It's easy to see what a person looks like.
It is very difficult to see a person's heart, and it is even more difficult to see a person's future.
There are some people who have very small skills and blow very loudly, and it seems that there are friends all over the world, and any city has a business, and it is a business of millions at every turn. When it came to the critical time, it was all over the place
Obviously, whether people have the ability or not, they need to see the essence through the phenomenon, in addition to observing words and colors, but also analyzing and judging.
People who can adhere to the following points are not ordinary.
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Think long-term: Learn with purpose.
Everyone knows that reading can change fate and increase the thickness of life.
But in real life, many people have studied for more than ten years and got a college diploma, but they still have nothing to do.
There are also many people who read books, who are ridiculed as "Kong Yiji", who read a lot, think they have the ability, and refuse to give in when looking for a job. In the end, the high is not low.
People who can really read books do not pick up books and read them, but read books with a goal.
What is the purpose of studying? Is there a direct connection with one's life ideals, and how to transform knowledge into a source of motivation to make money and skills to start a family?
As the saying goes, "Three years old sees old." ”
From the first day you enter the school, you know what you want to do, and gradually know what you can do.
From the teenage years, there is a career plan. When I got to university, I studied and worked hard at the same time, and my life was one step faster.
Liu Bowen at the end of the Yuan Dynasty, at the age of seventeen, studied Cheng Zhu Lixue under Zheng Fuchu, a famous scholar in Chuzhou, and received Confucian education. Later, he was admitted to the Jinshi.
But he found that the Yuan Dynasty was exhausted, so he resigned and went home, and once again entered the mode of reading and writing books.
He wrote his thoughts on the layout of the world into books such as "Yu Ion".
When Zhu Yuanzhang formed the climate, Liu Bowen went out of the mountain and became the founding hero of the Ming Dynasty.
From articles such as "Wushen Datong Calendar" presented by Liu Ji to Zhu Yuanzhang, it can be seen that his goal of reading is very obvious.
We often say, "Nothing is a scholar." ”
Reading and life ideals cannot be closely linked, and the learning skills are disorganized, and life will be confused.
After experiencing the hardships of studying, Liu Bowen said: "Those who have great ambitions must choose what they want, and those who hold great things must choose what they want to vote for." ”
People with ambition will carefully choose what they can undertake, and talented people will choose people who can take refuge. In other words, on the road to growth, choice is greater than effort.
Reality tells us what major to choose to study, and what books to read according to your career. If you can understand and persist, you will be able to learn something.
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Rejection of routines: Cards are not played according to common sense.
Many people, at a certain age, are accustomed to doing things according to experience, and feel that doing so is taking a shortcut.
There are also some people, who are ignorant, always listen to what others say and do what others arrange, but as a result, they are tricked by others and have no personality of their own.
In a life that is too easy to be seen through, it is difficult to have great skills.
People who are really capable are always hidden.
Specifically, it is "the strong guard the weak, the wise guard the foolish, and the rich guard the poor", at any time, they are inferior, but after a long time, they can be one step faster.
He Chengju, a general of the Song Dynasty, found that the terrain in the north was flat and there was no natural barrier, and the army of the Liao State could attack at any time.
In order to maintain the safety of the border pass, he sent people to build a pond in a flat and open place, planted a lot of knotweed flowers, and invited some literati to play in the pond and write poems.
Under the elegant atmosphere, the pond is getting bigger and bigger, and the army of the Liao State is also unguarded, and it is still not far away.
Years later, the pond became a natural barrier to the offensive of the Liao army.
can do great things under the nose of the opponent, such a routine breaks the convention.
The elegance and weakness of the literati eliminated the "tiger-eyeing" attitude of the Liao army. This is the best testimony of "the strong guard the weak".
People are mixed in society, and if everything is done according to the routine, others will perceive it, and will take timely precautions and hinder it.
Conventional methods have proven to be difficult to gain a foothold in society.
Breaking the routine, people have a personality, find a breakthrough in life, and an opportunity for social development.
Chaplin made his words and deeds different from ordinary people and became a comedian. He lamented: "For an artist, if he can break the routine and create with complete freedom, his results are often amazing. ”
There is no routine, that is, there is a way out at any time, and the road can be opened at any time.
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A lifetime of progress: do not set limits on life.
When people have certain achievements, they will become more and more comfortable.
As everyone knows, there is no eternal leisure in the world, and it is necessary to attack and defend.
Any kind of ability is only very powerful temporarily, because "change" is eternal in all things in the world.
With the trajectory of life, constantly changing, people's ability will never be eliminated.
Du Pre, a big man in the last years of the Three Kingdoms, he made great contributions to the establishment of the Jin Dynasty. Some called him the "Terminator of the Three Kingdoms".
After the establishment of the Western Jin Dynasty, many ministers began to enjoy happiness and did not want to forge ahead.
Du Yu pondered, changed from a general to a water conservancy expert, built the first pontoon bridge on the Yellow River, improved the bellows for iron smelting, and made many ancient utensils.
Someone praised Du Pre: "Erudite and versatile, it used to be called a fetish." ”
At what age, we will do whatever we do, and at what age, we will set up whatever rules and develop our careers...... As people get older, everything is getting better, and this is the ability of life.
If you don't dare to break the highest limit of life, you will trap yourself at a certain age, so that "if you don't advance, you will retreat", which needs to be recognized.
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"People have the ability to know at a glance", this is the way to recognize people, but also the dynamic management of life.
By observing others, you can change your attitude towards society and learn from others how to change your fate. It can also allow you to make friends who have the ability to form a pattern of mutual promotion.
Learn with a goal in mind.
Break the routine and work with winding paths.
Don't set limits on life, go farther and farther.
May we accumulate steps to thousands of miles, accumulate ability, and do great things.
Author: Cloth Clothes Coarse Food.
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