I read such a sentence in "Border City": "Everything has an accidental coincidence, but the result is like the inevitability of fate." ”
Indeed, in this world, everything has cause and effect, and everything that happens is not accidental. To put it in layman's terms, that is, whatever you sow, you will have the effect, and whoever you are, you will have the cause.
If you put it in terms of love, as Yu Dan said: "What kind of self you are, what kind of love you will meet." "After all, things gather like and people are grouped.
So, what kind of person you are, what kind of people you attract.
But here, not only about love, but also about life, what kind of person you are, what kind of people you will attract, who you are, who you will meet!
Looking at the world, it is not difficult for us to find that positive and enterprising people must be surrounded by some optimistic colleagues and friends, and decadent and flat people must be surrounded by some fox friends who do not want to make progress......
After all, in daily interactions, people's principles of life and attitude towards life will automatically screen some people and block some people, and in the end, the remaining ones must be people with the same way.
My son is almost thirty years old, and in the early years, he was urged to talk to the partner every year, and even we launched the seven aunts and eight aunts to match, but he was unmoved, and he even rejected meeting with the girl, let alone adding other people's WeChat.
By chance, at a company dinner, a female colleague met each other, and fell in love all of a sudden.
We asked him what was going on, why he always resisted before, and fell in love all of a sudden. He said that it was fate, and at a glance for ten thousand years, he fell in love with each other at once, and felt that the other party was the person he was waiting for, which just confirmed Yu Dan's words: "What kind of self you are, what kind of love you will meet." ”
Therefore, we have reason to believe that those who have a correct outlook will definitely get together with like-minded friends, and if their souls are compatible and their temperaments are like-minded, they will meet sooner or later.
This is the case with Yu Boya, the eldest doctor of the Jin Kingdom, and the woodcutter when they were children, two people who originally had no intersection, but they met because they had the same unique views on string music and became lifelong confidants. After Yu Boya died, he never played the piano again. "Acquaintances are all over the world, and bosom friends can be few", the story of Boyazi has become a model of friendship and confidants in later generations.
Indeed, all the unexpected encounters in this world are not accidents, but the result of mutual soul recognition. If the soul is similar, even if it is thousands of mountains and rivers and oceans, they will come to meet you.
People are like this, who you are, you will meet, and what kind of person you are determines what kind of people you meet. Excellent people will make you more excellent, and successful people will help you to succeed.
Therefore, for the rest of your life, you must strive to become an excellent person, and you must also choose the people who will walk with you along the way, because whoever you are, you will meet whom!