Men will behave differently with different women.
He may be extremely fond of a woman, using money and gifts to please the other party, but he will be stingy with another woman, and he is not willing to pay for two yuan of mineral water when he goes out on a date.
He may shush a woman in all kinds of ways, and if she has any problems, he will immediately jump out to help her solve them, but he will ignore the other woman, she will tell her that she has come to her aunt, and he will only say that you drink more hot water, and it will be good to drink hot water.
He may have all kinds of worries and care for one woman, but he will be alienated and indifferent to another woman.
Why is there such a big difference between the same man and another woman? In fact, the reason is very simple, the question is how deep his love for a woman is? If he loves very much, he will definitely treat it with sincerity, and if he does not love, of course it will be perfunctory.
Another reason is that they just want to have fun and don't intend to be responsible for each other.
In the eyes of men, there are three types of women, who just want to have fun with each other and don't want to have a serious relationship with each other.
One, the woman who took the initiative to post it upside down
In the emotional world of men, they almost abide by one principle - those who come do not refuse.
For the girl who took the initiative to post it, whether he liked the other party or not, he would not refuse, but he did not explicitly accept it, because he needed the other party's liking to satisfy his inner narcissism.
He will enjoy the feeling of being liked by others, which can bring great satisfaction.
In their eyes, a woman who takes the initiative to post it is not worthy of him, it is because he is too attractive, so she will stick herself.
They would enjoy her, but they would not give her anything, because he was not going to be serious with her in the first place, he just wanted to play with her.
He will also take her outside to show off, brag to his buddies about how good he is, and someone will take the initiative to stick to him and be good to him.
They occupy this girl on the one hand, and then ride a donkey to find a horse, looking for the girl they really like, and when the girl they like appears, they immediately replace the girl.
Second, I feel sorry for the girl he doesn't need him to pay
When a man really falls in love with a woman, he will definitely have a sense of giving, he will want to give her all the good things, and he will express his love by being good to her.
He will never be stingy with the woman he loves, no matter how poor he is, he will never let her suffer a little with him. This is also his way of expressing his boyfriend's strength, and it is a way to prove his ability.
If a girl is with him, but she always feels sorry for him, she doesn't want any of his contributions, whatever he gives her, she has to reject him on the grounds of distress.
At first, he may be grateful for the woman's sensibility, but gradually he will take it for granted.
At the same time, he will also feel some frustration because the woman doesn't want him to pay and feels sorry for him, feeling that he is too incompetent.
A woman who always feels sorry for him and is reluctant to accept his contributions, he will not feel distressed, he will feel that he is too attractive to attract such a woman who is good to him.
But he won't be serious about him either. A man will only be serious about the woman who accepts his contributions, because it is what he spends real money on, so he cherishes it extraordinarily.
Three, a woman who can easily forgive him for making mistakes
A woman who is let down will often be let down all the time.
The women who have been hurt the most must be those women who have no bottom line and always forgive the mistakes made by men again and again, because it is too easy to forgive, so he will continue to hurt again and again, because he knows that she will definitely forgive.
The truth is very heart-wrenching, but this is the case, just look at the women around you who are hurt and have a lot of holes in their hearts, which one does not forgive each other again and again, and finally in exchange for greater harm.
Because you forgive the other party too easily, the other party will feel in their hearts that you can be hurt by him, and it turns out that he hurt you, and you don't have to pay any price.
Because you have suffered a lot of damage from him, you also know what he is like, he knows that his image with you has collapsed, but he is broken and broken, and he will not be serious with you, so he only plays with you, and he does not plan to have any good ending with you.
For the above three types of women, the man will really just play with them, even if he will marry home in the end, it is only because the other party can bring him value, and he just enjoys the value he wants.
He won't be serious about you, he won't be responsible for you, and he won't be good to you.
If you also want to get the sincerity of a man and want to be taken seriously by him, then don't be a woman with the above three types, if you are like this, start to make changes from now on.
Otherwise, in the end, you will only be treated by him as a woman to play with, and he will kick you away when you are tired of playing. It not only wastes your precious youth, but also makes you lose faith in love.
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Illustration of the article|Stills from "In the Clouds".