My wife and I met on a blind date, and we agreed to get married, but I felt that I was too old and didn't want to pick anymore, so I would live a good life.
She is a salesman, with a higher salary than me, and she earns more than 10,000 yuan a month.
And I'm just a forklifter, with a salary of only 6.7 thousand a month.
I saw that my wife's salary was so high, so I discussed with her, the AA system for expenses after marriage, I took care of the children's tuition, and she took care of the family's food expenses.
My wife has no opinion, she said that the mortgage is also half for one person.
After the child was born, my mother helped us take care of the baby, and the two of us still worked with peace of mind to make money.
At first, life was peaceful, but after a long time, I felt a little unhappy.
Her salary was half higher than mine, but her expenses were still half of that of one person, and I spent all my monthly salary, while she was able to save thousands of dollars every month.
My mother also began to complain in front of me, saying that my wife was too stingy, and she was reluctant to spend money for the family even though her salary was so high.
I usually help my child buy a bicycle, buy something a little more expensive, and share it with my AA, so that I can pay half of the money.
My wife knew that my mother and I had opinions, but she was still unmoved and still adhered to the principle of AA.
"AA was proposed by you, I just complied with it, besides, you are a man, the head of the family, you should have supported the family, and now I bear half of the expenses, what do you want?"
After listening to my wife's words, I have nothing to say, who makes himself incapable and not as capable of making money as her?
Once, my sister-in-law came to our house to play and accidentally said that her wife had deposited 150,000 yuan in the bank.
When I heard the news, I felt extremely cold.
She kept the money and hid it, preferring to deposit it in the bank rather than give it a little more for her family.
My mother is getting older, her health is getting worse and worse, and she has to go to the hospital from time to time.
I discussed with my wife, thinking that my mother worked so hard to help us take care of the children, and her money for medical treatment was AA.
The wife was immediately unhappy.
She said: "She is your biological mother, and you should be responsible for the medical expenses, besides, my parents are not in good health, and I usually give them medical expenses, why didn't you say that you wanted AA?"
I got a little angry and immediately got into a fight with her.
"Then why don't you hire a nanny, you don't need your mother to take the baby!" I said angrily.
The wife smiled and said calmly: "Okay, I have no opinion on asking for a nanny, the nanny's salary is AA for both of us." ”
As soon as I heard it, I was instantly stunned, and now it is very expensive to hire a nanny, and I can't hire more than 5,000 at all.
With my salary of several thousand yuan, after deducting the usual expenses, I can't afford to pay the salary of a nanny at all.
Moreover, the nanny is certainly not as dedicated to taking care of the children as her own mother.
Seeing that I was silent, my wife snorted coldly and walked away.
As a man, being pressed by his wife, I feel more and more unconfident.
In order to earn more, I went part-time to deliver food after work at night, thinking about an extra income.
Who knows, before I lasted for a month, I felt that I couldn't stand it, and the wind and rain in the winter made my body really unbearable.
But for the sake of face, I gritted my teeth and persisted, thinking that my wife felt sorry for me and would ask me to stop doing it.
But no matter how much I complained at home that I was tired and tired, she just didn't move, as if she didn't see it.
After a month and a half, I ran away with a bucket.
My wife neither laughed at me nor gave me any comfort, as if she had seen it no longer strange.
I felt bored, and at the same time I thought she was cold-blooded.
Other people's wives are shy and warm to their husbands, but she has a big heart, and she takes the baby out to play every day, and she doesn't take me to heart at all.
"Son, you wife, your heart is too hard, where is there a wife!" my mother whispered to me.
"Mom, don't say it, who made your son incompetent!" I was a little helpless.
"If you don't get divorced, you don't look like a husband and wife anyway!" Mom was a little angry.
"Mom, don't talk nonsense, it's terrible to be heard by her, in my case, I can't even marry a wife after a divorce. I said nervously.
Although I also have some opinions about my wife, I have never thought of divorce, after all, she is so good at making money, and she doesn't dislike me, I still care about her.
One day, when I was at work, I suddenly received a call from my mother, who said that she felt dizzy and out of breath.
I quickly took leave and went home and took my mother to the hospital.
When the results came out, I was dumbfounded.
The doctor said that my mother had a heart attack and had to be operated on immediately, and the cost of the operation was expected to be 200,000 yuan.
I took out all the money on my body, but it was still far from enough, and there was still a gap of 150,000.
I remembered that my wife still had 150,000 yuan in the bank, so I discussed with her and asked her to take it out first and pay the surgery fee to her mother.
When my wife heard this, she refused without even thinking about it.
"Mom is going to have surgery, I, as a daughter-in-law, can contribute some money, but you can't only pay 50,000, I will pay 150,000, I can take out other savings, at most only 70,000, and you can figure out the rest yourself!"
"What time is it, you're still thinking so much, if I can take it out, do I need to ask you?" I said angrily.
"You can't take out the regular money in advance, otherwise there will be no interest!" the wife still insisted.
"Are you my wife, since you are married to our family, you have to think about our family, can you not be so selfish?" I was so angry that I threw the cup on the table to the ground.
"I'm already merciful and righteous to give you 70,000 yuan, don't go too far, make me angry, I won't pay a dime!" The wife looked at the debris all over the ground and was also angry.
"If you don't come out, you can't go out, you cover your money bag and fuck off!" I said angrily.
My wife looked at me, smiled coldly, and turned back to the bedroom.
I went back to the hospital to take care of my mom.
The next morning, I went home to get my things, but I saw that the wardrobe was empty, and my wife actually packed up her things and went back to her parents' house, and really didn't leave a dime.
Looking at the empty wardrobe, I felt like I had been poured a basin of cold water, cold from beginning to end.
I had no choice but to borrow money from relatives and friends, and it was not easy to raise enough money for my mother's surgery.
I really don't know, what's the use of marrying a wife? My mother-in-law was sick and hospitalized for surgery, but she didn't care about it and ran back to her parents' house!