Speaking of Zhou Suhong, people who pay attention to the Chinese women's volleyball team are no strangers. She is a proud disciple of Chen Zhonghe, and also a representative of the "golden generation" of the Chinese women's volleyball team, known as the "Dinghai God Needle" in the women's queue.
In 2003, Zhou Suhong won the gold medal for the Chinese women's volleyball team at the World Cup and became the pride of the people of the whole country.
In 2004, Zhou Suhong won the Athens Olympic Games, and since then she has ushered in the highlight of her career.
However, Zhou Suhong, who has no disadvantage on the field, is emotionally bumpy.
In November 2011, Zhou Suhong and Tang Miao signed a divorce, and the pair did not come to the end of the sports world. It is touching that they divorced not because of family conflicts, nor because the couple's feelings broke down, but because of love.
Zhou Suhong and Tang Miao
Heavenly Marriage: Equally Matched Love
In April 1979, Zhou Suhong was born in Changxing County, Huzhou, Zhejiang Province. Her parents were boatmen, and as a young child, she spent most of her time on the boat, which created her pungent personality that she was not afraid of.
In 1990, Zhou Suhong was selected by volleyball coach Li Haiqing to go to Changxing County Junior Sports School and began to practice volleyball systematically. It turns out that Li Haiqing's vision is very good. Zhou Suhong is tall, has excellent physical fitness, and ranks among the best in various sports achievements, which is a good seedling at a glance.
In 1994, Zhou Suhong was promoted to Zhejiang Provincial Sports School and was included in the Zhejiang women's volleyball coach Zhang Yunshou. Five years later, Zhou Suhong entered the national team.
In the national team where strong people gather, Zhou Suhong stood out among the team members with her super explosive power.
Because she used a strong serve every time, the ball hit the wall and banged, like a cannon, so Zhou Suhong also got the name "cannon." ”
Zhou Suhong
In 2001, the Chinese women's volleyball team entered the era of Chen Zhonghe. Zhou Suhong, who was brought to play under Chen Zhonghe, also ushered in the golden period of her career. Under the guidance and training of Chen Zhonghe, Zhou Suhong's ball skills improved by leaps and bounds, and soon entered the position of the main force to receive the second pass.
Just when Zhou Suhong was fighting for her career, her love also quietly came.
In 2002, in order to alleviate the pressure caused by high-intensity training, the Chinese men's volleyball team and the Chinese women's volleyball team organized an indoor football match. During the game, a jaw-dropping accident appeared: a member of the Chinese men's volleyball team accidentally smashed the football into Zhou Suhong's face!
The plot of this idol drama takes place in reality, and the result is embarrassing and tragic. Zhou Suhong, who was concentrating on the game, was smashed for a moment, and she looked in the direction where the football flew and saw the culprit of the accident--- Tang Miao.
Zhou Suhong
Tang Miao, three years younger than Zhou Suhong, is the main player of the Chinese men's volleyball team, has won the championship of the national men's volleyball league for four consecutive times, and Is called the "twin stars" of the Chinese men's volleyball team together with Shen Qiong.
However, at this moment, the young Gemini lost his composure on the field, and the whole person looked nervous and confused, and did not seem to expect such an accident.
Tang Miao walked over to Zhou Suhong with the ball in his hand and apologized one after another. Looking at Zhou Suhong's cheeks that had begun to swell, his heart was guilty and remorseful. Zhou Suhong saw that Tang Miao was an inadvertent mistake, and generously comforted him that it was okay, and asked everyone not to blame Tang Miao. Tang Miao felt even more guilty.
The next morning, Tang Miao took a cup of hot milk and eggs and went to the women's volleyball dormitory to apologize. The two took this as an opportunity and gradually became acquainted.
Tang Miao and Zhou Suhong
This is not familiar to know, a familiar to find that the two have a lot of similarities. Their positions in the national team are all main second passes, and the team uniforms are all number 7.
The sweetness of this coincidence makes the hearts of the two people closer and closer, and the feelings quickly heat up.
