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Foreword: Although their tragic experiences are different, the biggest common denominator is nothing more than a mention to countless female audiences: be cautious in marrying!
Regarding Li Jinming's tragic and terrifying experience in a reality show 10 years ago, I believe everyone has heard about it recently.
From the first day when Li Jinming pretended to be his daughter-in-law and came to live at his mother-in-law's house, Li Jinming started the journey of being tortured.
The mother-in-law and sister-in-law teamed up to bully her, and they were full of tricks.
Especially the so-called sister-in-law, the targeting of Li Jinming made the audience itch.
The sister-in-law often makes a bet with Li Jinming that whoever loses will be punished.
When Li Jinming lost, she was willing to gamble and lose to clean the dirty pigsty.
However, when it was the sister-in-law's turn to lose, the other party was cheating.
Li Jinming didn't want to accompany her, and the two quarreled on the spot.
In front of the camera, the sister-in-law did not feel embarrassed at all, and even violently dragged Li Jinming to work together.
The two had a quarrel, Li Jinming bit his sister-in-law, and when the eldest brother learned about it, he wanted to beat Li Jinming, so he asked her to pay 200,000 yuan.
If it weren't for the program team to stop him, I really don't dare to imagine what consequences Li Jinming would have encountered.
In order for the show to continue smoothly, she also bought a gift to apologize to her sister-in-law.
But this family did not accept it, and the bullying of Li Jinming intensified.
The absurd family thinks that Li Jinming is the daughter-in-law given to them by the program team, and they have long adapted to the days of being served by her and regards her as their own daughter-in-law.
The mother-in-law, who suffers from paranoia, once asked Li Jinming to sleep with her son, which scared the program staff to keep vigil at Li Jinming's door at night.
As Li Jinming withdrew from the recording halfway, the family did not hesitate to file a lawsuit to buy Li Jinming, which is simply a realistic version of "Blind Mountain", completely taking criminal abduction and trafficking as a matter of course, and the leadership of the entire village has become abnormal.
This is not the most perverted and terrifying thing, to this day, 10 years have passed, and the leftovers that Li Jinming ate at this house are still kept by them.
01, four female guests, each with their own "Chinese-style horror"
Looking at the account of this perverted social platform, they changed their avatar to the wedding photos taken by Li Jinming at that time.
Every news reveals serious conjectures about Li Jinming, which makes people feel extremely disgusting when they watch it.
It is said that because of this bad show, Li Jinming's passport was detained, and he missed the opportunity to record "Flower Less 2".
Countless people feel sorry for Li Jinming, if she had successfully recorded fewer flowers, she would not have been offended by another show.
However, the truth is that the show was the national ratings champion that year.
The news that Li Jinming missed "Flower Less 2" was also unwavering, and he was even scolded several times for being "squeamish" in the show.
The current regret is nothing more than an afterthought for Li Jinling.
Even if she is not attacked by the outside world, the terrifying experience inside will eventually bring her indelible damage.
Otherwise, she wouldn't have stopped changing dynamics for several years, and until now she is still unmarried.
Let any girl go, see everything she has encountered, who wouldn't be afraid of marriage?
Also participating in the show are Huang Shengyi, Cecilia Cheung, and Choo Ja Hyun.
If you think that Li Jinming deserves to be bullied just because of his low popularity and luck, then you are very wrong.
The treatment of the remaining three female stars in the show is not much better.
Li Jinming's custom of passing through the door is that as long as she picks up the cleaning tools on the ground casually, it means that she will be responsible for the housework at home for the rest of her life.
Choo Ja Hyun is the same here, she wants to wash her mother-in-law's feet first.
And simply washing her feet is not enough, onlookers and neighbors, especially women, have to deliberately make things difficult for her before they give up.
So when Choo Ja Hyun washed the feet of the "mother-in-law", these troublemakers plastered the feet of the "mother-in-law".
Of course, Choo Ja Hyun can't have an opinion, she can only wash the feet of this mother-in-law who has never met patiently over and over again.
After washing her feet, Choo Ja Hyun was also told that she couldn't eat her in-laws' food on the first day of entry, but she still had to wash the dishes at home.
When Choo Ja Hyun washed the dishes and chopsticks folded into a hill, the camera showed her mother-in-law, but there was no empathy at all: "My daughter-in-law is here, I can be liberated." ”
On the other hand, since Huang Shengyi "married" into the door, her mother-in-law has taken her to experience all kinds of farm work, and proudly said that she would be trained to be the most capable daughter-in-law.
The two went up the mountain to pick mushrooms, and the soldiers were divided into two ways, but Huang Shengyi was accidentally lost.
After learning the news, her mother-in-law was very anxious, and hurriedly took the program team to find Huang Shengyi.
I thought that the audience would see a very heartwarming picture, so my mother-in-law has to worry about Huang Shengyi.
However, her first sentence was not to ask Huang Shengyi if there was anything wrong, but to say with a shocked face: "If you lose it, how will I explain it to my son." ”
There is also a scene where it rains lightly in the sky when Huang Shengyi is working, and the father-in-law next to her is very attentive to make an umbrella for her after seeing it, completely ignoring his own wife and getting alone in the rain.
This is miserable, the original intention of the show was to make women's difficulties present in another form, but later when the mother-in-law was interviewed, it exceeded the scope of what they wanted to express.
