"The best love may be the relief after letting go", this sentence is the perfect interpretation of Zhou Suhong and Tang Miao. As professional players in the sports world, the relationship between them has been expected by fans, but the final result is a bit regrettable.
But compared with the emotional news of other entertainment circles or sports players, most of the remarks that appear in their comment area are rational and full of comfort, rather than the kind of remarks that are full of anger, which is a very rare situation for the Internet.
These two people are obviously going to the end of divorce, and for many people, disappointment should be the main part, and everyone often has higher requirements for public figures, and it is not normal to encounter emotional setbacks without criticism.
Zhou Suhong's upbringing
Speaking of the two of them, we have to mention the fate of volleyball. In 1979, Zhou Suhong was born, and when she was a child, Zhou Suhong already had the signs of being a good sports player.
The physical advantage has made Zhou Suhong very confident since she was a child. Looking back on childhood, everyone also had a dispute over a trivial matter, but Zhou Suhong easily passed this period with her own advantages, and became the leader of the children.
Slowly, Zhou Suhong's physical fitness attracted the attention of the school teachers, who felt that the sports world might be more suitable for Zhou Suhong's situation than cultural classes, and the teacher was also worried that Zhou Suhong's family did not have this cognition, so they went to Zhou Suhong's house.
Unexpectedly, Zhou Suhong's parents were also very open-minded, and did not say that they would let their children learn cultural classes and then take the most popular path, but believed in the child's own possibilities and handed it over to Zhou Suhong to judge his own future.
Of course, Zhou Suhong, who was only 11 years old, may not have thought much about it at the time. But there is no doubt that this choice has changed the direction of her life a lot, and it is also her first contact with volleyball.
In contrast, volleyball has more rules when it is first started, and it needs to be more detailed to fully master, but Zhou Suhong is very talented and has mastered many techniques of volleyball in a short period of time.
Of course, once you enter the career path, there are many outstanding talents, and you can always find better people. It can only be said that sometimes the state will have a great bonus to strength, take Zhou Suhong as an example, her physical fitness supports her to train at greater intensity.
But at the same time, it also brought her more difficulties, such as not saying that the harder the better, when serving, you must not use the power to smash the ball when you should play high, so Zhou Suhong is required to work hard to control her strength.
And Zhou Suhong is obviously better than other team members in that she can listen to her words, without the stubbornness of "I know, but I don't change" that young people are used to, which is very rare for young people who want to be strong.
Admitting mistakes and correcting them sounds very simple, but there are not many people who are willing to admit this in life, Zhou Suhong has successfully made up for his shortcomings by virtue of this advantage, and has truly become an excellent player in all aspects.
Subsequently, the coach also saw that her hard work and talent complemented each other, so he gave her a higher platform, which is the national youth team. Coming to the new platform, Zhou Suhong's persuasive personality also made her fully understand the advantages of her predecessors and then use them to improve herself.
With the increasing experience of participation, Zhou Suhong also began to participate in some large-scale competitions, from provincial competitions to national competitions, although he has encountered setbacks, but he has finally won a good ranking, not to mention that as a newcomer, it is enough to show his appearance, not to mention the results.
In contrast, the experience of ranking for the first time in the event made Zhou Suhong more eye-catching and entered the field of vision of many people, including Tang Miao, who is also a men's volleyball player. Speaking of which, the beginning of the two also originated from a volleyball game.
Fate brought by volleyball
In 2001, Chen Zhonghe replaced the original women's volleyball coach Hu Jin as the new coach. And the new official is naturally indispensable to three fires, he is determined to let the women's volleyball team win good results and begin to reorganize the team composition.
Among them, Zhou Suhong's physical strength advantage made his eyes light up all of a sudden, so he disrupted the positioning of the original team and put Zhou Suhong in the position of receiving the second setter, and this position adjustment can be said to be completely for Zhou Suhong.
Since then, Zhou Suhong's performance has become more and more eye-catching, gaining a lot of fans, in order to allow the men's volleyball team and the women's volleyball team to maintain the upward trend of volleyball, Chen Zhong began to organize two teams to conduct intra-team exchange matches.
This also gave Tang Miao, who has been paying attention to Zhou Suhong, a chance to really get to know Zhou Suhong. Tang Miao was regarded as a junior by her because Zhou Suhong was 3 years old, so after getting to know him, Zhou Suhong took more care of him.
As for Tang Miao herself, because she has the same position as Zhou Suhong in the team, she can better understand Zhou Suhong's superb personal skills on the field, and she still admires Zhou Suhong more, but as time passed, the two began to appreciate each other again.
Tang Miao is a very attentive person, she can't listen to anything during the game, Zhou Suhong feels that this is very attractive to her, after all, the charm of a man who is seriously engaged in a career is really unstoppable.
In addition, Tang Miao herself admired Zhou Suhong more, so the two came together to be successful. In 2003, Zhou Suhong and her teammates won the Women's Volleyball World Cup that the mainland had not lifted for 16 years.
Since then, Zhou Suhong's career has come to a sharp rise, and she won the Swedish Olympic Games, and this result has made netizens begin to have greater expectations for Zhou Suhong, thinking that she may be able to become the next Lang Ping.
In addition to her career, Zhou Suhong did not fall behind in terms of feelings. In 2005, Tang Miao and Zhou Suhong announced their relationship, and this relationship connected by volleyball was blessed by many people.