At the end of 2005, the Chinese men's volleyball team and women's volleyball team gathered together again to hold a New Year party to celebrate the Spring Festival. At the party, Tang Miao took the initiative to invite Zhou Suhong to sing "Love Like a Frenzy", and the atmosphere of the scene was pushed to the highest point by the two. After the song was finished, Tang Miao took out a couple of amulets and courted Zhou Suhong in public.
Zhou Suhong, who already had a good feeling for Tang Miao, did not hesitate to agree to his confession, and the two successfully joined hands under the witness of their teammates.
Because Tang Miao and Zhou Suhong are both members of the national team and are usually very busy in training, their mode of getting along is different from that of ordinary couples. Many times, the two are separated by a training hall to cheer each other up, encourage each other, and make progress together.
Tang Miao and Zhou Suhong
In January 2007, Zhou Suhong and Tang Miao were licensed to marry in Shanghai, and the two built a love nest together on the shore of the beautiful West Lake. To this end, Tang Miao will go to the building materials market every week and decorate this small home with all his heart.
The wedding room is available, and the wedding should be put on the agenda. But at that time, only a year before the opening of the Beijing Olympic Games, Zhou Suhong and Tang Miao, who were also outstanding players in the national team, needed to do their best to prepare for the Olympics, which meant that the two could not hold a wedding immediately.
So, they pushed the wedding time to the end of the competition and tried to walk to the wedding hall with honor.
However, a fate-changing change suddenly occurred.
Tang Miao and Zhou Suhong
Sudden accident: do not abandon in front of the sickbed
On June 13, 2007, Tang Miao went to St. Petersburg, Russia to participate in the exchange competition. After a long flight, the team arrived in St. Petersburg and began to recover. At that time, Tang Miao was conducting back-flip training with a team member. The elbow joints of the two are tightly buckled, and the back is lifted up to the other side, so that the strength of the abdomen is fully exercised.
However, just at the end of this group of training, Tang Miao below was unstable in his center of gravity, and he fell directly to the ground and fell into a coma on the spot. After the accident, Tang Miao was immediately sent to the St. Petersburg Emergency Hospital.
At this point he couldn't even breathe on his own, only slightly perceiving his right hand and part of his neck.
On the 14th, Tang Miao was transferred to the Department of Neurosurgery of st. Petersburg Second Hospital, and the operation was performed in the afternoon of the same day, but the situation was not optimistic.
Tang Miao and Zhou Suhong and others
Tang Miao's cervical vertebrae had some old problems, and at this moment, he fell down without any defenses, and the degree of cervical spine injury was even more serious, which was likely to cause high paraplegia. For an athlete, this is almost a death sentence for a career.
The bad news of Tang Miao's injury soon reached Zhou Suhong's ears. She was shocked and pained, couldn't believe it was true. When he learned that Tang Miao would return to Shanghai on the 19th, Zhou Suhong got the special approval of the women's volleyball team and quickly flew to Shanghai to wait for Tang Miao to return to China.
At this time, Tang Miao's limbs were still unable to move, but the injury had stabilized. After regaining consciousness, Tang Miao called Zhou Suhong as soon as possible.
Tang Miao, who was wearing a ventilator, was extremely weak, and his words were intermittent and difficult to distinguish, but three of the words were incomparably clear, that is, he said to his wife Zhou Suhong: "I love you." ”
Tang Miao
On the 19th, Tang Miao took a special plane to Shanghai Changzheng Hospital to continue treatment. Zhou Suhong saw her husband's weak appearance, suppressed her inner sadness, and comforted her husband that everything would be fine. That being said, how can everything go smoothly?
At that time, Zhou Suhong was preparing for the Russian President's Cup, and the Chinese women's volleyball team considered Tang Miao's injury and proposed to let Zhou Suhong give up the President's Cup and stay in Shanghai to take care of Tang Miao.
Therefore, Zhou Suhong, who temporarily left the arena, began to carefully take care of her paralyzed husband's daily life.
