#微头条首发挑战赛#
Accompany her daughter to fight the college entrance examination ~~~~ Winter vacation counterattack
陪伴≠惧怕
At noon today, a friend of mine called me and cried and said, "My son is a demon again, not only does he not go back to school, but he also thinks that the tutor is too slow to speak, and wants me to help him contact others."
This is my lover's classmate child, a senior in key high school, but I haven't been in school since the second semester of my sophomore year of high school, and I can't sleep at night. As long as I go back to school once, I will make all kinds of monsters when I go home. Now I can't meet my father, and after we meet, I fight, and my father goes back to live in the old house in order not to mess with the children. My mother accompanies the child every day, and I have gray hair all night.
I have enlightened this child several times before, although he does not go to school, he gets up at home at 8 o'clock in the morning, and then goes out to find a teacher to make up for one-on-one lessons, a 90-minute fee of about 800 yuan. The key is that this child doesn't talk about making trouble at home, and now complains that when he was a sophomore in high school, his parents shouldn't have gotten used to him, allowed him not to take exams, and allowed him to study at home.
The child's mother said the most: I accompany him, learning is his business, we have to respect the child, he has to figure it out by himself!
I feel that the child's mother has a very gentle personality and a good temper, but she is very afraid of the child Everything is based on the child, and in front of the child, the mother is not easy to speak. I have been with the girl for so long, and the biggest feeling is: companionship ≠ fear. After all, the child is immature, and some things are not well considered, and we parents must be in place what we should say and do. In addition, be specific, don't be reasonable, don't be a Buddhist parent!
Children's problems are often the problems of parents and families
Parents are originals
The child is a photocopy!
[给力]萨亚提女士三句名言:
1.孩子没有问题，如果孩子有问题
一定是父母的问题!
2. A 1% change in parents will definitely bring about a 99% change in children!
3.家庭中只要有一个人愿意改变，整个家庭都会生发改变，甚至整个家族都会改变!
在别人身上找问题，一想就疯。 在自己身上找问题，一想就通。 👍
The learning process is like an 800-meter runway, learning in school is a straight track, and winter and summer vacations are curves. It is difficult to open up the gap on the straight, and only the curve can catch up.
I have a sophomore girl in high school, I am a mother and chemistry teacher, accompany my daughter to fight the college entrance examination, eat, drink, play and study, and pay attention to #[Come and see me] [Come and see me] [Come and see me] [Come and see me] [Come and see me] [Come and see me] [Come and see me]