However, even if the relationship is confirmed, the daily life of the two has not changed in the slightest, they are training and then using little free time to get together. Fortunately, both sides understood each other's difficulties and did not complain about it.
In 2007, the two naturally entered the marriage hall hand in hand, and many fans were moved to see the couple in love get married. But before fans could accept this new positioning, the unexpected appeared.
In 2008, due to the end of the Olympic Games, the reputation of the women's volleyball team was very loud, and many countries issued invitations one after another, hoping to hold exchange matches to expand their technical aspects, so the women's volleyball team and the men's volleyball team went to Russia for exchange activities.
Who would have thought that Tang Miao would step into a nightmare as soon as he went this time, shattering this newly formed family. This is also an unacceptable accident for Zhou Suhong, who has just been married for half a year.
Tang Miao had an accident, and Zhou Suhong took care of it wholeheartedly
During the training, Tang Miao accidentally hit her head during the activity and fell into a coma on the spot, and the test results given by the hospital were that the impact site was the cervical vertebrae, and the patient was seriously injured and may not be able to stand in the future, or even become a vegetative person.
Zhou Suhong was still on the training ground at the time, and immediately went to the hospital after learning the news. The moment she saw her husband Tang Miao, she panicked, and she didn't know what to do, in order to take care of her husband, she asked for leave with the coach and came to the hospital to take care of her.
But at this time, Tang Miao had already sensed that something was wrong, because Zhou Suhong's eyes were no longer shining, as a person with the same profession, coupled with deep feelings, Tang Miao knew that his wife must have made some decision, but he didn't tell him.
Although his body has been paralyzed, Tang Miao is still thinking about his and his wife's volleyball dream, they have gone all the way, isn't it just to achieve higher achievements? Now that he is paralyzed, but his wife is still on the court, at least it can be regarded as a comfort.
Unexpectedly, when he asked his wife about today's training, Zhou Suhong told him that he wanted to retire and come back to take care of his life. Tang Miao immediately became anxious when she heard this, thinking that it was not worth it for Zhou Suhong to give up her dream like this.
The two had a big quarrel over this matter, although this matter was omitted after that, Tang Miao would still emphasize that Zhou Suhong's career was extremely important and could not give up such words.
Obviously, Zhou Suhong herself is still in a state of entanglement.
One is the sense of responsibility of the family, the other is the pursuit of dreams, coupled with the obstacles of her husband, Zhou Suhong will encounter difficulties when she chooses that side now. Tang Miao also saw his wife's entanglement, and thought that he should let go and let his wife be more free at this time.
But Zhou Suhong also insisted very much, thinking that the two were husband and wife, so they should share difficulties and not simply end there. Although Tang Miao was deeply moved, he also knew that if he continued like this, Tang Miao would be worried that he would not be interested in training.
In this case, not to mention his own dreams, he will even destroy his wife's dreams, the women's volleyball team will definitely have more opportunities in the future, and Zhou Suhong should not quit at this time.
So, in order to make up her mind about Zhou Suhong, Tang Miao began to beg Zhou Suhong for a divorce, which was 5 years.
Although her husband is paralyzed, she still wants to participate in the 2008 Beijing Olympics to win glory for the country.
However, because of the long time playing in the game, the teammates not only have decreased in age but also strength, and many of them are seriously injured in the game, so the outcome of this Olympic Games has long been doomed, and the final result is 0:3.
The double blow left Zhou Suhong completely out of breath and even sent to the hospital, but as soon as she thought of another match tomorrow, she began to bounce back and do her best to get a bronze medal back for China.
The moment he won the bronze medal, it was not only Zhou Suhong who shed tears, but also Tang Miao in the ward.
In 2011, the relationship between the two came to an end, but the relationship between the two sides only crossed a new node. After the divorce, Zhou Suhong often came to visit Tang Miao to provide help within her ability, and still respected and took care of his parents very much.
In 2013, Zhou Suhong remarried, and Tang Miao's family who heard the news were happy for her, but even so, Zhou Suhong did not give up taking care of Tang Miao, and said, "He is my own brother."
Her current husband also understood Zhou Suhong's thoughts and expressed his approval of her actions.
In 2023, 44-year-old Zhou Suhong has been appointed secretary of the Provincial Committee of the Communist Youth League of Zhejiang Province, a national department-level cadre, on June 2, 2023, according to the "Youth Zhejiang" platform news: On the afternoon of May 31, the eighth meeting of the Chinese Youth Pioneers in Zhejiang Province was held...... , Zhou Suhong, Secretary of the Provincial Party Committee of the Communist Youth League, delivered a speech. This is undoubtedly an affirmation of her outstanding career as an athlete.
From a former world champion to a current Communist Youth League executive, Zhou Suhong straddles the fields of sports and youth work, which is a testament to her strong learning ability and work potential.
This good news undoubtedly made all Chinese women's volleyball fans feel excited and proud. We also hope that more outstanding Chinese athletes will continue to show their expertise after leaving the competition and retire to the background to promote the development of sports in China. Whether as coaches, managers or decision-makers, they can make a huge contribution to the sport of their country.
Looking back on the emotional experience of the two, there are sweetness and twists and turns. Feelings are like this, they can't be full of poetry and distant tenderness, there will always be painful moments. I hope that everyone can cherish the people around them more and cherish this hard-won relationship.