Sitting, this seemingly ordinary action, contains a wealth of psychological information. Whether it's a meeting at work, a class at school, or a family gathering, people will sit in different postures, such as stilting their legs, or putting their legs together, or crossing their ankles, etc. The way people sit often reveals their inner world.
1. Keep your body straight, your legs and heels close together, and your hands on your knees
People in this sitting posture tend to be introverted, humble, emotionally conservative and reserved, not good at words, and appear gentle and reserved in their behavior and language. They pay attention to the feelings of others and are always considerate of others. In their work, they are very conscientious and meticulous, cherish the fruits of their labor, and will never waste time or extravagance, they are more inclined to a simple lifestyle.
2. Cross your hands on either side of your leg and fold your left foot over your right leg
People in this sitting position usually possess superior intellect, firmly follow their beliefs, and put them into action to achieve their goals. They possess excellent coordination skills and often take on the role of leaders in groups, earning the trust and following of those around them. However, sometimes they may be so basked with victory and happiness that they ignore the feelings of others and appear carried away. This personality allows them to excel in their pursuit of success, but they also need to be careful to balance their relationships with others so as not to get carried away and hurt those around them.
3. Sit with your hands behind your head and half lying down
This sitting posture is a comfortable and comfortable sitting posture, revealing their easy-going and casual character. They have rigorous logical thinking, strong perseverance, focus on efficient handling of affairs, and are able to skillfully balance work and life. They don't have much desire for money, and they buy things intuitively rather than shopping around, so sometimes they have financial troubles.
4. Place the palms facing each other in the middle of the knees, the knees together, and the calves are separated with the heels in a figure of eight
People in this sitting position tend to be shy, not good at socializing, and blush and upset when they say a few words, so they are often seen as representatives of the "conservative faction". They follow traditions, stick to the old ways, are not very good at expressing themselves, and can sometimes find it difficult to understand. At work, they prefer to rely on past successes, are not good at innovation, and are suitable for those who have a fixed pattern of work. Despite this, they are very sincere with their friends and delicate with their feelings. However, due to their introverted and quiet personality, they are often overlooked. This type of person may need more time and opportunities to demonstrate their worth, while also needing the understanding and tolerance of others. Although they are not very social, once trust and friendship are established, they will show unforgettable sincerity and warmth.
5. Get used to placing your hands on the navel, with your thighs apart and your heels together
People in this sitting posture are typical of the man of action. Once you make up your mind, you take immediate action. Challenges are their joy, and they move forward bravely. They have the temperament and authority of leaders, and while not all genuinely respect them, they are often intimidated by their invisible power. They never back down, dare to take responsibility, and are never afraid to face pressure. However, it can be troublesome when dealing with relationships, as their firmness and decisiveness can sometimes be misinterpreted as being strong and arrogant. Emotionally, they are more possessive and often interfere in their lovers' lives, which can easily cause the other party's disgust and resistance. Therefore, they need to learn to be more balanced and understanding, and to respect the freedom and independence of others in order to build a healthy and harmonious relationship.
6. Cross your hands on your thighs and bring your legs and heels together
People in this sitting posture are generally considered to be more rigid and stubborn, and they are not easily receptive to other people's opinions, even if they know that others are right. They give people a haughty, aristocratic feel and exude a strong romantic temperament. They strive for perfection and are passionate about literature and art, but they lack the spirit of practicality, and many ideas cannot be put into practice. They are not flexible and therefore often suffer setbacks in real life. Despite this, their persistence and pursuit of beauty are still worthy of respect, as they work hard for their ideals and beliefs. Perhaps, they need more open-mindedness and practical experience to better adapt to the changes in real life.
7. Place your hands crossed, with your right leg folded on your left leg and your lower legs close together
People in this sitting position look amiable and approachable on the outside, but in reality they are aloof. They will not reach out unless they are sincerely and sincerely requested. They are rational, tactful, and selfish, but they have excellent work ability because their indifference allows them to eliminate external distractions and focus on their work. They are very popular on the surface, but in reality it is difficult to have one or two real bosom friends. Such people may need more understanding and affection, and perhaps only in sincere emotional communication will they be able to let go of their inner indifference and embrace true friendship.
8. There is no fixed place for the hands to rest, and the legs are widely spaced apart in an open posture
People in this sitting position love novelty and can even lead trends. They are accustomed to a relaxed and pleasant sitting posture, always smiling, and do not care about the criticism of others, so they are very popular. However, their living habits and thinking patterns are very different from ordinary people, and they are easy to give people the impression of frivolity and even bring troubles to the family.
9. Place your hands on the armrests of the chair with your jacket open and sit upright in the chair with your legs apart
This sitting posture symbolizes honesty and comfort. When two people adopt this open sitting position, it means that there are no barriers between each other and communication is more unimpeded. This sitting posture shows trust and relaxation between both parties, which is conducive to building a deeper relationship and making communication more enjoyable and effective.
10. Bend one leg and rest horizontally on the other leg with your body leaning back on the chair
This sitting posture shows a competitive mentality and can sometimes even make people feel arrogant. Especially in negotiations, if the other party takes this posture for a long time, it often means that the two sides are at an impasse unless you are willing to make concessions. Because this sitting position sends a clear message: "I won't change my decision, you can figure it out!" The other party's attitude is resolute, and you may need to make more flexible adjustments to solve the problem. In this case, you may need to reconsider your position and seek a mutually acceptable solution to reach a consensus.
In general, people's sitting posture is not just a posture, but also a projection of psychology. By observing the sitting posture of others, we can get a glimpse of their personalities.