Because Tang Miao is a high paraplegic, unable to eat independently, and even urinating and defecating are not controlled, Zhou Suhong has to feed Tang Miao every day, and also has to urinate and wipe his body. In addition, Zhou Suhong would also massage Tang Miao to prevent his muscles from atrophiing.
Tang Miao and others
In order to better take care of Tang Miao, Zhou Suhong even planned to give up participating in the Beijing Olympic Games.
As soon as Zhou Suhong's idea was proposed, it was opposed by Tang Miao. They had agreed to fight side by side in beijing and win glory for the country. But now that Tang Miao has an accident, it should be up to Zhou Suhong to continue his love.
"I can't go to the Olympics with you, but you can stand on the podium with my expectations." Tang Miao's words changed Zhou Suhong's thoughts, and she rushed to Beijing with her husband's wishes and began training. For a long time, Zhou Suhong was running in beijing and Shanghai.
In Beijing, she wants to suppress the pain in her heart, wholeheartedly train, and strive not to let her state be affected; Back in Shanghai, she did not stop for a moment, taking care of her husband who was sick in bed.
On December 18, 2007, Tang Miao was transferred to Beijing Bo'ai Hospital and began rehabilitation training. In January 2008, Zhou Suhong went to Zhangzhou for training with the women's volleyball team.
Zhou Suhong
Zhou Suhong, who can't rest assured of her husband, will call and text Tang Miao every day. After learning the news that her husband "stood up", Zhou Suhong directly cried on the phone, and the whole person was incoherently excited.
Good news one after another.
On August 23, 2008, the Chinese women's volleyball team defeated the Cuban team and won the bronze medal in the women's volleyball competition at the Beijing Olympic Games.
After the Olympic Games, Zhou Suhong withdrew from the Chinese women's volleyball team and began to take care of Tang Miao wholeheartedly.
Considering that Tang Miao's parents are old and can't accompany the night, Zhou Suhong rented a house near the hospital so that the second elder can rest at night, and he can also cook and wash up. Zhou Suhong herself, on the other hand, lives in the ward 24 hours a day, half a step away. Only when Tang Miao was asleep could she take a short rest.
Zhou Suhong
In September 2010, the Guangzhou Asian Games were about to be held, and Zhou Suhong decided to return to the national team. Before making this decision, she had a small meeting with her family. Tang Miao said at the meeting: "Our whole family supports your decision! ”
Therefore, Zhou Suhong once again lived a life of training while taking care of Tang Miao.
On November 27, 2010, the final scene of the Asian Games women's volleyball team, Zhou Suhong, the "Dinghai God Needle", gave full play to the strength of the veteran of the battlefield, and when he fought against the South Korean team, he fought back in a desperate situation, reversed the situation, won the last gold medal of the Guangzhou Asian Games, and also drew a perfect end to his career.
At this time, nearly four years had passed since Tang Miao was paralyzed. The unspeakable thought in Tang Miao's heart also became clearer and clearer.
Tang Miao
Let go for love: This can be a memory
In fact, as early as 2007, Tang Miao's father, Tang Heping, had the same idea as his son. In the days when Tang Miao was confirmed to be high paraplegic, the kind old father really couldn't bear to drag Zhou Suhong down, so he wanted her to divorce his son.
"Su Hong's child is so good, how many girls can do this now, we Tang family can't be sorry for her." These sentimental words often hung on Tang Heping's lips.
He even said to Zhou Suhong: "You can divorce now, and we can sign for Tang Miao now." ”
In the eyes of the Tang family, Zhou Suhong's inseparability to Tang Miao is because she has great affection for her righteousness, but they can't hold Zhou Suhong for this reason. Her future still has infinite possibilities, and time should not be wasted on Tang Miao.
Tang Miao and Zhou Suhong
And Tang Miao was even more upset about this. His current situation cannot give Zhou Suhong a good future at all, it will only be a drag on her life. He was reluctant to Zhou Suhong, but he couldn't delay her, all he could do was let go.
