Ushinsky once said: "Good habits are human capital, and this capital will continue to grow, and you can enjoy its interest for the rest of your life." ”
Good habits can drive children to succeed in life, while bad habits can drive children off the right path.
When growing up, children will always have some bad behaviors, and when these bad behaviors become natural, they can even ruin the child's life.
When children have the following five bad habits, parents must help them correct them in time, and cannot let them go.
Addicted to electronics
When the iPad was a big hit around the world, a reporter asked Steve Jobs, "Your kids must love the iPad too, right?"
Unexpectedly, Jobs replied: "They haven't used IPad yet, and we restrict children from using electronic devices at home." ”
Steve Jobs restricted their children's use of electronic devices, while many parents used mobile phones as a savior for their children's sake of tranquility.
I don't know how to control the time when children use electronic products, so that children's lives are surrounded by games and short videos, and mobile phones and tablets are not left in their hands.
Over time, children tend to become addicted to this short-term pleasure and lose the ability to think deeply.
They will also lose interest in the behaviors in life that have little happiness and require effort to be happy (reading, studying, exercising).
It can even make children in the developing period stunted, emotionally uncontrollable, irritable, etc.
Therefore, parents must set an example and set a good time for the use of electronic products to enrich their children's spare time.
Irregular life
Marx once said: "Everything has a law, and following the law will make us live better." ”
A regular life can make people physically and mentally healthy, and it makes it easier for us to develop good habits in our studies and life.
But in real life, some children often don't eat on time, do their homework, don't sleep at night, and always make noise in bed.
During the long vacation or winter and summer vacations, it is more like a wild horse that has escaped, unable to wake up in the morning, refusing to sleep at night, and having a completely irregular life.
Irregular lifestyle habits can affect a child's physical and mental health, reducing a child's quality of life and well-being.
Irregular eating may lead to gastrointestinal damage, irregular sleep can affect the next day's study life, and even affect mental development.
If there is an irregular life: going to bed late every day, skipping breakfast, etc., it is a drain on the child's body and spirit.
Regularity is deep self-discipline, and before children are truly self-disciplined, parents should have a firm attitude and help children develop a regular life.
Ignore the rules
Wang Shi once interviewed Yao Ming at a public welfare event, and the first question he asked was: "What is the purpose of letting children play basketball?"
Yao Ming replied: "Through basketball, let them know how to abide by the rules, and they must first abide by the rules of the game in everything they will do in the society, and then think about how to do it." ”
Around us, there are too many parents who give their children enough love, but they only fall behind in the lesson of rule education.
They always use age as an excuse to cover up some of their children's bad behaviors, such as: making loud noises in public, littering, and not queuing up as required.
If parents indulge in it, children will cross the red line again and again, accumulating and developing bad habits.
Once this kind of bad habit of ignoring the rules is formed, it will become worse when you grow up, and it is difficult to correct it.
Sometimes, it may seem like a disadvantage to follow the rules, and it seems that those who break the rules can be accommodated, but in fact, following the rules is a form of self-protection.
Parents should set good rules for their children, so that children have a sense of reverence for the rules, and don't let children pay a painful price for not following the rules.
Too dependent on parents
Goethe once said: "We can grow up under the protection of our parents and relatives, but in the final analysis we have to rely on ourselves." ”
The process of children's growth is actually a process of self-reliance, but in real life, many parents do not understand this.
They think that as long as they have good grades, no matter how old the child is, they will always take care of the child in every detail and do everything for the child.
As a result, this kind of "hard work" has instead developed the child's inertia and dependence, so that the child will not be able to do even the simplest housework.
Children who grow up under the excessive protection of their parents are accustomed to calling their mother when something happens, and when they leave their parents one day, they find that they don't know anything.
Over time, children will lose the ability to do things on their own and think independently, and will think that their parents will help them with everything.
When I grow up, I can only become a "gnawing old man" who relies on my parents for survival, and I enjoy my parents' efforts with peace of mind, but I never think about returning.
In fact, every child has a sense of independence, parents may wish to be "lazy" and learn to let go and let their children explore on their own.
Procrastination is severe
The young writer Lu Sihao once said: "Waiting and procrastination are the things that are most likely to crush a person's fighting spirit in the world." ”
What is the experience of having a child with "severe procrastination" at home? I believe many parents have a deep experience:
It's very grinding to get up in the morning, and after getting up, dressing and washing, eating breakfast, going to school and doing homework are very grinding, and I like to procrastinate in everything.
You urge him to move, and in the end it becomes that the more the child procrastinates, the more anxious the parents be, and the more the parents urge, the more the child procrastinates.
Severe procrastination can have a negative impact on children's physical and mental health, such as strong feelings of self-blame and guilt.
It's normal for children to try to escape some uncertain, boring, and potentially failed task.
However, many people's habit of procrastination is cultivated from an early age, and parents should make their children aware of the harm caused by friction.
Relying on children's self-control alone is definitely difficult to overcome, parents must help children develop learning and living habits, and refuse to procrastinate.
Write at the end:
As the saying goes, "three days of bad learning, three years of good learning", and developing good habits requires perseverance to support.
Looking old at the age of three, in fact, no matter what stage of the child, the cultivation of habits and character is very important.
During primary and secondary school, parents must pay attention to the cultivation and edification of their children's good habits, which will benefit their children for life.
May children stay away from bad habits, shape good habits, and live a beautiful and wonderful life.