it will make a family have a "ripple" of internal friction, and after a long time, it will be like termites, eating away at the root system of the family little by little, until the spirit of the family is exhausted and the foundation of the family is shaken!
Remember: If you don't quarrel anymore, your family will fail! This is the metaphysics of family fortune! All good things are built on a good mood. Family luck is no exception, the family atmosphere is good, the family members are in a good mood, and good luck will come!
Therefore, people who know how to run a family with heart and put family members first must be amazing people!
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The family is uneasy and has no money
There is a saying that agrees: "When people's hearts are united, everything can be accomplished, and when people's hearts are harmonious, family fortune is prosperous." ”
A good family atmosphere is the best feng shui of a home. Doing one thing wrong is a trivial matter, but if the fragmentation between family members is regarded as endless infighting, it is a family tragedy!
In today's society, the grinding plate of life is very heavy, it is not easy for men to have men, women to have women, it is not easy for parents to have parents, and it is not easy for children to have children. If family members no longer know how to be considerate and tolerant, and they accuse each other and increase each other, the waves set off by any small thing may crush a person, and from then on, family conflicts will not stop, everyone will be exhausted, and lose the fighting spirit to seek happiness for the big family!
古人云，家和贫也足，不义富多扰！
Therefore, home is not a fighting arena full of gunsmoke, whoever wins and who loses, in the end is the loser!
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epilogue
U.S. President Abraham Lincoln said, "No outward success can compensate for a failure at home." ”
In this secular society, money, fame, and fortune are of course very important, but when you return from a day of conquest, "someone is willing to stand at dusk with you, and someone asks you for porridge!"
So what is true happiness? It is not how rich you are, but how much power you have, but having a home to go back to, having a good person to accompany you, the lights are colorful, the family is full of laughter, and the love is strong!
So, more of the beauty in life is not outside, but at home!
Hopefully, we can all run our families well and cherish our partners well. After all, the last stop on life's journey is home!