However, when Tang Miao proposed a divorce to Zhou Suhong, Zhou Suhong responded seriously: "Wait another five years, if you can't stand up after five years, then talk about it." ”
And now, the five-year deadline is just around the corner, and Tang Miao can't wait any longer.
In September 2011, Tang Miao filed for divorce from Zhou Suhong. In November, the two signed a divorce agreement. On the agreement, the Tang family did not put forward any real estate requirements, and even the original marriage room of the two was left to Zhou Suhong. In Tang Miao's view, although divorced, they are still a family, regardless of you and me.
Tang Miao and Zhou Suhong
In May 2012, the news of Tang Miao and Zhou Suhong's divorce appeared on the homepage of major media. Unexpectedly, as soon as the news of the divorce of the two came out, no one sang about their feelings, and even some media lamented: "We still believe in love." ”
The reason is still because of Tang Miao's words: "Letting go is also for love!" At this moment, this disabled man still maintains his generous and open-minded character. Because he loves Zhou Suhong, he is not willing to drag her down and let her exhaust her life on her own body.
As for Tang Heping and his wife, it took five years to complete the emotional transformation of Zhou Suhong. From daughter-in-law to daughter-in-law, the feelings are the same, and the next few days are just a change of lifestyle.
Tang Miao
And the truth is indeed as Tang Heping thought. After Zhou Suhong and Tang Miao divorced, they would still go to the hospital to take care of Tang Miao, and did not ignore him at all because they were divorced. Their love, in the end, continued through family affection. In addition, Zhou Suhong often went to Shanghai to visit Tang Heping and his wife and say some considerate words to the couple.
Tang Heping also often declared that Zhou Suhong was his daughter. Now they are still a family, even if they don't have that marriage certificate.
In 2013, Zhou Suhong entered the marriage hall again, and the groom was Cao Hongbi, a wealthy businessman who was eight years older than her. In October of the same year, Zhou Suhong gave birth to a daughter and officially opened a new chapter in her life.
The former lover found happiness, and Tang Miao was the happiest one. Promoted to the baby's dry father, he expressed congratulations to Zhou Suhong on the phone, and Tang Heping and his wife also sent many gifts to the "little granddaughter".
Tang Miao's family
At present, Tang Miao's physical condition is still not very good, and he is easily sick. But he is optimistic by nature and has always been strong in the fight against the disease. He also liked the piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and under the influence of pen, ink and paper, his heart gradually became quiet.
Now Tang Miao, looking at Zhou Suhong's happiness, was already very satisfied, and there was nothing else to ask for.
Most people in the world envy the love of the white head and the old. But when love becomes a burden to the other party and an excuse to imprison the other party, it is better to give up the obsession and let both parties live with a new self.
Zhou Suhong
The story of Tang Miao and Zhou Suhong is like this, they help each other in the journey of their careers, the two are happy with each other, and they walk hand in hand when the unexpected comes, and they do not abandon it, and their love makes the listener moved.
However, love is not the source of the peach blossom of reality, when Tang Miao's illness became a burden for Zhou Suhong, he personally raised this love and resolutely let her go.
Who's to say it's not a great love?
Resources
Tencent Sports - Zhou Suhong: On the road again in the name of love
"Yangtze Evening News": Tang Miao's injury was replayed throughout the whole process, and the injury was serious and he was afraid of standing hopelessly
Xinhua Net - Men's volleyball player Tang Miao returned to Shanghai for treatment, and his limbs are currently unable to move
Shenzhen News Network - Tang Miao returned to Shanghai for treatment, and the famous orthopedic hospital in China will take on the heavy responsibility
"Guangzhou Daily": Zhou Suhong will not participate in the Russian President's Cup and will stay in Shanghai to accompany Tang Miao
"Yangtze Evening News": Staying in the ward for 24 hours to accompany Tang Miao, Zhou Suhong claimed to have changed from emperor to soldier