The mother-in-law said that when she saw her daughter-in-law being taken by her husband, why did she have no one to take care of her?
At this moment, the program team went to dig out the deep meaning of women in the "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law", which was meaningless.
Because this mother-in-law does not have much female consciousness, and even all the "mothers-in-law" arranged in the show have been poisoned by feudal thinking, so naturally there is no awakening of female consciousness.
If the show continues to create conflicts, it will cause the conflict between the two generations of women to deepen.
02. No matter how disrupted the control group is, it can't get rid of the fate of being controlled
Perhaps among the 4 guests, Cecilia Cheung is a little lucky.
After Cecilia Cheung "married" to that family, the other party was very satisfied with the food he cooked, and asked her to contract three meals a day in the future.
Cecilia Cheung readily agreed, but she got up and slept until 8 o'clock on the second day.
The mother-in-law's family would rather wait for Cecilia Cheung to cook for 4 hours than make something to eat first.
Cecilia Cheung saw this scene, and she didn't feel guilty, but she could still grin and greet her mother-in-law with a sweet smile.
After that, Cecilia Cheung slowly washed her face and made up her makeup.
When everything was taken care of, she didn't want to waste time making it for this big family, but made several buckets of instant noodles for them on a whimsical basis.
Seeing Cecilia Cheung's trick, her mother-in-law's family suffered a loss, and they no longer had hope for this daughter-in-law in the future.
The original laziness problem, due to Cecilia Cheung's sweet mouth, has become the queen's behavior in the audience's mouth.
Some people say that Cecilia Cheung is not lucky, she found a reasonable family, but she is very popular, and her mother-in-law does not dare to provoke her.
All in all, judging from the treatment of the four female guests on the show, Cecilia Cheung is the most blessed.
However, if she and Li Jinming really swapped places, Cecilia Cheung would not have this treatment.
Even if it's a movie queen, what about it?
In the face of a family comparable to a pervert, Cecilia Cheung has no psychological problems, so she has to go crazy.
Not to mention Choo Ja Hyun and Huang Shengyi, these two "good old people" were swapped to Li Jinming's mother-in-law's house.
Originally, the original "in-laws" were very suffocated by them, and they couldn't imagine where they would collapse if they were really exchanged.
With their performance in the show, they may encounter deliberate difficulties, and they will only swallow the bitterness in their stomachs.
When everyone felt sorry for Li Jinming, and the remaining three female guests were ignored, it was a very sad picture.
After seeing their similar "Chinese-style horror" encounters, it is clear that the four female guests are equally worth maintaining.
Although their tragic experiences are different, the biggest common denominator is nothing more than one for countless female audiences: be cautious in marrying!
Especially this show, while spreading this concept, it also deepens the stereotype of the outside world about the countryside.
Everyone suddenly felt that even if they had new ideas and super advanced female consciousness, it was simply more difficult to instill those uncivilized savages than climbing to the sky.
In the end, not only did it fail to achieve its goal, but it would make the women there feel like they had become daughters-in-law for many years.
Just like Choo Ja Hyun's "mother-in-law" said, the arrival of her daughter-in-law made her very happy, and the whole person was instantly liberated.
And in this show, we obviously see that men are invisible throughout the whole process, and naturally we will not see that they will stand up to help women work, and will regulate the conflicts between women
03. The revolution has not yet succeeded, and comrades still need to work hard
once allowed the contradictions between female stars and guests to deepen, which went against the original intention of the show.
In the final analysis, "Stars to My Home" is just a show that attracts people's attention and has no bottom line.
It hasn't changed the plight of women, and if you really want to change the status quo between the sexes, why not make a separate show where male stars come to the countryside to help with farm work?
Wouldn't it be more valuable to allow men to work like women?
More than 10 years have passed, society is progressing, and now, this show has no chance to be broadcast at all, let alone any female star who is willing to participate.
With the continuous emergence of programs such as "My Child", "The Man Who Does Housework", and "Mother-in-law", the situation of women seems to have improved, but in fact it is not.
Seeing Li Jinming's leftovers being preserved by the perverted mother-in-law's family until now, it is enough to show that there are still feudal ideas beyond everyone's imagination.
In fact, not only have we not progressed, we have regressed.
Before "Star Comes to My Home", there was a similar program "Joy Falls from the Sky".
The show bought the copyright of the Korean variety show "Great Family", and although the planning plan of these two programs is also sick, it is worth learning from that at least a few of the families that female stars go to are normal people.
The latter's "Joy from the Sky" focuses on showing the difficulties of rural women, rather than the bloody hunting style of mother-in-law abusing her daughter-in-law.
The four big beauties Asa, Jia Ling, Zhu Dan, and Lin Chiling, they all put down their idol baggage and communicated with rural women intimately.
The audience saw their kind hearts, advanced thoughts, and the situation of the female guests was particularly relieved.
The program team took great care of these female guests, and sent Nicholas Tse to be a guest and bodyguard to help them get started, and the female guests didn't need to do too much farm work, everything was very harmonious.
Compared with "Star to My Home", whether it is the first version of Han Zong, or "Joy Falls from the Sky", which bought back the copyright in China, the audience is not as responsive as the former, isn't this a regression?
All in all, we still have a long way to go, and we don't want to make progress, but we don't want to go backwards.